My boyfriend is 15. he said he is not totally interested in sex, but here is the thing, he is not a virgin. Do you think he really is interested in sex. I mean i think he said it to drive me crazy cause i know i am ready.
2006-12-25 14:27:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DITTO.
2006-12-25 14:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Aundrea, listen to me sweetie. I am 16 years old with a 1 year old son. My boyfriend and I have been together since I was 12. I thought we were perfect, I was in love, and I was ready. It only took a couple of times and boom I was pregnant. No one is really ready for a sexual relationship. I think your boyfriend might be ready and you might be too, but he doesn't want you nor him to get hurt in the process. If he is experienced, then it is obvious that he is isn't trying to drive you crazy, he is watching out for your feelings and he doesn't think you are ready for the next step in the relationship. A sexual encounter evolves around trust and love, or lust. You need to have some type of feeling for the person and know that you will remember this and that he is the first, or one of the first in your life. I suggest that you try to talk to him in an adult mannor and see what the problem is and see if it can be worked out or if he may just have to overcome some fears. I hope you and your partner the best Aundrea.
With love and prayers,
Cady
2006-12-25 22:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by **(:Cady:)** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without looking at any other answers..i think 15 is not ready for sex and the problems that might come. Maybe the b/f is not interested in sex now because he knows that now. Why rush? You have many years ahead of you when you've grown up and know what you're getting yourself into. Sure it feels like fun now...ever thought, what if something went wrong? Are you grown up enough for adult problems? I think not. Think, you're young still.
2006-12-25 22:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be truthful he is a guy and of course he's intrested in sex. On average, according to a survey done by National Public Radio, guys think about sex every 52 seconds. So he is probably interested but he may not be pushing the envelope. I'd just sit it out and see what happens. If he's really that interested it will become obvious to you.
2006-12-25 22:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Cyborg Farmer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be ready. Your hormones may be running wild, but you are not mature enough to deal with the consequences of having sex - not only emotional but financial. Get a reality check.
2006-12-25 22:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends, has he ever tried to have sex w. u and when (and if) u didnt let him did he get all huffy and mad? that prob. means that sex is important to him. but if he hasnt and hasnt been pressuring you it might not mean a lot to him, and just bcuz he isnt a virgin doesnt mean hes a horn dog. he coulda been w. that girl for years and loved her (i dont know the situation) ne wayz yea, so i wouldnt worry about it unless he pressures you and gets mad when u dont "put out"
2006-12-25 22:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by shortsagitarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of you is ready for sex.
Don't confuse being horny with being ready for sex.
Forget pregnancy and disease; what about the emotional involvement and the shame and guilt that OFTEN accompany adolescent sex?
You have no idea.
Good luck.
2006-12-25 22:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young. I know it sounds like the same thing you hear all the time but you should wait. Maybe he did change his mind even though he has done it before. Wait until you're married
2006-12-25 22:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by lins0043 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your time honey... take underconsideration on how long you and your boyfriend have been together... maybe he wants to wait and he respects you and wants to get to know you more... the least you can do is talk to him about it... see what he has to say, then make up your own mind about the whole situation...
2006-12-25 22:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mexican Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't ready for sex. He isn't either. You are both too young for that. So just date and be with friends. This is ludicrous.
2006-12-25 22:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but 15 is WAY too young to be having sex. You have your entire life ahead of you. Don't rush it.
2006-12-25 22:28:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋