am 15......we've been going out for a month and a half...he is always telling me how much he likes me and how shy he was around me and why it took him so lon got ask me out...he always tells his friends he wants to hug me and hold my hand but he won't......how do i get him to do these things??? i no he wants to how do i make him comfortable??????
2006-12-25 12:53:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys just are worried they will do something wrong. Some guys have a problem with sweaty hands or some other nervous tic. Help him to relax and take the initiative. Move a little closer and put his arm around you. Hold his hand when you are out together. Try this stuff when you are alone so you can see his reaction and get him used to the idea. Unfortunately, some guys never warm up to public displays of affection.
Good luck.
C-F
2006-12-25 13:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he seems kind of distant now, i think you guys have to talk more so that he feels comfortable with you. also, don't be afraid to make the first move, like hug him or hold his hand first, he should get used to it after a while.some guys take it fast, some tak it slow. for the slow guys, you just have to give them time, its really not a bad thing, it shows that he really wants to get to know you & when he does you will have the atisfaction of knowing what you have achieved. once he gets to open up to you, trust me, he will not be afraid to hold your hand, even if your walking down the hallway.
2006-12-25 13:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try making the first move?Or just tell him that you would like to be hugged or hold hands with him.
2006-12-25 13:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by alien20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha its cause your 15 kid! grab his hand in public, tell him hes lackin pda and he needs to feel comfortable with you if he wants to continue. i was that guy when i was 14, i got screwed over by that girl, dont be like that, just know your gonna have to take control. and talk to him about it, be like dont be wierd, grab my hand hold me close babe, make me feel good. u kno, its so wierd how 2 years make such a difference, but you gotta show him the way girls grow up so much faster, if you lead him, ull notice hell be a love makin machine (okay maybe not love makin ur young,but u kno what imean) remember your still young kid dont take it too serious. even if u cant get it done physically like literally pullin him over or grabin his hand or what not, be like 'hey bud why dont u stand over here' 'hey my hands cold, why dont u hold it.' u kno good luck kid, dont be to harsh on the kid, but dont waste your time either.
2006-12-25 12:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by Hock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok about holding ur hand
heres what u do
ok if ur walking with him
just "accidentally" bang ur hand into his hand and keep doing it untill he holds it but dont do it to many times if he doesnt hold ur hand the first couple
2006-12-25 12:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by ur_rich_jew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, well hes probably new to the whole romance thing if i were you, id make the first move!
2006-12-25 12:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just grab his hand, and hug him. let him know its ok, and that you want him to. maybe he feels like you don't want him to. boys aren't mind readers, you have to "help" them along every once in awhile ya know? good luck!! and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-25 13:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God, what a little ******.
Why dont You pinch his Butt or something.
Make the First Move.
2006-12-25 12:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do it first.
2006-12-25 12:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you kinda have to play with him... you poke him and he pokes you back then gradually somehow hold his hand.... hugging is kinda hard i cant really help ya there
good luck
2006-12-25 12:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by shorty_rdb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋