We have been dating for six months. I feel like I have been calling him too much lately. I also feel that lately I am the one to make the first move to hang out. Do you think it would be bad if I didn't call or email him for a couple of days, and wait for him to do something? I ask because I don't want him to get the impression that I don't care anymore, or that I want to break up. I just want him to make the first move and to give him some so he doesn't feel overwhelmed or suffocated by me.
2006-12-23 06:40:44 · 5 answers · asked by Carrielynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are on the right track. Get busy with girlfriends and family and don't make the first move.
He won't assume anything.
2006-12-23 06:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a good idea. I understand where you are coming from. I had to do this to my guy because I just felt like I was always the one calling and he wasn't making an effort to contact me. So, one day, I just didn't call or email. I kept it up all day. When he called me, I let it go to voicemail and I waited 2 hours to call back. When I did call back, I told him I was busy and couldn't talk long. Since then, communication is not an issue anymore. He calls regularly.
2006-12-23 06:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn`t bad, you both need your own space, you sound young, I was like you when i was young, and it didn`t work for me ringing boyfriends at every opportunity because i thought if i didn`t they would leave me, this is a kind of insecurity on your part, play it cool let him ring you for a change, If he`s interested then he`ll ring you, If he doesn`t then obviously he`s not that keen, then you can ring him and ask him if he`s ok and want to continue with the relationship. Remember that you`ll probably go through a lot of boyfriends before you finally settle down with the right man.
2006-12-23 06:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not slow down your needyness so gradually that he doesn't notice?
2006-12-23 06:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a crazy clingy bi*ch. Guys don't like that. I bet if you don't contact him for a few days, he'll contact you.
2006-12-23 06:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋