We are in the relationship now for 2,5 years, I want to break-up with him saveral times because he is selfish and disrespect at me all the time, but he knows how to make up with me again, and i buy it. But then, I can not take it anymore, i want to leave him, but I dont know how....I always feel sorry for him, who gonna take care of him etc...help i dont know what to do, i want to move on with my life...better life i guess...
2006-12-26 22:35:26 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Blue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow...Thank you guys for ur answers, give me the strenght, the hearth and the understanding about what kinda relationship im end up right now...what a mess...I think most of the answer I already thought about it, only I dont have the gut yet, I am scared.....but I have to move on with my life....I have to be strong
2006-12-27 00:51:42 · update #1
Better life how about normal. No women should have to go through what you're going through. He's selfish and disrespectful He was never the man you feel in love with. It was all a act and couldn't keep it up for ever. So now he is just being his self which is selfish and disrespectful.Then every time you try to leave he uses all his string to be the guy he was acting like at the beginning of the relationship trying to charm you. he sounds like he is getting dispirit and trying to make you feel guilty. He must feel you trying to leave.Feeling sorry is no reason to stay and no real man would use it keep a women. Just leave it will be hard at fist but it will get easier.Think of this way if you stay you'll have a life of pain it's only going to get worse. you'll be over him in months because he didn't treat you right. And try to get help from a family member or friend I'm shore they will be glad to help. Don't feel guilty or failed for leaving remember it's not your fault no matter how much he tries to make you believe it. hope that helped. good luck! You deserve it for putting up with him.
2006-12-26 22:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this world all that matters is YOU. If he is selfish go out and find a new partner. I have friends who are married or single and we enjoy together life we have. My relationship is great, but we all need to be satisfied with ourselves. Go out and party or go to the cinema, gallery or concert together with friends. Break your routine with something you enjoy in. Make your life more happy. It is simple. Avoid situations that make you depressed. Bad relationship is worse than being single with good and happy friends by your side.
2006-12-27 06:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Nelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the "I thought he was better" club!
When I'm reading your letter I think it's about my life, just with a little difference - married for 7 years, 2 children.
other goes the same as you - he's selfish, he thinks that saying sorry can heal all wounds, I can't leave him because I still have feeling for him (that's my big mistake) and I feel sorry for him because he's like a big child.
2006-12-27 06:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there..dump him and move on, dont waste your time trying to take care of him..you only have one life to live and you gotta take care of yourself before anyone else.
2006-12-27 06:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow....been there and done that. you didnt actually know him when you met him.......bag out now and dont play the florence nightingale.........it is not your job to take care of him.....you are doing him a favor by forcing him to take care of himself and doing him a diservice by doing it for him
2006-12-27 06:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get gang banged by bunch of midgets. Good luck
2006-12-27 06:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't be responsible for taking care of him emotionally or otherwise. if he chooses to be a jerk to you, then he has to accept the consequences of you leaving him. he does not sound good for you.
2006-12-27 07:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
harden your heart ,break up with him,and move on your life
2006-12-27 06:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋