O.k so this is my problem, I am fine seeing my boy in a group, and sometimes we seperate from the gruop. My problem is that I never see him on a one-on-one basis, not because he doesn't want to but because I don't! It's not a normal reaction and it always happens to me. My problem is that I get nervouse and end up canceling. This is obviosly a problem because we can't have a good realtionship without one-on-one time. See, he isn't very good at comunicating but I get a feeling it is because I've pushed him away. It's not just with him thought, I've always been this way, it's random I get nervous about silly things like having to go to the bathroom and then what will he think and stuff.. lol any insight into how this can be solved would be great!
2006-12-26 22:21:49 · 5 answers · asked by missy2589 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might have some type of Anxiety Disorder. Read up on it... My ex had a similar thing, and she was slowly able to overcome a lot of it (it caused big time issues, though). It slowly got worse for her over time, too.. One of the big things that eventually helped her was being able to tell people she was close to how it was affecting her. So, IF you do have this, be aware of it, if it starts to affect your life negatively (which, it sounds like it already has), then you might want to talk to a therapist or something (and no, it doesn't mean you're crazy!)
2006-12-26 22:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a date to go out with him and just relax. You know each other in a group situation you should be fine alone with him. Chances are he's just as nervous around you.....or not.
2006-12-26 22:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all comes with being comfortable and settled with eachother. Try it
2006-12-26 22:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get nervous about what he will think if you go to the bathroom? Oh good god i cant stop laughing.................
i really cant...........
Oh you are weird..........
Look honestly i dont think he will mind if you go to the toilet, unless of course you go to the toilet on him, but maybe he's into that : ) oh seriously i cant stop laughing your gas!
2006-12-26 22:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously think something was done to you in your childhood that akes you like that
2006-12-26 22:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by robruscoates 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋