My fiance and I are going to get married on the 29th of Dec. but are having an official ceremony with the family on Sept. 29th. Which anniversary would you celebrate?
2006-12-25 13:56:02 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Dec. the 29th would be your true anniversary.
2006-12-25 13:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by dixiemade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance and i had this same question, came to the conclusion it's really up to you. If you want to celebrate both you can, but if you're celebrating the ceremony date with others, make sure they know.
Truely, the Dec. 29th date is the official date.
2006-12-26 12:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by mirmade13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting married on Dec 29th then that is your wedding and your anniversary date and is your OFFICIAL wedding ceremony. The ceremony you are planning in September can only be a vow renewal since you'll already be married. If your wedding did not take place in a church, and you have religious affiliations, you can have a blessing of your marriage in church in September.
2006-12-25 22:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by weddingqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would do the 29th of Dec...but that doesn't mean you can't do something a little special each Sept 29th either...
2006-12-25 22:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you received a .valid license from the state you are getting married in, then I would choose Sept. 29th if it is in 2006 but December 29th if it is in 2007
2006-12-25 22:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not celebrating the day, to be clear on this, but you are celebrating an event that took place in your life. Do you "Have to" celebrate this event on the actual day it took place - No.
Presidents day is close to the actual day but it is actually the events that took place that are being celebrated. I would not etch it in stone, and look at it as being relative. Relative to other events in your life, which ever day is convenient for your family at the time that is the day I would celebrate the event.
My ex-wife and I were married on 8/8 however, our vacation time was always in July. We always celebrated our anniversary in July when we went on vacation, a honeymoon / lovers vacation spot. On the day, we might have a nice dinner, but the real celebration was done on a different time because, as I said, it is the event we are celebrating and not the day.
2006-12-25 22:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
both.....the Queen gets two birthdays......you could have one serious, reflective day; and one party
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The tradition of having an official birthday for the Sovereign was begun for practical reasons. Monarchs who had their birthdays in the winter months often encountered problems due to cold, wet weather spoiling parades and other outdoor celebrations.
King Edward VII, who was born on 9 November, was the first Sovereign to mark his official birthday on a separate day to his actual birthday throughout his reign, holding celebrations in either May or June.
Subsequent Monarchs had birthdays which fell at convenient times of the year, but the tradition was revived by The Queen's father, King George VI. He was born in mid-December, and so also 'moved' his birthday to June, when fine weather was more likely, and thus the tradition of the official birthday was established.
2006-12-25 22:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by rage997 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
29th of December
2006-12-29 15:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by trace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The actual wedding date in December.
2006-12-27 11:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by StayJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your anniversary is the date you get married.
2006-12-25 21:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋