Do you think its weird to get out of a relationship say, a month ago, and feel jealous/mad/depressed that your ex is moving on and you cant seem to? or is it normal? Does anyone have advice on how to get over the person to get on with your life?
2006-12-23 06:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by skinnerpride 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also: has anyone ever found themselves being mean to an ex for no apparent reason? if you got help with it, what was the cause?
2006-12-23 10:48:23 · update #1
Normal...just keep yourself busy and make new goals!
The meanness comes from resentment. If it is the same ex, maybe it is because you resent him/her for moving on while you aren't ready to move on quite yet.
I think it is so tough to get over because it is basically like someone in your life just died. HEre you were, eating and breathing this person, and now there is NOTHING. IT takes a lot of time...the more you cared, the more time it takes to get over.
Your ex obviously doesn't deserve you...or she definitely didn't feel for you as you feel for her.
Monitor yourself. Allow yourself so many minutes to think about her, and that's it.
Good luck!
2006-12-23 06:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by tellme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as moving on, it really depends on how long you were together, and what caused you two to break up in the first place. I think it is normal to feel the way you feel because you are imagining her being happy WITHOUT you. What you have to do is address the issues you had in your previous relationship. Change those things to make you be a better person. During this time, get your feet wet by going out and meeting new people. You have a lot to offer someone, don't waste your time being depressed.
2006-12-23 14:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is natural. You will find it hard to move on, but you must.
what you`ll have to do is keep yourself occupied, every time you start to think of this girl then do something else, It will pass in time, and that time depends on you, a month isn`t that long. Obviously the girl wasn`t that enamored of you as you were with her, you deserve better.
2006-12-23 14:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be normal
Just be yourself move on it may take i little while depending how much you liked her or him
2006-12-23 14:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Horse_Gurl227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to forget a woman is the love of another (you 2 move on)
2006-12-23 14:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by e)v1n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋