Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

She's the type that just expects me to deal with her attitude with a take it or leave it mentality.She gets that part from her mother. Her mother is such a negative and difficult person and she reminds me a lot of her. But to get to my point, when I have a concern, I like to talk about it right away and settle the problem right then and there, but she thinks i'm trying to argue when I'm not. For the first time ever she actually cussed at me last night and I felt that a line was crossed that never should have been. Little by little the respect in our relationship will deteriorate if that keeps happening. And to add a little color to this question I am a Christian and she "kinda" is too. She's prayed the Lord's prayer of forgiveness twice already but I dont see the fruit of the Spirit....... I've realized the root of our problem is her pride and my impatience with her. She is the most loving person in this world, but she can also be the devil incarnate. How do I deal with her!?

2006-12-23 06:05:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do u think about circumcise a boy, i'm gonna have a baby boy in 3 months and i'm confused about circumcision

2006-12-23 06:04:44 · 17 answers · asked by mama22 2 in Weddings

2006-12-23 06:04:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in actions?

2006-12-23 06:04:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-23 06:03:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been single for 3 year's Im very cute, I have a job I also go too school. I dont have alot of time but, I alway's make time when needed .

2006-12-23 06:02:09 · 5 answers · asked by double j 1 in Singles & Dating

Both are very immature. He doesn't like either of her 2 girlfriends, and gets angry when she goes over to their houses, etc. He's in the army reserves and will do his specialized training 7/07. They want to get married right after high school graduation in 6/07. She will then go to the base while he's in training in another state. His grades are horrible, and her's are about a B avge. She wants to go to college. They have no concept of what real life finances are like. They think his army salary will pay for living expenses, college. She says she will stay at the base even when he is deployed - away from her firends, family, a college. Last time they were separated -for his basic training, they broke up, and he threatened to come after her friend (friend and a boy) She often cries when on the phone with him. He is suspicious she is doing things he doesn't want her to do. She is determined to go through with this, and wants to get out of the house; not listening to friends,fami

2006-12-23 05:59:06 · 32 answers · asked by musicforalllife 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 05:58:59 · 10 answers · asked by cherry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, so I want this guy really bad! But he has a girlfriend...He's in the middle of making the decision between us.. I want to send a song to his phone (like .. i want to send the lyrics..) What is a good song that talks about how you want a guy and can't have him?

2006-12-23 05:57:50 · 15 answers · asked by Blakelee P 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl at my school and she likes me but i don't lose another friend through a relationship i think i want to wait until i can drive (i'm only a freshman in high school) but if i wait another guy might date her, or she might stop liking me.

2006-12-23 05:56:18 · 8 answers · asked by Christian Guitarist 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so this guy i like i told him that i liked him.so then after that i didn't ever bring it up again but he constantly brought it up himself even. and he still says that he doesn't like me that way. so i get the feeling that he's lying about not liking me the way i like him. so is him constantly bringing up the fact that i like him a way of him telling me that he likes me that way?

2006-12-23 05:55:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any websites? or stores?

thanks

2006-12-23 05:55:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

FYI: I am one, if you couldnt tell by the name....haha...dats a line dat my first gf told me 3 years ago....i still remember and we broke up like 2 years ago....is dat bad....?

2006-12-23 05:54:24 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been together 4 years and I still haven't farted in front of him...I hope to keep it that way...
But someone made a comment saying that it was weird that after being together so long we still didn't do that around each other..
What do you think?

2006-12-23 05:54:23 · 9 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Singles & Dating

husband went to strip club in mexico w/ a friend. came home with a rash under belly button way below the underwear line, i only niticed it after i had the same one. scared him into telling me about the club, asking about the trip and how we could have gotten this rash. he told me he went and his buddy paid for a lap dance for him, also that she tried to go down his pants, but he didnt let her, after more questions i finnally got out of him that she did go down his pants for a few seconds befor he pulled her hand out, also the fact that she rolled his pants and underwear down inorder to rub him w/ her body (thats where the rash came in) i only got this info b/c he was scarred about the rash, now i dont beleive him, the story changes when i ask for him to tell me the story he gets mad and says he did nothing wrong, weve been together for over 15 years and i feel i dont know him anymore.he always stayed away from these places saying they were a tease and not worth his time, please help...

2006-12-23 05:53:59 · 27 answers · asked by jen w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he told me he needed time, then he said it was going to be a yes just to wait like a week, and a week later he was dating my best friend.

2006-12-23 05:53:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 05:53:06 · 7 answers · asked by Abin a 1 in Singles & Dating

we are getting married next year and my parents are trying to stop it we are both over 18 can they do it?

2006-12-23 05:52:55 · 21 answers · asked by joanne l 2 in Weddings

Ok. My man's family is hasseling us to make 3 hour drive to visit for Xmas. We would leave the 24th, return the 25th, because of work obligations. The catch is, his sister is BEYOND awful. Insults me any chance she can. She also gives him **** because he hasn't appeared enough for visits to fall all over her new baby. I don't want to do it, but would for him (grudgingly). He sent me here for answers to help make a choice, so please help. Thanks!

2006-12-23 05:52:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi I know a friend of mine that I work with, she's 16 and a guy who is 21 wants to go out with her. In the UK this is obiviousley legal but I am wondering since she is very young, if a 21 year went out with her would this automatically be taking advantage of her? Or would it depend on how she is treated? Or what would would you think?

Obviously I dont want to see her hurt but at the same time I dont want to be over protective as well!

Thanks for your thoughts n have a good xmas!

2006-12-23 05:51:56 · 34 answers · asked by wicked_paul 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 6 years and we have always had Christmas with my family in the morning and eat dinner then in the after noon we go and have Christmas with his family and by the time we are all done with everything we are soooo tired and it is so late.
So I suggested to my husband that we could have Christmas with his family on Christmas eve and my family on Christmas day.
The reason for that is because my family lives very close to us and his family live out of town and that way we dont have to be rushed to go to their house. My husband was very upset with me after I said that. I dont understand why he would be mad at me for trying to make thing less stressfull for us. So my question is.... Was it wrong for me to suggest that to him? Did I really do something wrong? What would you do in this situation?

2006-12-23 05:51:19 · 11 answers · asked by gorra92 2 in Family

My wife and I have been having a rocky marriage since I caught her cheating on me with a coworker of hers 4 years ago. She wanted out of this marriage this past summer and we seperated. She decided to put some effort into saving our marriage, so I went along with it and we have been doing OK, up til now. She will go with her coworkers from work to a bar occaisonally. She stayed out til 3 am last night and I lost my cool over it. I told her she was not worth the effort. She did the same thing to me a few weeks ago, but I tried very hard to not rock the boat as we were just getting things back together. I think this is unacceptable behavior on her part, and she thinks its perfectly OK. I still have trust issues with her because of her past cheating, she has really done very little to prove she is being honest with me. I think at this point this isn't worth any effort on my part. Was I wrong for blasting her. I verbally attacted her very hard.

2006-12-23 05:50:40 · 28 answers · asked by Freddy123 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im getting a gift for a boy but what do they want

2006-12-23 05:50:02 · 17 answers · asked by mahjabeen_haque 1 in Singles & Dating

Shud i give up on a girl that rejected when i asked her out?? Well it wasnt a no but she said she'll contact me back as she is bz...WHAT DO I DO???

2006-12-23 05:49:33 · 12 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

because whenever my boyfriend wants to have sex i always ask him if hes wearing a condom and then he just rolls over and gos to sleep what should i do? i don't want to get pregnant

2006-12-23 05:48:55 · 26 answers · asked by Southern Belle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 05:48:17 · 8 answers · asked by lazzlo 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing the same guy for 5 years. He has 5 kids between the ages of 17 and 30. They have told their dad (my significant other) that they do not like me.
These kids are by 2 seperate mothers and ironically enough, I seem to get along with the 1st ex wife fine. The adult kids seem to have problems keeping their bills paid and making there way in the world. He has bought them all at least 2 cars a piece. One got a DUI and had to sell his car to pay a fine and he just recently moved out of his dads house at 28 yrs old because his girlfriend is pregnant and he finally decided he should get out. I bet they will be back in 6 months. One daughter shops herself into total debt, She lived with her husband and 2 kids with her dad and kept listening in on the other phone while he and I talked. I finally told her exactly what I thought of her. She has never worked ever at a job. Today the daughter has dads car because she let hers get re possessed. 1st car she ever tried to buy.

2006-12-23 05:48:05 · 20 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Starting to fall in love and in love? My bf said he's starting to fall in love with me. Does that mean he loves me?

2006-12-23 05:47:39 · 18 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months. Do you think it is too early to spend Christmas together and meet each other's family? I have a pretty good feeling about this guy and he's met a few of my relatives on an individual basis, but should I invite him to the family gathering...and should I go to his family's house??


Thanks in advance.

2006-12-23 05:46:36 · 8 answers · asked by MyBondageMyFreedom 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 05:46:26 · 10 answers · asked by sj 1 in Singles & Dating