Family & Relationships - 25 December 2006

My fiance and I are going to get married on the 29th of Dec. but are having an official ceremony with the family on Sept. 29th. Which anniversary would you celebrate?

2006-12-25 13:56:02 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki W 3 in Weddings

women....does "size" really matter? im 19 and am "average" size 6 1/4- 6 1/2 inches, and have had no problems with girls, but just wanted to ask if it was really true that we have to be "huge" to be any good. i have some friends that are girls and most say that its not that important as long as it works right, whats your opinion?

2006-12-25 13:55:21 · 17 answers · asked by unavailable_17 1 in Singles & Dating

my son and i are trying to collect as many dummies as we can before february to send to orphanages in the Ukriane. If you can help then please email us at : noideathen@hotmail.com

Thank You for your interest and we wish a great NEw Year

2006-12-25 13:54:51 · 5 answers · asked by lrppr 1 in Family

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I am just seeing if anyone has similar thoughts or ideas.

Thanks for taking the time in advance!

2006-12-25 13:53:35 · 3 answers · asked by extremelyradicalman 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If I were to get married in 3-4 years I could honestly say I wouldnt have the money. Is it something you started saving for years before you met your spouse-to-be?

2006-12-25 13:53:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-25 13:53:03 · 1 answers · asked by michael t 1 in Friends

She is probably a newspaper writer or author of some sort. Just wondering what ever happened to her.

2006-12-25 13:51:53 · 2 answers · asked by lewisbuff 1 in Friends

my husband and i have been fighting so much in the past week that we now live in seperate rooms of the house and dont speak....i know i should just apoligize but that would be lying because im not sorry....i dont want to go into detail of the argument but any suggestions will help...we have been together for 4 yrs and married for almost 2....

2006-12-25 13:50:22 · 15 answers · asked by ~jessi~ aka....mommy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have a 25 yr age dif (he is in his 60s and I am late 30s)... have been together for 18 yrs. Not all of it happy. Hardly any family around, 1 child between us and almost NO "couple" friends. I go out with my girlfriends and have a social life. He has no interest. Holidays generally suck as there is no one around to spend them with besides each other. Oh well! Wondering if there are groups out there in WI for age difference marriage - social type groups. THANX!

2006-12-25 13:49:59 · 10 answers · asked by kluvs2write 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what would they be and why??

2006-12-25 13:47:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so i'm totally into this guy.. hes my bestfriend.. and i've had the biggest crush on him for about 2 mouths now.. okay ahah i no that sounds fine but the thing is.. i dont no if he likes me back.. and i cant get the nerve to just ask him.. he's a flirt.. he doesnt do what he does to me to other girls.. but it does flirt.. abit so i dont no if he likes me or its just his perosnalty.. but if were hanging out, like once we were watching a movie.. he'll put his legs over mine.. and "accentdently" touched my hand with his.. he didnt tell me that.. i just think he tryed it to see what i'd do.. i was @ his house the other night and we layed down together and watched a movie.. he played with my hair, nickleace, and touch my hand again.. and we just practially cuddled.. lol i pratically through myself @ him.. and he doesnt seem to make the fist move and i cant tell if hes a if he likes me? (do any of u guys do this) ugh aha please help :) any advice would b GREAT

2006-12-25 13:47:30 · 6 answers · asked by sexy--back 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and i arent gonna see eachother 4 a week b/c of christmas break.i kissed him on the bus afterschool friday...and he turned his head so i ended up kissing the side of his forehead.But usually he would die to kiss me...and i wont c him til January 2nd.And he hasnt called or emailed me since then!and i think he wuz embarrassed cuz his friend wuz sitting infront of us.And i just felt like sayin,"ur not supposed 2 be ashamed of kissing ur friggin girlfriend!"cuz thats wut it feels like,ya know?And recently i havent gotten to talk to him much cuz i had basketball tryouts right after school.But he says he misses me and tht he luve me but he really isnt acting like it.Should I break up with him or just let it slide???I menn,c'mon its embarrassment of kissing his own girlfriend!
Any suggestions?
thanx!

2006-12-25 13:47:02 · 14 answers · asked by Whitney 2 in Singles & Dating

Heres the thingg....
Am i lazy?
When my parents ask me to get up and do something, i say no, and continue to ignore them.
When they ask me to do something, i say no becuase i dont wanna get up!!


AM I LAZY?

2006-12-25 13:46:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

does anyone know how someone can be k i n k y without knowing the person much. can guys tell who is and who isn't? in what ways can they tell?

2006-12-25 13:45:48 · 4 answers · asked by soccerjock 2 in Singles & Dating

I usually go every two years during the last three weeks of July. May be going there summer, 2007.

2006-12-25 13:44:23 · 4 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Singles & Dating

I was avoiding her for fear that I might get too close for comfort and her bf might get jealous (her bf is my best friend). My mom said I shouldn't get such things into my head. She won, and I started talking to my friend again. Now, I got too close for comfort and... TICK. TICK. KABOOM! I blew our friendship bigtime! Not only does my best friend hate me now, I also have a problem with her. She wouldn't give me the time of day! I was right in avoiding her in the first place, right? Or is my mom right? I mean, see what happens? What happened to my mom's "Don't worry, that won't happen speech?" IT happened! Now, I hate her, and my one-time best friend hates me! Another problem is I see them at church! And to top it all off, my (former) best friends brother insists that I have a "crush" on my friend (my best friend's gf). Now, I hate him too! Complicated, huh?

2006-12-25 13:43:54 · 6 answers · asked by Chichiri 1 in Friends

I am having problem with a man who is secretly flirting with me even though he is married and I am intersted in a single man. He trys to sabatoge my efforts to show my interest in the single man because he is an unfaithful husband and very jelouse of my freedom. I want to date a particular man that I highly respect and this married guy keeps hitting on me around the single guy to make me look bad in front of him.I hate his attitude what should I do? He hates it when I am around his wife because it makes him nervous that I may tell her, what can I do????

2006-12-25 13:43:36 · 21 answers · asked by java348 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a mother that seems to have a drinking problem. She tries to hide her drinks, act like she hasn't drunken anything, or just anything she can possibly do to hide the fact that she doesn't have a problem with it. It seems as if she has to drink everyday or VERY close to everyday.

I've talked to her more than 25 times it counting, no lie. I've prayed for years. I've tried to pour out her drinks/bottles. I've done EVERYTHING I could possible do.

It seems like nothing will help me. What should I do?

She tells me she'll quit more than 20 times, and never has. She's sweared, promised, and all that. I'm scared for her because I know it's possible to get lung cancer, and she's already had surgery for a tumor in her stomach, so it makes me even MORE scared.

Someone PLEASE tell me what to do. I've been as patient as I could.

2006-12-25 13:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by lvbs793 3 in Family

Had a bad marriage.Abusive husband still going through the pain of him leaving me for drugs.He is in jail and i will never go back.Even though he wants me to.How do you move on after 18yrs of marriage.Most of all were bad times rather than good.But kept seeing the best in him.And stayed for the kids.We are better off without him.But dont want to be alone the rest of my life.How do you get past it and go on.Without feeling guilty.(dont know why I do ).

2006-12-25 13:41:46 · 18 answers · asked by cat eyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't think i will ever find mr. right. I have been looking for ever. but i can't seem to find him will someone help?

2006-12-25 13:40:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not sure that I spelled his last name or the street correctly its been so long ago.... BUT If you are him or know him you'll know it.
To prove you're him or you know him...Name the grade school we went to, describe Lee's hair at the time and the color of his house.

2006-12-25 13:39:53 · 2 answers · asked by ASDZA’NI 5 in Friends

I am a convert, married for 7 years. In between, i left my husband and stay with my mum for two year and ignored him for many years due to family violence. He is a very abusive man. Not sure why i never divorce him at that point of time. I think is becauuse I still love him, but I can't face his abusiveness.
Now he is openly having an affairs with a much younger woman, isn't that what i used to prayed for that he found another woman and he can leave me? But i found myself still love him very much, I am not sure, as a Muslim, I shd try to please him til he turn back to the religious path, or shd I just leave ...

2006-12-25 13:39:45 · 13 answers · asked by Kiki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 28 years of age and by boyfriend is 24. He is a college graduate and just got a job teaching. I am a junior in college. Almost two years ago we were involved in a car accident, he had one and a half beers and we decided to go eat. I gave him the keys to my car and we left. My car was totaled, he had a head injury and I had a busted lip. My boyfriend was very apologetic that night. We agreed along with my parents to pay for the car. My father throughout the ordeal was disrespctful to my boyfriend. My boyfriend eventually retailiated and said some rude thigs to my parents. I feel that we should all act like adults and try to work this out. My parents on the other hand want nothing to do with him. He has apologized but they will not forgive him. I love him very much and he loves me. We treat each other very well.We've been dating 2.5 years We are planning to get married. I feel as if they really loved me they would try work things out and come to some kind of resolution.

2006-12-25 13:39:38 · 23 answers · asked by aedge09 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't tell me what you want to become when you grow up or who you are, just tell me what kind of person you want to be or what kind you are right now. What is your purpose?

2006-12-25 13:39:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

girl likes boy
girl doesnt tell boy
boy likes girl's bestfriend

just like a stupid romantic novel.

what would "girl" do in this situation?
is it possible "boy" is doing this to make "girl" jealous?

2006-12-25 13:38:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and I have a friend and the other day she was telling me a story about her aunt embarrassing her in front of her boyfriend and I got really annoyed and told her that I don't want to hear about her boyfriend. She doesn't talk about him constantly it's just when she does talk about him I get annoyed even if she's just trying to continue a conversation. I've never had a boyfriend before so I don't get all the constant need to talk about someone I'm already dating. We talked it over and patched things up, but she was saying that when I get a boyfriend I'll be the same way so I shouldn't be like rude to her when she talks about her boyfriend. So I'm wondering is it rude to tell your friend that you don't want to hear about them and their boyfriend?

2006-12-25 13:38:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Laws in Oregon require that a dissolution of marriage is legal if you have certain criteria. One of those is less then 15K in debt, Papers have to be served by a third party, and there cannot be any kids involved.. there are a few other things but I can't remember. Since we were 35k in debt, the papers were never given to me, and he lied to the judge to get her to sign the papers before the 90 day waiting period was up, does that mean our divorce is not legal and we are still married? Do you have any suggestions on what I can do? I don't want to be divorced. Legal advice? Anyone???

2006-12-25 13:37:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've known this guy for 7 years. We were always friends, but last year we were pretty close. We shared a lot of things with each other. Except every once and awhile, he'd do something stupid, like make up a bad joke about me. Then i wouldnt talk to him for while and he'd be apologizing. This year, im not if its even the same guy. He's got a girlfriend, and i dont mind, but its the fact he hangs around a whole different crowd of bratty, money bag people and he never speaks to me, except in one class. My other friend says that he talks to him and he thinks he's changed too, but at least the guy speaks to him! Sometimes the guy im having trouble with goes over to my friend's house and acts like a total punk. Then he'll turn around and act like some basketball pro on our team. I'm having trouble understanding his multiple personalities and should i be his friend anymore?
HELP!

2006-12-25 13:37:14 · 2 answers · asked by Diamante 3 in Friends

Have you ever met someone that totally took your breath away? You know like in the movies when two people meet each other or see each other and their eyes lock and they seem in awe and they are full of amazement?

Yah, the movies are bs, but has anyone ever experienced something similar in real life?

I haven't.

2006-12-25 13:35:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to break the news to my husband that I want a divorce but I don't want to do it in a nasty way, I always believe that respect and be decent always has to be part of a person even in rough situations. I know the news will hurt him enough, I just don't know the best time to do it and what to say... I invite people mature that has been in the same situation to reply here. Thanks.

2006-12-25 13:35:53 · 21 answers · asked by getting_a_new_life 1 in Marriage & Divorce