because whenever my boyfriend wants to have sex i always ask him if hes wearing a condom and then he just rolls over and gos to sleep what should i do? i don't want to get pregnant
2006-12-23 05:48:55 · 26 answers · asked by Southern Belle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its very simple. Dump him.
2006-12-23 05:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if your boyfriend doesn't respect you enough to use a condom when having sex then you need a new boyfriend. no using a condom while having sex is no turn off for me because i wouldn't want to get a girl pregnant and have responsibilities i wouldn't want.
2006-12-23 05:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by ken s 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's a special word for couples who have unprotected sex...they're called...
PARENTS!
You might consider the pill or another form of birth control, but you also might consider a long talk with your b/f on why he isn't worried/concerned about the potential for your having conceived.
This relationship may not be everything you imagine it to be.
Speaking as a guy, I do agree that it's no fun to wear a raincoat in the shower. But it's way better than a disease or an unplanned pregnancy.
2006-12-23 06:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by comicards 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on the pill, get a diaphragm, or any of a number of other choices, if your going to have sex then you should be protecting yourself. Wanting your boyfriend to wear a condom is fine but that shouldn't be the only form of protection.
If he doesn't want to wear one then you have to make a choice whether to stay with him or not.
It feels better without a condom but it's also a matter of safety.
2006-12-23 05:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by evt033 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes it does. When I use a condom, I can last up to 3 hours, but without....usually only half an hour. Women don't generally like men who go on forever, so I prefer without. The real feeling is the best.
2006-12-23 05:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
as far as i know it doesnt really turn guys off, but the sex feels less intense - i guess thats why guys act like that
if he wants to get intimate with you he should respect you that much to strap a condom on though, maybe you should just talk about the whole issue, if youve been together for a while, what about taking birthcontrol pills? but be aware it doesnt protect neither one of you two from any STD
2006-12-23 05:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously safe is better. But for me, wearing a condom decreases the overall sensation. It's like tap dancing in diving flippers. It's just not the same.
2006-12-23 05:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it feels better to not use a condom but are u ready to get pregnant. i think that it feels good usuing a condom as well and u can enjoy it more because he doesnt have to pull out. as for your boyfriend if he does not respect that u r not ready to be a parent or get a disease then u should leave him because it feels good both ways.
2006-12-23 05:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by Bree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the boss of your own body. If your boyfriend doesn't like to wear a condom than he does not have respect for you. Not only do you need to worry about pregnancy there are a lot of diseases that you can catch... continue to be smart and strong.
2006-12-23 05:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa B 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok one, he is not a very understanding guy for your needs. Two, that is disturbing that he would care about such things (because it is your life, your body). Three, maybe if you are thinking of continuing with this guy you should get on birth control. If you truly are a southern belle and want to stay that way, don't let some jerk get you pregnant and smash your dreams. :)
2006-12-23 05:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mokimberly 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wearing a condom with a reserve tip and spermicide is the best thing next to sex!! I would NEVER has sex with a significant other without one or fifty around!!!! Were I you, I'd kick this guys absolutely irresponsible a** to the curb whilst wearing heavy grade steel toed boots.
2006-12-23 05:58:23 · answer #11 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋