I'am in a relationship with a guy ok!! lets say he's name is Tim. tim and i have been dating for the last year but he has a girlfriend and they have a baby together " been dating for five years" I feel that there is a real conection between us and had told him that i love him when i say so he replies love you to and the strangers thing is i believe him.He's the kind of person who can do anything for me at any time at any cost .he allways tries he's best to keep me happy so help me by replieing honestly is there a chance for our relationship cause in my hart i know he will never leave he's baby's mother and i do'nt think i will leave him now cause as I said i love him
2006-12-23 06:41:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHAT?! It doesn't matter how you two treat each other!! He has a responsibility as a father!
It is now YOUR responsibility to find someone new because, yes this sucks, you two are NOT meant for each other.
Think about that poor mother and what you're doing to her! How in the world can one female treat another female this way? Think about how hard she already has it with a cheating boyfriend who *should* be there with his kid instead of with you.
Stop any contact you have with him right now. It's the best option for everyone and you will stop being hurt.
2006-12-23 06:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by darrahdragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I understand that this is a very hard situation to be in. But you really need to get out of it. If for some reason he ever left his girl, then you will never be able to trust him. You may think so now, but you WON"T. Another thing is, this is not fair to his girlfriend, and most of all not fair to you. You deserve a man who is there 100%. This will never happen, being the third wheel. No one deserves this kind of relationship. You sound like a real decent person, who has a lot to offer someone. So you need to find someone whom you can give what they can return. Good luck! :)
2006-12-23 14:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That love you to, I feel it is just to keep you satisfied, if he really loved you he would be the one to say," I love you baby", not you first. First he is a married man and as far as he will never leave his baby's mother , why don't you say his WIFE. You have been in this relationship for a year and he has never, never told you that he doesn't love his wife. So what does that tell me. He loves his wife his family, he tells his wife I love you and you are being used for one thing only SEX and that is just for maybe another 6 months and he'll move on to another , "Love you to". Sorry, but that is just what is going to happen.
2006-12-23 14:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me when I say that the only purpose you are serving to this guy is a "back-up plan". You need to realize that you are wasting valuable time by settling for some other woman's man. Give him an ultimatum. Tell him that you are leaving him if he doesn't make a choice. Then get yourself a man who will love you and not go to bed with someone else every night.
2006-12-23 14:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on Babylove. You said it yourself that he will not leave his babies mom, so why settle for second best. Cut your losses and get out there and find yourself someone who will respect, love and be faithful to only you.
2006-12-23 14:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to find some one that will be there for you when they say i love you and lose him cause you are heading into a heartache that's all.
2006-12-23 14:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry D H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your wasting your time....sounds like you waited a year and he has not left her yet...he likes having his cake and eating it too...leave him_
2006-12-23 14:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋