Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

I have been with my b/f for two years. I really like him but there is a slight problem. I am falling for his best friend. I really want to say yes when he asks me out(he asked b4 and I said no, but he says he still wants to), but I don't want to hurt my b/f two days b4 christmas. WHAT DO I DO?? Is it wrong to date his best friend if I break up with him?? Will it ruin their friendship??
I would hate for him to hate his friend. I really want to date his friend. Should I date his friend??

2006-12-23 06:44:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On my B-day I went up to the guy I've had my eye on and let it be known that I was watching him for a while...Long story short it turns out he had been wanting to talk to me too so I wasn't alone...He just wasn't sure when where and how...i'm so happy!

2006-12-23 06:43:04 · 7 answers · asked by violet83 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 06:42:00 · 8 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'am in a relationship with a guy ok!! lets say he's name is Tim. tim and i have been dating for the last year but he has a girlfriend and they have a baby together " been dating for five years" I feel that there is a real conection between us and had told him that i love him when i say so he replies love you to and the strangers thing is i believe him.He's the kind of person who can do anything for me at any time at any cost .he allways tries he's best to keep me happy so help me by replieing honestly is there a chance for our relationship cause in my hart i know he will never leave he's baby's mother and i do'nt think i will leave him now cause as I said i love him

2006-12-23 06:41:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex-friend Edie said that she hated me 2 my other friend Lauren
so I told her if she hated me i hate her what am I going 2 do how can i fix this & can anybody know what might be wrong with them?

2006-12-23 06:41:34 · 9 answers · asked by Katelyn Eakes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been dating for six months. I feel like I have been calling him too much lately. I also feel that lately I am the one to make the first move to hang out. Do you think it would be bad if I didn't call or email him for a couple of days, and wait for him to do something? I ask because I don't want him to get the impression that I don't care anymore, or that I want to break up. I just want him to make the first move and to give him some so he doesn't feel overwhelmed or suffocated by me.

2006-12-23 06:40:44 · 5 answers · asked by Carrielynn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he couldn't be with a non-christian girl. His church and family wouldn't allow it. He knew I was catholic from the beginning and I knew he was christian. He said he though it would work out, but that the church and family just wouldn't leave him alone. Is that a good excuse? I still want to be with him. What can I tell him to make him understand and want to be with me?

2006-12-23 06:39:53 · 34 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some date ideas for a wet rainy day? hmm it cant be the follwoing.. movies, malls, pubs/drinkgs(cause we are underage), stay at home together

2006-12-23 06:39:10 · 12 answers · asked by iced987 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my b/f for two years. I really like him but there is a slight problem. I am falling for his best friend. I really want to say yes when he asks me out(he asked b4 and I said no, but he says he still wants to), but I don't want to hurt my b/f two days b4 christmas. WHAT DO I DO?? Is it wrong to date his best friend if I break up with him?? Will it ruin their friendship??

2006-12-23 06:38:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been together for more then 3 years and all we have ever done is kissed. please give a good answer i am really in need!

2006-12-23 06:37:29 · 16 answers · asked by Alyssaa 2 in Singles & Dating

After 2 mounths of going back and forth w my ex we keep on talking to each other. I still love her. She says she doent want to think about us like that anymore n doesnt want to try and work things out. Last night i called her. We kept talking till i sliped i was planig on proposing to her in june she was shocked "Wow" and "oh my god" was all she could say. I kept talking n well it lead me to cry and then she started 2 cry. Why would she cry she is the one that dumped me and i am the one pursuing this. All i want from her to think about all of this. The relationship lasted 4 yrs n we both always talked about kids n marrige. The break up came from nowhere only that she felt no romantic connection. I always gave her 100% i gave up parts of my life to be with her. I always told her how i felt and now this. Niether of us can stop calling one another. my only question is why would she cry over this, if this is what she wanted? I sent her a email telling, i will leave her be as best as i can.

2006-12-23 06:36:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is emotionally abusing me since last 2 years.Since the third day of my marriage.I am fed up but being in indian society I cannot walk away from this marriage ,but I was away from him for last 9 months and it was a good time for me.HE keep doing it evry now and then ,though I try my level best, but it seems nothing seems to satisfy and he keep comparing me with his ex girlfriend and current girlfriend.HE keep seeing my negative points point only in me.He hardly cares about me,even he is least bothered about how I feel and what I feel???I am getting tired of it.I am living with my inlaws and him in QATAR.Away from my family.I don't know what to do and where to go.I even ask him if he wants to walk out of this relationship he can or let go me,but he didn't.I don't know what to do??I maso much confused,heart wants him and mind says no.what to do.as I Always listen to heart,now i am very much confused....Help me OUt

2006-12-23 06:36:28 · 20 answers · asked by Lonely_girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Note: as nice as the answers could get, please limit to something material that is tangible and please keep the answers decent! Thanks!

2006-12-23 06:34:35 · 23 answers · asked by dat 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my gf like love movies i like action movies ,how can me and my gf watch what we both like in one movie

2006-12-23 06:33:34 · 2 answers · asked by kerby d 1 in Singles & Dating

I had been seeing this guy for about a month and a half. The condom broke and I became pregnant. Neither one of us have children. When I told him I was pregnant, he stated that he would support me whether I decided to keep the baby or not. I told him that I was going to keep the baby at the time he decided to tell me that he is married and that having the baby would end his marriage. However he failed to tell me all of this before we started seeing each other.I have no desire to be in a relationship with him of any kind. He has makes routine checks to make sure I'm doing ok and checking to see how the baby is doing. He said he told his wife and she kicked him out. I found out a month later that he never did tell her when he showed up to my apartment uannounced. His wife found out about it and called me. He told her that I trapped him. At the present time I have no contact w/him, but I want his parents to know. This is a difficult situation for all parties involved, what should I do.

2006-12-23 06:33:28 · 13 answers · asked by myalivia07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i like this guy a lot, and he is going to ask me out after christmas holidasy ( so ive heard) If he does, what should I say? the reson im asking is because my best friend likes him a lot also. She doesnt know that I like him. I dont think i'll say yes because I think that it will ruin my relationship with my best friend. Am I right?

2006-12-23 06:33:26 · 12 answers · asked by lax is life<3 2 in Friends

2006-12-23 06:33:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well Im kind of nervous about all of this , but at the same time im very excited. 15 of us rented a house for the New Years weekend in Las Vegas...My mom said I could go , and Ive been with him for 7 months pushing 8. Im very excited but kind of nervouse.. I will be 18 in 4 months and he's 18 and will be 19 in 2 months...so were a year aprart. Anyways, whats your take on my situation?

2006-12-23 06:32:58 · 29 answers · asked by Esmi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 06:31:48 · 24 answers · asked by Smanela 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that I'm beginning to like at work and I wonder if he likes me because he stands up for me and sometimes I catch him looking at me........I'm shy and too scared to talk to him. What can I do?

2006-12-23 06:31:46 · 5 answers · asked by PCDFan4Life 1 in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my girlfriend and now she's completely going psycho! Why?

2006-12-23 06:31:28 · 11 answers · asked by mister roy jones 2 in Singles & Dating

Do women even have a clue as to how men actually think?

2006-12-23 06:31:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think its weird to get out of a relationship say, a month ago, and feel jealous/mad/depressed that your ex is moving on and you cant seem to? or is it normal? Does anyone have advice on how to get over the person to get on with your life?

2006-12-23 06:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by skinnerpride 2 in Singles & Dating

Do women even have a clue as to how men actually think?

2006-12-23 06:30:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 06:27:10 · 18 answers · asked by curiousJ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 06:26:17 · 31 answers · asked by Sweet Me 2 in Singles & Dating

what do I do? should I tell her? should I hope they break up or is that wrong? how long should I wait?

2006-12-23 06:24:45 · 13 answers · asked by catchup 3 in Friends

we talk on IM and she is really important to me but i said some things that weirded her out and now she doesnt talk to me anymore? she thinks i am all cocky and stuff even tho i told her i knew she didnt like me (i told her i did like her a few weeks ago) and she just doesnt talk anymore... she is beautiful and i was just trying to be nice and stuff and she took it the wrong way... how can i fix this up????

2006-12-23 06:24:05 · 1 answers · asked by J.T. Rollz 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who migrated to canada. While she was still here, she called me a flirt for giving my number to my guy best friend. She told people I was boring. In front of me. She's a hypocrite. In fact, she's one of the meanest people I've met. We keep in touch through YM. One day our clique decided to prank her by pretending I hooked up with her ex (not boyfriend. used to be MU. guy she liked who liked her. ). She cried. So I felt sorry and apologized. But then, we decided to be honest and told her everything we thought about her. From how mean to how vain she was. She didn't care. It showed that she cared more about some guy than us, her friends who threw her a super awesome goodbye party (which she WHINED about when after thinking we were not gonna throw her one ) She's coming back. She knows we're mad but not exactly why. Should I stay mad and not talk to her or pretend like I care about her. I mean, her stay's for only a few weeks.

2006-12-23 06:23:34 · 5 answers · asked by First L 2 in Friends

After 47 yrs of marriage, a marriage, where my mum was very selfish, had affairs, and treated us kids badly, she has now left my dad, run off to spain, with another man. I am doing EVERYTHING i can to help him. He has been left alone, aged 69 yrs, has to sell his home, the lot, cause she is claiming her half of all finances. It is so difficult for all of us, but for the first time tonight, he said, he has nothing to live for now, feels like ending it all. I know he loves me, and his grandkids, but he is not coping at all, with what my mother (if you can call her that) has done. I live away from him, 60 miles, have my own family, i am getting so stressed with worry about him. Should i just keep in touch, all the time, or what? I begged him to see a doctor, but he won`t.

2006-12-23 06:23:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family