today is christmas and my mother is dead:?

Question

Im hurting so bad I cant stand it, what can I do to ease the pain?

Answer 1

My mother has a illness and her doctor said she was going to die 15 years ago so my mom could go any day now and I am anly 11 so I know my mom won't be there for anything like when I get married so I feel your pain.
I would try to think about something else but never forget your mom.Never cry you now she is in a better place.

Answer 2

I am truly sorry for your loss... Holidays are really hard at the times like these...When I feel alone in this world and I just want to break down and scream and cry at the world, I take a shower in the dark it is the most soothing thing that you could do..Songs and smells remind me of certain people in my life,,Baking her favorite pie or popping in her favorite Christmas songs can sooth a broken heart...bring joy on this day of your mother,,,remember all the good times you have shared with her,,,cherish those memories, she is watching you and will always be in your heart,,,She is apart of you, for you would not be who you are without her guidance in life,,,

Answer 3

Froggy is right---your mother is utterly happy right now---you know that she still loves you. Just sit there and talk to her, may be look at some pictures of good times. She wants you to be happy also. Get out of the house and walk around----or try to find a shelter where you can help others for the night. God bless and be easy.

Answer 4

My prayers are with you.
My Mom passed this year from cancer.
This Christmas was made very special,
by all my family and friends.
We told stories till the early morning.
We laughed and we cried, and it was
so comforting. It was a true blessing.
I hope your pain will be eased,
just knowing there are those who care.
God Bless and Keep You

Answer 5

I'm sorry that's really terrible. I'd also say go to the grave sight and talk with her. Vent your feelings to your family and friends also maybe they can ease some of your pain. Take care of yourself

Answer 6

You might want to talk to someone you trust -- a friend or family member. If that still doesn't help you might want to get involved with a beaverment group where you can openly discuss your situation without feeling pressure. If you are feeling really bad now you might want to try to get your mind off of it ... watch a movie, take a bath, or call a friend.

Answer 7

You can just sit by the photograph or sit by her grave and talk to her. and please DONOT shut yourself from the outside world. Always take help from your close friends and family. Thats exactly what I did. My mom passed away on 24th December 2003, just a day before Christmas so I exaclty know how you must feel. My deepest sympathies.

Answer 8

Sit back, try to relax, and just think about your memories of her. Talk out loud if that feels better.

It will take time, and its not going to go away today.

Try to be happy about the time and holidays you had with her.

I wish there was a better answer for you, but there isn't. Just try to realize that it will get better eventually. (I know this as fact, my friend).

Very sorry for your loss.

Answer 9

You could write her a letter and tell her all the things you're doing with your life.

You could sing to her.

You could donate money in her honor to a charity.

You could pass on some of her goodness to others...that way she is always here.

I'm sorry you hurt.

Answer 10

Just talk to people don't keep it in well i always pray and you should try it dose work may God bless you i too no longer have my mom or dad but through the grace of god i have peace knowing that i will see them someday so i send you all my prayers to you !!!!!