Family & Relationships - 25 December 2006

2006-12-25 14:41:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While going to a work meeting in another State, I met a girl I really liked and asked her out. She said she wasn’t ready to date but she just left a serious relationship but she said she was really attracted to me. We exchanged numbers.

A week later she called me and asked if I was dating anyone special. I said no. She said she wanted to call me once in a while. She usually calls once a week and we talk about work and what is happening in our lives.

A month later she finally tells me she likes me and she wants me to come visit but then says its not like we can go out together because we lived so far away.

Why should I go see her if she says we can't go out together?

2006-12-25 14:41:14 · 9 answers · asked by trapped 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is some background... She moved in with me my husband and our four kids because she didn't like where she was living before. I made my husband choose her or me and our kids because she was smoking in our house and my son and i have lung problems she disrespected me on a daily basis. When i said i wanted her out she would say well i'm calling CPS because you two are the worst parents ever. Well long story short we asked her to leave but we gave her 3 weeks to find somewhere else. She leaves the day before christmas. Tells my sister in law that we kicked her out that day and she made us change our christmas plans as a comprimise we had christmas at my sis in laws house where the m-i-l was also. We got there she started in on me again making her son feel guilty for his choice and telling my son to call her by her name because she is no longer his grandmother. She is still making our lives hell what should i do about it? Get a restraning order or just ignore her til she dies?

2006-12-25 14:41:08 · 22 answers · asked by mystic_rage879 2 in Family

What should I do? We love each other more than anything.
I have been unhappily married for 23 yrs.

2006-12-25 14:39:40 · 34 answers · asked by greeneyes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to get her something she'll like

2006-12-25 14:39:26 · 16 answers · asked by yondi k 1 in Friends

ok . my family sucks! i found out my dads a drunk and my mom yells out of stress. try as i might i give her stress when i even double check to wht im doing wrong. my dad makes me just break down all the time. he goes to AA meetings but how can i know its working. i mena i just found out and hes been drinking all my life. he started drinking becaz my mom got cancer while being pregnit without her nowing about the cancer. the baby was 4 months premature and sadly died. since the my dad has been drinking. i always feel like im never good enough! i try everything tht my school offers to make him proud but i feel like i cant becaz hes either working or sleeping and is never there 4 my games, plays , or anything!! he makes my mom cry so bad ! me 2 ! how can i call him dad??? he is nothing to me now? how can i 4give ? i mean i want to forgive but its hard ? what can i do to make him love me , be there for me, be .....a dad.

i hope i make since so i guess tht this is a cry 4 help..

2006-12-25 14:38:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-25 14:38:44 · 15 answers · asked by babygirl7579 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated my neighbor a year ago and I was with him for nine months. I was in love with him, I saw him every day. Where ever I was, he was right beside me. I loved everything about him, right down to they way he argued with me. I loved everything about him. But I made a mistake of brakeing up with him b cuz I wanted to try something else for a little while. Everyday since then I think about him. I want him back, at one point I was almost back with him, but he changed his mind. But a week ago I had to spend the night at his house and one thing led to another and I did something very stupid. I told him that if we did this it wouldnt be the same between us. He said it would be like a one night stand. I told him I dont think I could live with myself after. But I just wanted to kiss him again, and it just trailed from that up to ( you know what). I want to cry but I cant and I want to tell someone but I cant. I want to be over him, I just dont know how. HELP ME

2006-12-25 14:38:05 · 9 answers · asked by one tuff babe 3 in Singles & Dating

about it? My boyfriend agreed with my sister on something and took her side on it. They both embarrased me. Should I be upset about it or not?

2006-12-25 14:38:02 · 2 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

Im hurting so bad I cant stand it, what can I do to ease the pain?

2006-12-25 14:36:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-25 14:34:55 · 9 answers · asked by angle f 2 in Singles & Dating

I been dating this guy off and on for a year and he keeps dumping me and trying to get back together with me and i took him back the first few times but now i dont wanna take him back. I know hes a sociopath because the way he treats me and everybody else he knows, and the way he carries himself and his personality fits the description completely. do you think he might kill me if I never take him back again.

2006-12-25 14:34:07 · 19 answers · asked by miranda 2 in Singles & Dating

im a very sensitive girl.. but its one of the few times HE is the one that goes on a trip (its usually me).. so im kind of sad.. mostly because he went to china and we wont be able to talk much... maybe email once in a while.. i just realized how much i LOVE him.. and i cried a little.. is that normal or over reacting?

who do u think is missing the most- him that is far away from home or me, stuck at home?
im leaving tomorrow to NYC so probably ill be more distracted there

2006-12-25 14:33:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she wants to commit suicide and idk what i should do or say i mean she wpnt talk to anyone including her bf

any advice will help thank you and merry christmas

2006-12-25 14:33:36 · 9 answers · asked by *meggie* 2 in Friends

I was so bummed out this Christmas season because my dad is gone now, and C-mas is now at my brother's house and this year it was on C-mas Eve which my family has NEVER done. My daughter no longer believes in Santa and no longer wants to get her picture taken by the tree like we always did. My mom in law is elderly and has Alzheimers and can no longer host my hubby's huge family at her home. Nobody wanted to get together this year in his family so I invited some of them over including his mother. Not related to C-mas, but my mom said she went for a ride and decided to stop and see the old cabin she and my dad had remodeled into a 3 bed 2 bath home and sold about 5 years ago, and she stopped at the corner and the house was GONE. The yard was bulldozed over. She was so scared she didn't even want to ask the neighbors if it burned down or something. It was like a family project, you know? I'm having a hard time dealing with tradition such as do I try to hang on to it or say bah humb

2006-12-25 14:33:08 · 1 answers · asked by confusedmom 1 in Family

can talk on the phone for hours with my ex-husband about anything. I told my friend,that if he wants to be my b/f he has to accept,that my ex is like my best friend now.He doesn't want to.What do u think ? I'm i right or wrong ? I'm being very honest here.

2006-12-25 14:33:02 · 4 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so i'm totally into this guy.. hes my bestfriend.. and i've had the biggest crush on him for about 2 mouths now.. okay ahah i no that sounds fine but the thing is.. i dont no if he likes me back.. and i cant get the nerve to just ask him.. he's a flirt.. he doesnt do what he does to me to other girls.. but it does flirt.. abit so i dont no if he likes me or its just his perosnalty.. but if were hanging out, like once we were watching a movie.. he'll put his legs over mine.. and "accentdently" touched my hand with his.. he didnt tell me that.. i just think he tryed it to see what i'd do.. i was @ his house the other night and we layed down together and watched a movie.. he played with my hair, nickleace, and touch my hand again.. and we just practially cuddled.. lol i pratically through myself @ him.. and he doesnt seem to make the fist move and i cant tell if hes a if he likes me? (do any of u guys do this) ugh aha please help :) any advice would b GREAT

2006-12-25 14:31:43 · 7 answers · asked by laguna -beach 1 in Singles & Dating

Well he wanted to be friends with benefits, but I broke it off because I have feelings for him and want more. But he still emails me about his life and stuff so I guess he still wants to be friends even though I won't sleep with him any more. So what should I do? I"m thinking if I stick around and be friends with him maybe he'll want to be more? Maybe he just needs some time to ease into it? I really like him a lot so it also hurts a lot that he doesn't want more. So anyways I'm just confused about what I should do. Merry Christmas! Thanks!

2006-12-25 14:31:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one would you pick? As I said, the two people were identical in every way--their only difference was eye color. Which one would you choose?

2006-12-25 14:30:21 · 34 answers · asked by Bastet's kitten 6 in Singles & Dating

do you think that its right for a father to get his oldest daughter a $30 giftcard to walmart when he gets one stepdaughter a laptop & a digital camera along with over $200 in clothes to abercrombie & victorias secret. and another one a computer with a digital camera and $200 to abercrombie.
is it fair that the daughter only got a small gift?

2006-12-25 14:30:19 · 12 answers · asked by Lindseyyy 2 in Family

How does a Middle Schooler get more popular?More Friends?Enemy's to not hate you?And get a girlfriend?

2006-12-25 14:29:15 · 7 answers · asked by megaotto100 1 in Friends

hi am a 22 and gettign married in 6 weeks and i am really scared about the weddign night, i am a virgin but my soon to be husban isnt

i just dont know what to do or how to do it and i dont want to jsut see how things go b/c i want it to be the best night of my life

help!!!

2006-12-25 14:29:06 · 17 answers · asked by gettingmarried2316 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend is 15. he said he is not totally interested in sex, but here is the thing, he is not a virgin. Do you think he really is interested in sex. I mean i think he said it to drive me crazy cause i know i am ready.

2006-12-25 14:27:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 14:27:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About a month ago I started dating this really nice guy. Then he had a major personality change 1 week in, and became violent.
Example: kicking chairs, hitting walls, etc.
He even swung at me once. I was scared so I got out. Then he started stalking me, sending me scary emails, and calling me constantly. I was so afraid that my dad would walk with me to my college classes, and many of my friends made sure that I was never went anywhere alone.

About 2 weeks ago he stopped.

Now I have a new boyfriend, and my ex is back, trying everything to get us to seperate.

How can I get me ex to leave me alone so I can move on?

2006-12-25 14:26:51 · 23 answers · asked by Jinju Ha 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 35, I didn't have any money and I live with my mom, so I only got my girlfriend a stocking of coal. LOL. I've always wanted to do that to someone. She got me some nice stuff, but I couldn't help it. Why would she be mad, knowing my situation?

2006-12-25 14:26:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they acted nice and interest at one point and later, they acted really weird and trying to avoid me...... should i continue to being nice to them or should i ignore them all......

2006-12-25 14:25:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i have this little worry inside my head that maybe my future perhaps boyfriend likes my best friend. like i know they talk alot on email and suddenly she stopped talking to me and so did he!! im worried about that becuase i cant go out with the guy until later but she can.. and like i was talking to him earlier and he like didnt talk so much and i said something and hes like maybe we shouldnt think about going out...i dont want this to happen and if it does i will have no becuase of my last boyfriend that did something and i pretty much cant take it anymore...does he want to go out with her and how can i tell if they are going out? tell me what u think about this, and i asked him if he liked her and hes like not like that but that was before all this happened. i was being a drama queen but i am normally not like that. i told him i was sorry and hes like whatever. im scared that im going to have a broken heart and never be able to go out with this guy. tell me what u think

2006-12-25 14:25:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. Finding out Orlando Bloom has a girlfriend/stick figure
2. Winona Ryder shop lifting
3. The divorce of Nick and Jessica
4. The divorce of Brad and Jennifer
5. Finding out Lance of N'Suk in mean N'Sync was gay
6. The divorce of Britney and K-Fed
7. Finding out the largest size in Bebe is a 5 and the girl helping you says "I beleive Wal-mart carries your size"...... Down the block turn left.
8. Lenny Kravitz's perm
9. Finding out your are scheduled to be on the Jerry Springer show. ( Not in the audience.)
10. Having to deal with the fact that Christina Aguilera sounds way better than Britney Spears

2006-12-25 14:24:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That guys know who they want to be with before a female can tell? And if so, Why is that?

2006-12-25 14:21:51 · 5 answers · asked by The one who knows 3 in Singles & Dating