Now married for two years and really love my wife however she has always been concervative when it comes to sex and always wondered if she really enjoyes me. I had no problems with previous woman and they said they really enjoyed me. When I asked my wife six months ago why she don't feel much from sex she said her previous partners were large men and she prefers as she said the size of a large cucumber. For me I have a 7.5" penis and now I feel even uncomfortable having sex with her. Is it true while our love is great a woman would still think of her previous larger partner when it comes to sex.
2006-12-26 22:36:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And yet some women REFUSE to tell you about their previous partners as if it wasn't your business....and this happens to be one of the reasons why. She's been around man, and odds on her she got big dudes...so now that's her requirements is someone either just as big or bigger than those other dudes....that's why i'm so GLAD i'm marrying a virgin....
ANYWAY, well for 2 years and she hasn't cheated on you she's in it for the companionship and security you offer....yet unfortunately sexually it's gonna take some work man. You're gonna have to push the envelope to get her mind off the ....'others' so to speak. Get toys, learn some more techniques, etc. OH...and SHE has to do some work too, she can also be the spoiled type who just sits there and takes it and doesn't give the effort to make it a 'mutual' love, expecting 'THE MAN' to do all the work and make it good for both of you....THAT'S GHETTO, so if she's just being the lifeless sex toy and not makin it work for herself...then you need to get her off her lazy *ss and MAKE it work. Just cause you're 7.5" dont' mean she can't get nothing out of it....that's above average dude...most women can do wonders with that.
But either or people reminisce it's true...but she chose YOU, not the mandingos before...so she can make it work with YOU...it's a good 2 years of marriage, honestly she should be mature enough to work with you and get that match made in heaven sex all the time.
2006-12-26 22:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!!! A little hint men... women adjust to thier partners size. Sorry to hear your women is incensitive. Since she was rude enough to say that 7.5 inches (which is plenty) is below her standards, maybe you should suggest she does some kegal exercises to tighten up. Some positions that help for men that are smaller, (which it doesn't sound like you are) is doggy-style. Cowgirl, her on top, or you on top with one of her legs over your shoulder.
2006-12-27 07:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jessalee01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront her about it. If she is that hung up about it, then maybe it might be best that you two consider revamping your sex lives, get counciling, or split up. Be forewarned that if left unresolved, she has a high likelyhood of cheating on you, if she already hasn't done so.
2006-12-27 06:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by J R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you love this insensitive BYTCH why?
You are a better man than most,
does she have fried eggs on her chest or some other 'flaw'. Why is her hole so loose.
That was extremely rude of her to tell you and you are owed and apology!
2006-12-27 06:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by xxxxxxx b 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
..... if you were undersized,.... why did she marry you in the first place..... Cut her loose, if she's not satisfied, and tell her not to tie up people's live's like that again.... That was both thoughtless and selfish!....
2006-12-27 07:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a really loose choochy, i dont know how u get off on it
2006-12-27 06:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by roberto lopez 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send your wife this way, I'll stretch her out for you. Then you can shove a baseball bat up there.
2006-12-27 06:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
since u r a fool,she got to behave foolish
2006-12-27 06:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by anis118030 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋