My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months. Do you think it is too early to spend Christmas together and meet each other's family? I have a pretty good feeling about this guy and he's met a few of my relatives on an individual basis, but should I invite him to the family gathering...and should I go to his family's house??
Thanks in advance.
2006-12-23 05:46:36 · 8 answers · asked by MyBondageMyFreedom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suppose it depends on how comfortable you both would feel for a first meeting at a big occasion like this. If you are extroverted then it might be nice time to met. But if either of you are a bit introverted or shy then it may be uncomfortable time and perhaps should wait until things aren't quit as hectic.
2006-12-23 05:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem meeting each other's family becuase it will just give you a flavour of what to expect later (that is if you are serious).
Nothing is too early if both of you are serious and feel for each other. But if you are not sure and think it is a bit early then you would rather spend time alone with each other.
Whatever you do, have a very merry Christmas!
2006-12-23 13:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by cool_cancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think u want to go one step closer on him,u should spend ur holidays together with him n his family as well,so u can get better understanding on him.mutual understanding is very important 4 both parties.u can build up better relationship in future even if u might not marry him,but at least u've made a very good friend indeed.
best wishes.
2006-12-23 14:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months is a bit early for a relationship but that is considering that you should wait about two years before marriage-do you feel like you could get there? Maybe wait till next year...It's all in how you feel about this person, good luck!
2006-12-23 13:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mokimberly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's bigger, sleeping together or spending the holidays together? Hmmmmm, Not saying that you did but let's be real.
2006-12-23 13:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes go - thats whats christmas is all about
2006-12-23 13:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you feel the relationship will grow
2006-12-23 13:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? go for it!
good luck and happy holidays!
2006-12-23 13:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋