Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

HOW DO I PERSUADE MY PARENTS TO LET ME GO TO MY FRIEND'S NEW YEAR PARTY? It's just me and 3 other friends and one of my freinds house. I live in America but I came to INdia to visit and I missed 2 weeks of school. So as a result of my parents I have so mcu homework which I have no clue how I'll finsih in time and I was missing out with stuff my friends were doing. Now my mom won't let me go to the party. We already have a party that these people invited the whole family to. There is no one there for me to play with and I wont have fun espeially knowing I cant get out early for the party unless you help me find a way. My moms like we already have a plan and I'mnot changing it!! Well I havent asked my dad yet. He will come home at night. Usually when he comes back I say hi and happily be nice and greet him. Maybe I shouldnt this time and he'll ask me whats wrong and I'll get sympathy from him? Usually he says he'll talk to mom or he might let me.Usually he agrees w/ mom please help!:-(

2006-12-26 22:38:51 · 1 answers · asked by heyitspreeti 5 in Family

I have a problem as follows - This will be my boyfriend and i's first new year together and i presumed we'd be spending hogmannay together. He text me last night to say that he'll see me "after the new year". He lives about 40 miles away from me and is spending it with his mates as usual like every year. I'm a bit upset as this is our first chance to spend new year together as last year i wasn't here (i lived 200 miles away). So, do i let rip that i'm unhappy, do i tell him i went out and had a great time, or do i tell him i stayed in the house on my own crying with a bottle of wine? He's all for me going out and having fun, so if i tell him i did this, he'll be really happy. I feel like i want to make him feel guilty, but by telling him i stayed in on my own he'll think i'm a billy-no mates...... What would you do? Thanks!

2006-12-26 22:38:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Over the holidays I was at my sisters house and met her bf for the first time. At first he seemed like a really nice guy. He is in his late 30's. Then I noticed him checking out our 19 year old niece in a kind of creepy way. He was more than just appreciateing her beauty. I got the creeps big time. My sister is crazy about this guy. My bf doesnt think I should tell. I dont know. Do you think he crossed the line? I know guys check out girls, but this is family to his girlfriend. How bad is this? I think my niece was uncomfortable with it also.

2006-12-26 22:37:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Now married for two years and really love my wife however she has always been concervative when it comes to sex and always wondered if she really enjoyes me. I had no problems with previous woman and they said they really enjoyed me. When I asked my wife six months ago why she don't feel much from sex she said her previous partners were large men and she prefers as she said the size of a large cucumber. For me I have a 7.5" penis and now I feel even uncomfortable having sex with her. Is it true while our love is great a woman would still think of her previous larger partner when it comes to sex.

2006-12-26 22:36:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 22:35:42 · 12 answers · asked by manchestaguy 1 in Singles & Dating

We are in the relationship now for 2,5 years, I want to break-up with him saveral times because he is selfish and disrespect at me all the time, but he knows how to make up with me again, and i buy it. But then, I can not take it anymore, i want to leave him, but I dont know how....I always feel sorry for him, who gonna take care of him etc...help i dont know what to do, i want to move on with my life...better life i guess...

2006-12-26 22:35:26 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Blue 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how?

2006-12-26 22:34:37 · 17 answers · asked by Alexandra 1 in Singles & Dating

i ended my 6 year relationship with my fiance 9 months ago. Since then, ive been enjoying the single life!lol

at the mo, i have 4 guys chasing me. im just getting used to the attention from guys again.

one of these guys i really really fancy. ive know him for a while. he was kind of chasing me when i was in my past relationship too.

we have kissed eachother a few times and i have stayed over his place a few times. he does want to take things further sexually though. i admit, i have been abit of a tease!lol

whenever i meet up with this guy, i dont hear from from him for weeks!he ignore my messages too so i end up chasing him. i eventually give up and he starts chasing me again, yet, when we meet up again the same thing happens all over again!

why is he behaving like this???hes the only guy im interested in!

hes the only one who knows about my past relationship as i met him through my ex. he knew my ex but they were never friends and my ex has now moved away.

2006-12-26 22:34:34 · 7 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy always forgave me even after I treated him really bad like cut him off my blog and IM and sent him many mixed signals...all the drama. I think he is a nice guy because he said he could Never get angry at me and still try to find me once and talked to me like nothing happened.. what do you think its because he is a nice guy or he really cares for me? i think he know I am falling for him but he know s I have a BF and I now told him I want to just be good friends,,but he never tells me anything like when he is going back to his base..so i am wondering...

2006-12-26 22:32:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

making someone closer to yoiu

2006-12-26 22:31:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 22:30:52 · 17 answers · asked by roro 1 in Singles & Dating

What is it that a man likes from a woman to love her?

2006-12-26 22:29:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just answered a question so it got me thinking is all.

2006-12-26 22:25:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What makes you most confident or would what make you more comfortable?

2006-12-26 22:23:36 · 14 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

O.k so this is my problem, I am fine seeing my boy in a group, and sometimes we seperate from the gruop. My problem is that I never see him on a one-on-one basis, not because he doesn't want to but because I don't! It's not a normal reaction and it always happens to me. My problem is that I get nervouse and end up canceling. This is obviosly a problem because we can't have a good realtionship without one-on-one time. See, he isn't very good at comunicating but I get a feeling it is because I've pushed him away. It's not just with him thought, I've always been this way, it's random I get nervous about silly things like having to go to the bathroom and then what will he think and stuff.. lol any insight into how this can be solved would be great!

2006-12-26 22:21:49 · 5 answers · asked by missy2589 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 22:20:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-26 22:18:57 · 11 answers · asked by liz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 22:17:53 · 29 answers · asked by xlottyxx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know what lust is, because every time I see a girl I am attracted to I think about how much I want to bang her. Not that I do because that would be wrong. But I have never feel in love before is it much different? If it is how can you tell. Can you tell from the first moment you see each other? What are the signs?

2006-12-26 22:16:56 · 13 answers · asked by RIP 1 in Singles & Dating

first of all im 15..
i liked this boy, he was my friend, his names ryan, he acted like he liked me too, and kissed me once on the lips, then i found out that after it he got a girlfriend, who by the way looks like a total sl*t, so anyway i have a stupid mouth so i accidentally blurted out once that what he did (getting a girlfriend) made me mad, and he said there was nothing between us (me and him) and that kiss was just a friends kiss..so anyway he totally broke my heart and i cant stand him even though i still like him.. so now ive got a boy friend (jake) and i dont really like him that much, but hes really hot.... anyway he's always out partying and getting drunk, and i dont really care, cuz like i said, i dont like him that much,im still not over ryan, and for some reason i keep thinking that dating jake will make me feel better about myself but it actually just makes me feel like a wh*re, and well i cant stop thinking about ryan and seeing him with that sl*t! it makes me so mad!!

2006-12-26 22:14:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i used to work at a cafe where i met this guy that i really started to like, he was a customer who worked close by. we were getting closer however i got offered a much better job (which is still close by) so i left the cafe. i havent seen the guy since and i dont have his number or anything. i still really am interested!!
what should i do??

2006-12-26 22:13:55 · 6 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 in Singles & Dating

why we can't be perfect at anything??
why???
means: i alaways the top of my class but i can't say a funny jockes
my friend hate school but all the girls loves him cuz he tells some funny jockes
i always cook very well but i hate cleaness
my dad hate cook but he likes cleaness
"that's an example, just an example"
so why we can't be perfect at anything we do it??

2006-12-26 22:11:26 · 12 answers · asked by farrouha 1 in Friends

Men in India will shortly be rendered as instinct species. Look at the laws. If you marry and cant do well in?
marriage, you are victim of domestic violence and get in prison along with your parents. If you dont marry and fell in live in relationship out of compulsion because your partner want to know how you would actually perform once married. Now todays news paper report says even women in Live in can demand from men the maintainance before parting ways. If you do not at all show emotions towards opposite sex, you are not animal.... can anyone tell what does the future hold for Indian Men?

2006-12-26 22:10:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am inlove with him..He's extremely smart (intellectual), artistic, he's dedicated to his work. It makes me feel as if he's much more metally developed than me. Sometimes you would least expect a nerdy guy to fall for a girl rite? Thats the conflict here...It doesn't mean that I have a low self- esteem, because I know that I'm talented and smart also. But because he's extremely smart then he would'nt care to take a peek of me. Will you guys set ur eyes on a girl who u think is more dumb than you?

2006-12-26 22:08:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think maybe there could be a problem. for example if she gets hurt he laughs at her. Or if she is sick he doesnt even care. she hurt her leg and he thought it was funny. He is nice to her most of the time but I feel like its not sincere. Like he is acting or something. Do you think he just doesnt care about her. he also totally checks out her friends when she isnt looking. should I tell her? Should I tell her he is a jerk?

2006-12-26 22:07:54 · 13 answers · asked by meeahcat 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 22:06:35 · 5 answers · asked by xovenusxo 5 in Singles & Dating

we share a toothbrush sometimes
eat each others spit (yes actual spitting in one anothers mouths and then eating it. it tastes good.)
share gum.
is there anything else kinda like those things that we can do? i'm not creative enough to think of anything

2006-12-26 22:06:21 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ just a girl ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Assume that I asked to drink blood from your wrist. You know that I don't have any STDs and neither do you. You know that it won't make you or I sick. Would you let me do it? Would you want to drink my blood as well?

2006-12-26 22:06:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

isnt there enough people on the planet anyway..

2006-12-26 22:06:05 · 9 answers · asked by Ratt 2 in Singles & Dating

And I know I shouldn't because it's bad for me, but this is the experimenting time in my life, and sometimes i smoke ciggarettes and pot, not often only rarely, but the guy i like doesn't smoke and is totally against it. He's never been drunk before, and has never done anything that his parents wouldn't approve of.
I like this guy heaps what should I do?

2006-12-26 22:05:55 · 14 answers · asked by alicemustlie 1 in Family