Laws in Oregon require that a dissolution of marriage is legal if you have certain criteria. One of those is less then 15K in debt, Papers have to be served by a third party, and there cannot be any kids involved.. there are a few other things but I can't remember. Since we were 35k in debt, the papers were never given to me, and he lied to the judge to get her to sign the papers before the 90 day waiting period was up, does that mean our divorce is not legal and we are still married? Do you have any suggestions on what I can do? I don't want to be divorced. Legal advice? Anyone???
2006-12-25 13:37:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are divorced. But you hire a lawyer again, and prove with sufficient evidence, that he lied and showed false proofs. If you can prove that, the divorce can be voided. But then again, why would you want to be with such a manipulative person anyway?
It won't do any good.
I'm not sure, if you prove this, they can charge him with a crime of providing false evidence. You should ask your lawyer.
In case, you can prove that, maybe you can go to a civil court and claim for damages.
2006-12-25 13:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by thewiseone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although done in a really dirty way, it looks like you are divorced. If your husband went through all of that just to get a divorce, why would you want to be with him anyway?? There are better men out there- go find one that deserves you!!
2006-12-25 14:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the court says you are divorced, then you are divorced. If he wanted one bad enough to commit perjury, you probably should just move on. Just make sure you get a copy of the papers so it doesn't cause you problems later.
2006-12-25 13:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by tim b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A judge signed the papers, you're divorced. Just because you don't WANT to be doesn't mean it didn't happen. Obviously your ex husband WANTED a divorce.
2006-12-25 13:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-01-13 02:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by Shiloh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, obviously the marriage was not working if he went to such great lengths. Why would you want to be in a marriage like that?
2006-12-25 17:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by mydds07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please let go... Why would you want to be with a lier who doesnt love you anyway. You may want to seek legal advice about the money though. However, the relationship isnt worth saving. Good luck. You deserve better!
2006-12-25 13:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by JustaFriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you not fight it immediately if you knew it to be inacurate? im of the opinion to understand the things you cannot change. if the relationship has gone south move on..if there is subtext and things unkonwn here, see a lawyer.
2006-12-25 13:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are divorced move on
2006-12-25 13:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by jo_jo_baby2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋