I have been with my b/f for two years. I really like him but there is a slight problem. I am falling for his best friend. I really want to say yes when he asks me out(he asked b4 and I said no, but he says he still wants to), but I don't want to hurt my b/f two days b4 christmas. WHAT DO I DO?? Is it wrong to date his best friend if I break up with him?? Will it ruin their friendship??
2006-12-23 06:38:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would hate for him to hate his friend. I really want to date his friend. Should I??
2006-12-23 06:39:08 · update #1
if you break up with him, don't do it before christmas.
Once you do that, you should wait at least a month to go out with the friend and only if the friend is willing to lose his best friend.
After two years attraction can wane, but is the friend really the guy that you want to be with or just fun to flirt with.
Put yourself in your bf's shoes. What would you want?
2006-12-23 06:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u've ur right to do so.no doubt u've been with him 4 2 yr,but it's just merely a common friend,unless u want to move in closer to become very special friend(ur life partner).since u r interested with his best friend,u can straightaway tell ur b/f about this.if he's a gentleman,i think he w'd be okay allowing u go ahead.let things happen naturally 4 enjoying life.
best wishes.
2006-12-23 14:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I'm not Casanova,but...this situation is encountered very often...a girl/boy falling in love with the best friend of her/his partener.My opinion:talk with your boyfriend,tell him how you feel...if you expose him the facts in a very lucid way he will understand...but,my opinion again...don't do it now...it's Christmas!Best wishes and Happy Holidays!
2006-12-23 14:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by scorpionx_madman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it will ruin their friendship. stealing someones girl is the worst possible way for a friend to backstab another. neways if you don't like the guy nemore then don't lead him on.
2006-12-23 14:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by Merk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say do something b4 its too late, well not at christmas, after that. try n pay more attention to his bes friend den him, and he might end up ebin da one that dont like you no more. but his bes friend may not like you either...(you must be hooot)
2006-12-23 14:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by !..//T!M£*L£$$\\..! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey all your questions on yahoo contradict each other.
Are they even genuine? Go get a life and stop living precariously through this website. Go on! you can do it!! Good Luck!
2006-12-23 14:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋