I have now been officially divorced for over two years now. I have gone on many unrewarding dates, met very different types of people, but yet I am alone, and most of all LONELY. Will I ever feel not lonely or do I need to find someone and where do I turn to?
2006-12-25 12:46:18 · 4 answers · asked by Renita M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WITHIN!!!...THEN YOUR WHOLE LIFE WILL FALL INTO PLACE WITHOUT EVEN PUTTING A SUPER EFFORT INTO IT.
2006-12-25 13:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, of course your BEST friend of your lifetime will be found in the mirror.. However, two years isn't long to meet the right person. It usually happens when you least expect it. I have a relative who went for more than two years miserably depressed and lonely and then she met the love of her life.
What you can do is get out and do things that you wouldn't normally consider. It may sound crazy but join some classes (they could even be things like cooking classes or book clubs etc.). The most lame sounding activity usually teaches you something and you are involved on a weekly basis with a person who shares the same interest. You might want to try doing some volunteer work too... it's rewarding to help others and you'd be interacting with people who share your goal.
Try not to focus so much on who you will meet but what you will find interesting and what will keep you occupied.. the rest of it will work itself out.
The answer is YES you will come to not feel lonely but it just takes time. Do things you like! Learn something! (and you'll be a more interesting person for the next guy you meet too....).. Join a ski club... get out there and experience things and everything else will fall into place.. GUARANTEED.
Best of luck! You seem like a nice person (and you have a handle on grammar and spelling.. that's a plus on here!)
2006-12-25 13:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to get out there... do activities you enjoy.. say...skating or rock climbing or playing card games at a coffee shop , etc...
or you could play World of Warcraft and meet somebody through there Vent system where you can speak to members of your guild, etc....
just do what you enjoy.. put yourself out there and you will meet the right person....
i met my husband roller skating.....he is my best friend...
2006-12-25 12:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move to arkansas ans call me as soon as you get here!!
2006-12-25 12:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋