2006-12-23 06:26:17 · 31 answers · asked by Sweet Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's what Christmas is all about, being with family..keeping the family bond, don't stress to much..maybe next time you can go with him.
Happy Holidays
2006-12-23 06:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with him for? I think that you should be understanding, because Christmas is a very family oriented event. The best thing would be for you to join him, but then that would mean that you would not be with your family. Ideally, both of you would travel together and visit both families. But if for particular reasons that is not possible and he must go out of town on his own, then I would support him, because it is only once a year and Christmas is such a family event. So support him for now, but let him know how you feel and maybe you two can work something up for the future holidays.
2006-12-23 06:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend does that, too. He visits his family out of town every holiday...it makes me sad because I won't be able to talk to him on the phone (his family lives in the country) and I can't go with him because my mother is very strict. Is it wrong for you to be mad? No. At least I don't think so. True feelings are never wrong.
2006-12-23 06:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it sounds like you all have been together for quite a while now. It should be a routine for you to visit his family with him. If he doesn't ask you to go, then yes, you should be upset. Or you can make it a point to do something without HIM for Christmas.
2006-12-23 06:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why aren't you going with him? If he doesn't invite you, then it may be time to reconsider the relationship. I spent Thanksgiving with my boyfriend's family and he is spending Christmas with mine. We've been together a year and a half and live together. If you two are serious, you should probably be spending holidays together with family as a couple.
2006-12-23 06:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by Gwen C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you spend time with your family during the holiday?? What right do you have to be mad at your boyfriend for wanting to be with his family during Christmas?
You are acting immature and selfish!
2006-12-23 06:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by tellme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has been leaving for a few years then you guys have been together long enough to either meet his parents or if you have for you to be able to go with him, its not hard all he has to do is tell them your coming with him i dont think you need a special invite from his parents or anything, i would be upset
2006-12-23 06:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by SB33 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OF COURSE!!!! You are considered family 2. Let him know that u r feeling left out and that he should find a way to spend time with u and the family.
2006-12-23 06:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by kita B 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its ok for you to be mad but to an extent, he has to leave for family if you are old enough ask if you can go with him you could meet his family but if you can't go its ok to be mad you can understand wanting to be with him especially on christmas
2006-12-23 06:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by Christian Guitarist 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It kind of is becuse its family. I'm sure u go somewhere 4 ta hoidays wit ur family at least once so y get mad at him?
2006-12-23 06:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by JoJo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋