Family & Relationships - 25 December 2006

I cheated on my boyfriend of two months with my ex. My ex is the big one, my first love who I almost gave up everything for, and whose break up with me left me devastated for months. I just got over it, or thought I did, a month ago. When i got back for winter break, i was working with him now and old feelings resurfaced. We had dinner for old times sake and I ended up going back to his place. He found out the next day and broke up with me. We both have always had strong stances about cheaters and taking them back, which adds to my self loathing and disgust with how weak I was. I've given up hope of getting him back, I love him too much to ask him again to take me back. But I need to know, how can I move on? I feel so guilty, I hate my ex and myself. I love my boyfriend very much and it's killing me to know I have broken his heart. I don't know how to move on knowing I cannot trust myself and knowing how I am capable to hurt someone that much.

2006-12-25 13:01:33 · 27 answers · asked by JC in DC 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 13:00:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i break up with the guy im seeing if i just want to be friends..? he says he loves me and im the one for him but i just dont think he is the one for me..

2006-12-25 12:59:38 · 9 answers · asked by ...*Crazii iin love 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 12:59:23 · 9 answers · asked by careb0o 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 12:58:33 · 14 answers · asked by LL 1 in Singles & Dating

Imagine you have boyfriend, or lets say ex right now, who you might get back to. You keep talking about bullshit. He is pissed of with you, cause you got email from a guy you were going out with for 3 weeks many years ago, wishing you marry christmas, thats it. You are pissed of, he kept bringing you to restaurant, where you didnt have to just see a girl he slept with before going out with you, but also a girl he cheated on you with? so what is worse?

2006-12-25 12:57:37 · 10 answers · asked by Eli 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife wants to go to the Ikea sale tomorrow. It will be hell on earth. Should I hurt myself and spend a few days in hospital? Or just disapear for a few days and tell her I'd been kidnapped? Or does anyone have any better ideas? Help!

2006-12-25 12:57:35 · 37 answers · asked by nev 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a trucker on the internet about 6 months ago and so far he keeps contact with me on the phone (text message/calls) almost every day. He came to see me once and I'm totally got the hots for him. Needly to say I think I'm falling. I really like this guy and don't have a problem with him being on the road all the time. I know the negative hear say about truck drivers, but for some reason I think different about him. My mind say no and my heart say yes. What's common sense here? Anyone with the same experience out there?

2006-12-25 12:54:39 · 11 answers · asked by msmaryliz 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I've started becoming really good friends with and my mom thought we were going out. I've tried explaining to my mom that we're just friends and she doesn't seem to get it. I don't understand why I can't have a guy over to watch a movie or play xbox or something without having her sit right next to us. She says she's trying to protect me but I know him really well now and I know he's not going to do anything to me. What I want to know is how can I make her understand that he's a good guy and that we're just friends and nothing bad is going to happen? She also won't let me go over to his house or be alone anywhere with him so when he comes over to watch a movie or something my mom watches it with us. So my other question is how can I get her to let us do stuff alone so she's not always listening in on our conversations and so that I can have a little privacy?? We're both 16 and sophomores in high school by the way.

2006-12-25 12:54:30 · 6 answers · asked by sportzchic09 2 in Singles & Dating

What is this girl wanting? Why does she do these things? I have a management position, am 40 y/o's old, no kids and live by myself. I have a 19 y/o female coworker that has spent the night at my place several times this month, when she doesn't stay at my place, she calls me 4 or 5 times per day, we have never had sex, we have gone out to dinner 4 or 5 times together also. She has asked me "Why I want to date her so bad?" and I was thinking that she was the one wanting to date me. What do you girls think of this situation? Why would she ask that question? Am I not seeing something here? Is she wanting more than just friends?

2006-12-25 12:54:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

her friend said tha she thinks i am cute right in front of her and her face got all red does that mean she likes me or not

2006-12-25 12:54:07 · 7 answers · asked by leonardo alc 1 in Singles & Dating

am 15......we've been going out for a month and a half...he is always telling me how much he likes me and how shy he was around me and why it took him so lon got ask me out...he always tells his friends he wants to hug me and hold my hand but he won't......how do i get him to do these things??? i no he wants to how do i make him comfortable??????

2006-12-25 12:53:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am just wondering. I mean I can see that nobody likes a fat person or a guy with a flabby chest, but give me some examples please and not what makes a guy fine to you, but above dateable and definitely f-ckable

2006-12-25 12:52:59 · 28 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Singles & Dating

no red heads or anything JUST blondes or brunets. and DONT give me crap and cuse JUST ANSEWER ME!

2006-12-25 12:52:32 · 6 answers · asked by peace maker 2 in Singles & Dating

Especially kind of dark breasts like brazilian ****. mmmmmmmm. not that pale white skin crap type of breasts

2006-12-25 12:52:28 · 5 answers · asked by Realist 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i like and he has a girlfriend but he is always and acting like he likes me and like he is tired of his girlfriend and what should i do?

2006-12-25 12:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bought my house in California prior to getting married and only paid of a very small amout of the pricipal during the marriage. Is my wife entitled to half the increase in equity from the the time we were married to the day of seperation? Or is she entiled to a percentage of that increase in equity based of the pricipal payed during the marriage?

2006-12-25 12:51:08 · 17 answers · asked by john z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In others words, it isn't even a case when you can say that "she has a nice personality.' I would just like to know what you are thinking. I see it more often than not. Thanks.

2006-12-25 12:50:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been with this girl for about two months and we get along well but she has this guy friend that she hangs out with all the time it seems and that she talks to about stuff that she probably doesnt tell me i dont want to be the jealous boyfriend and i try to ignore it but its seriously getting to me to the point where i just want to move on i will admit that i am a jealous person but do i have a right to be on this one issue? when i confronted her about it she says that they are just friends but the thing is that theyve known each other about the same amount of time that weve gone out but it seems that they have grown to be pretty close and it bothers me well id appreciate a little help thanks

2006-12-25 12:49:52 · 11 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you or would you ever tell a woman she was very pretty, a lot going for her & could have any guy she wanted just to get in bed with her?

2006-12-25 12:49:31 · 6 answers · asked by shar 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked the following and most (who had no similar experence) said that I am selfish to want to leave. These are the same people who would invite him and his whooore to dinner and say that thay can't "judge" him. I am going to give him the children and move out of the country. Isn't leaving better than something else extreme?
I hate having contact with him. He left me for another woman in the neighborhood who is a known unpleasant whoore and then is very snippy about even talking about the children. He is coldhearted. Whenever I decide, after therapy, to just have a friendly relationship with him for the sake of dealing with the children, he turns colder and nastier as if he can't stand it when I am nice. He seems to get off on making me angry. Rather than put the children through this, I am contemplating just giving him the kids & moving to Spain. I can easily get a job there. Isn't that better fo the children? He makes me crazy. HE LEFT THE KIDS. Better no mother than a nutty one.

2006-12-25 12:48:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 18 years old and my dad was the cosigner on my car. I lost my job and couldn't pay the payments. he took the car away from me and hid it. I have things I need to do like aply for jobs and go to the store for nessasary things and he won't let me even borry the car and he refuses to take me. He insists that i follow childish rules like having a ten o'clock curfue, and go to church in order to get my car back on his terms. I don't think I can handle this anymore what do I do???!!!!

2006-12-25 12:46:45 · 9 answers · asked by kandi 3 in Family

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2006-12-25 12:46:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The boy that I like said to my BFF that if a bullet was going really fast at her he would go in front of it to save her life!

2006-12-25 12:46:37 · 14 answers · asked by Dance Gal 2 in Singles & Dating

I have now been officially divorced for over two years now. I have gone on many unrewarding dates, met very different types of people, but yet I am alone, and most of all LONELY. Will I ever feel not lonely or do I need to find someone and where do I turn to?

2006-12-25 12:46:18 · 4 answers · asked by Renita M 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 12:45:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am assuming the answer is YES because we have Abercrombie and Fitch and American Eagle stores where teens and adults shop. I have to admit that I check girls and guys out to see what label is on the back of their jeans. I can tell if a girl has American Eagle, Abercrombie and Fitch, or Hollister jeans due to the design on the back pockets. Same for guys. I think a name brand tells a lot about a person. Not that they are snobs or stupid, but what catches their eye, what they find comfortable, etc. Let me know what you all think. Email me or IM me if you want (I love to chat): stephanie_weber12@yahoo.com or stephanie_weber12

2006-12-25 12:42:50 · 32 answers · asked by Stephanie W 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so i'm totally into this guy.. hes my bestfriend.. and i've had the biggest crush on him for about 2 mouths now.. okay ahah i no that sounds fine but the thing is.. i dont no if he likes me back.. and i cant get the nerve to just ask him.. he's a flirt.. so i dont no if he likes me or its just his perosnalty.. but if were hanging out, like once we were watching a movie.. he'll put his legs over mine.. and "accentdently" touched my hand with his.. he didnt tell me that.. i just think he tryed it to see what i'd do.. i was @ his house the other night and we layed down together and watched a movie.. he played with my hair, nickleace, and touch my hand again.. and we just practially cuddled.. lol i pratically through myself @ him.. and i cant tell if hes a flirt or if he likes me? please help :) any advice would b GREAT

2006-12-25 12:42:06 · 6 answers · asked by sexy--back 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 12:40:39 · 18 answers · asked by freddygarcia5606@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

I have nothing to look foward to. My huband works very hard, long days. The kids have their own life and now Im bored. I love my husband, but on the weekends hes sleep by 9:00. I tell him I want to go to a movie or something, but hes always to tired. Dont tell me go without him becasue its him i want to do something with. I want something to look foward to. It would be nice to spice things up by feeling like we are on a date either.

2006-12-25 12:40:26 · 14 answers · asked by Vikki M 1 in Marriage & Divorce