ive been with this girl for about two months and we get along well but she has this guy friend that she hangs out with all the time it seems and that she talks to about stuff that she probably doesnt tell me i dont want to be the jealous boyfriend and i try to ignore it but its seriously getting to me to the point where i just want to move on i will admit that i am a jealous person but do i have a right to be on this one issue? when i confronted her about it she says that they are just friends but the thing is that theyve known each other about the same amount of time that weve gone out but it seems that they have grown to be pretty close and it bothers me well id appreciate a little help thanks
2006-12-25 12:49:52 · 11 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
turns out i was right oh well im moving on
2006-12-27 09:52:55 · update #1
it is not unreasonable that you are jealous... while she may not be "doing" anything with him she is sharing her emotions.. if they two of you were married she would basically be having an emotional affair...by sharing with him and not with you.....
i would move on.. you can do better .. find a girl who doesn't get too close to other guys.....
2006-12-25 12:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually these type of relationships turn into a backup when things don't work out with the regular boyfriend "you." Be jelous, be watchfull, and be weary. The next guy she'll be running to when you guys have a problem is him. If you tell her it bothers you and she loses him its a great sign but if you tell her it bothers you and she says " Don't you trust me?" RUN!
2006-12-25 20:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by dashiznititis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has only known him the same length she hasknown you, you probably have a right to be jealous. If you see this becoming a rift (and you do) mention it to her, the only way to fix a problem is to acknowledge it.
2006-12-25 20:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you are acting a little jealous, but i don't blame you... i mean its hard not to be jealous, even though i trust my boyfriend i still get jealous when he talks to other girls (like i said its hard not to!) i mean its normal to feel left out, because he is a guy, but you should just let it go & accept that he is a good friend to her, and you should understand that & trust her with him.
2006-12-25 20:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur blowing it out of proportion..she knew u at the same time she knew him..yet she chose to go out wit YOU...they're close frndz and they click...doesnt mean she has a thing for him
i have the same situation..i went to university for da first yr..and i got 2 kno 2 guys in about the same time..on of them is my bf now and the other is a frnd...and i talk with the frnd waaaaaay more thn i talk wit my bf and he knows ALOT more about me than my bf...but i like my bf not the frnd...
it cud be that u dont talk alot..or u done spend enuf time with her or give her enuf attention...or it cud be nothing...they just click and there's nothing for u to worry about...
P.S i think u shud apologize to her for not trusting her
2006-12-25 20:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, nothing will drive your GF away faster than being overly possessive with her. Trust her until she gives you a reason not to. If she says the other guy's just her friend, then she means it. After all, she is YOUR girlfriend...not his :)
2006-12-25 20:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a right to be jealous.. not for her to just be talking to another guy.. but the fact that she's telling him more than she tells you?!! wow.. she should trust you more than anyone else.. well, just remind her and say "baby, you know you can tell me everything" hope i helped, good luck
2006-12-25 21:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't know each other longer than two months, but are very close? It's definitely disturbing. I would move on.
2006-12-25 20:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have the right to be jealous. I would talk to her about it. Try to be nice about it though.
2006-12-25 20:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you actually suspect her of cheatingon you with, you have a reason to be worried. But if all she does is talk to him, it's okay.
Just tell her how you feel. Girls can have guy friends.
2006-12-25 20:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by CAlifORniABABBAYY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋