I have a friend who migrated to canada. While she was still here, she called me a flirt for giving my number to my guy best friend. She told people I was boring. In front of me. She's a hypocrite. In fact, she's one of the meanest people I've met. We keep in touch through YM. One day our clique decided to prank her by pretending I hooked up with her ex (not boyfriend. used to be MU. guy she liked who liked her. ). She cried. So I felt sorry and apologized. But then, we decided to be honest and told her everything we thought about her. From how mean to how vain she was. She didn't care. It showed that she cared more about some guy than us, her friends who threw her a super awesome goodbye party (which she WHINED about when after thinking we were not gonna throw her one ) She's coming back. She knows we're mad but not exactly why. Should I stay mad and not talk to her or pretend like I care about her. I mean, her stay's for only a few weeks.
2006-12-23 06:23:34 · 5 answers · asked by First L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She sounds a little too high maintenence to me!
Just don't im her until she gets back and then have a sit down with all of you to talk things out and then go from there.
Good luck!
2006-12-23 06:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty tough--though I would recommend taking the high road for the few weeks she was there and just gritting your teeth, don't hang out with her if she's just going to make you angry. I had a similar problem with a friend it just really showed that she cared about a guy more than she cared about me. There is the cardinal rule that you never date a friend's ex but she just sounds whiney. If she's going make you angry don't hang around with her.
2006-12-23 14:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kendal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not tell her how you feel? Be honest, but not mean. Tell her you won't be her friend or pretend to be. Seems that she can take the truth. Heck, she sure can give it!
2006-12-23 14:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what good would that do? if she wants to talk then talk, if not go on about your business. don't give her that much power over you, now if you truly do not have anything to say to her than that's another thing but not to out of spite that's sort of stupid.
2006-12-23 14:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think us shuld move on wid ur life
2006-12-23 15:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋