My bf and i arent gonna see eachother 4 a week b/c of christmas break.i kissed him on the bus afterschool friday...and he turned his head so i ended up kissing the side of his forehead.But usually he would die to kiss me...and i wont c him til January 2nd.And he hasnt called or emailed me since then!and i think he wuz embarrassed cuz his friend wuz sitting infront of us.And i just felt like sayin,"ur not supposed 2 be ashamed of kissing ur friggin girlfriend!"cuz thats wut it feels like,ya know?And recently i havent gotten to talk to him much cuz i had basketball tryouts right after school.But he says he misses me and tht he luve me but he really isnt acting like it.Should I break up with him or just let it slide???I menn,c'mon its embarrassment of kissing his own girlfriend!
Any suggestions?
thanx!
2006-12-25 13:47:02 · 14 answers · asked by Whitney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yea and last time i saw & spoke to him was friay and last time he emiled me was i dont remembe when.and usually i would have like,4 or 5 emails from him.
2006-12-25 13:50:13 · update #1
DON'T dump him. Maybe something's wrong. Go ahead and ask.
2006-12-25 13:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by xchia101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you can't just assume thats why he did that. Maybe he wasn't expecting it. My ex. had never been kissed and I waited 6 months to kiss her but when I went to give her her first kiss she turned her head because she wasn't expecting it. Just understand he might have not been embarassed.
One of the things why you SHOULD stay with him is that time you will be apart will make things so much better when you can finally see each other again.
If things start going downhill from there. TALK WITH HIM ABOUT IT! Don't just cut it off and leave him hanging with what happened. If he really cares for you he will do whatever he can to keep you.
2006-12-25 21:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by ve_wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all how old is this character? If over 20 he should know how to at least kiss his girl to let his friends know oh its just a plain kiss but to turn his cheek ohh you are hitting a nerve .So see how it goes on the 2nd of January do you all plan on bringing the New Year in together or what? It might play a good part in your life to just see what is going to happen in the next year.p.s just follow your heart
2006-12-25 21:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by weeping eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he refuses a kiss that probably means that he wants to end the relationship but is too afraid to. Talk to him about it, its probably best to take a small break. When to people are constantly together they become slightly anonoyed of each other. If the break doesn't work its probably best to move on. Do u really need a man that doesn't show any signs of love? think about it...
2006-12-25 21:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to communicate. If it upset you that he didn't kiss you then tell him, if he isn't calling you ask him why. Tell him that you want to be with him but if he is going to act like this then you'll go look for someone else. Don't wonder why he acts like he does, find out, ask him, you'll feel better.
2006-12-25 21:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Eric G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is another 'thing' occuring this time in his relationship..
but think over before breaking up, i dun wanna hear u share another story about how difficult to release him.
Okie.. talk to him heart to heart. then u'll be able to decide the best for urself or him.
2006-12-25 21:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by Aii29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dont listen to her im only in my teens but you need to give him abreak besides you love him its not like he dont want to see you he just has plans for christmas you will be fine beside you have to trust him you only have to get worried if he dont talk to you for 3 weeks. I have the same problem ok just keep going. You can do it girl.I HAVE FAITH IN YOU!!
2006-12-25 21:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, when the actions don't match the words, push on!
The feeling has got to be REAL!
Or no deal!
2006-12-25 21:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See how he behaves after break. If he keeps moving his face dump him. Maybe he hasn't told his friend you are dating.
2006-12-25 21:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first response was, "Not cool" of him to do that, but I guess in all fairness, first find out what's up. Could be a simple misunderstanding.
2006-12-25 21:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he was emberased to even kiss you dump him like a bad habit.or there is someone else on his head
2006-12-25 21:50:24 · answer #11 · answered by R.G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋