Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

Thank you for reading this post. Let me introduce, I am 30y m. Since last 1 year I am in relationship with a girl about 27y age. We started off well, and both were convinced, that we are best match for each other. But there was a problem, she is already married & hence initially although I was madly in love with her, I tried to discourage this affair. But it went of well, and over a period of time I have concluded her as my better half & would want to spend rest of my life with. Lately she seems to have lost all interest in the relationship, she says we are not compatible and she does not lve me any more so we should saperate. She says, I insulted her by not providing enough attention / time during the early days, which she needed. She says she wants me just as a friend. I am totally clueless as to what to do so that I can save the relationship. Please let me know if you need any more information. Thank you

2006-12-22 06:30:13 · 20 answers · asked by dj_rasberry 1 in Singles & Dating

it must be long, has fine staps, size 2,

2006-12-22 06:29:58 · 16 answers · asked by me 1 in Weddings

Here's the story: We are in our 20's (mid to late) He lives in France, I live in California.
He is the sweetest guy I have ever met, and it seems genuine to me because we have known each other for a while as very close friends so we have a mutual respect for one another. He somehow seems to know what I'm thinking (which is very odd to me) and he has said some of the sweetest things to me, like how he thinks I deserve to be treated like treasure, how much he cares for me, we can talk about everything and tell all of our secrets, his kisses are the best and most tender. Basically we just click, and he has told me how much he values our connection...but we are not in a clear relationship (not boyfriend/girlfriend). To me, it seems like this kind of special connection doesn't come by often...so I wish he would want to take the next step. But we just haven't, he has said that he doesn't want to disapoint me. Yet he tells me that he has never had the same kind of feelings with someone.

2006-12-22 06:29:31 · 2 answers · asked by lise 2 in Singles & Dating

im 21 years old, and also a bbw. i just currently ended a 3 year relationship with a man that was abusive and now alota my guy friends tell me that they all want to sleep with me. i mean they dont come right out and are like i wanna have sex with you, but its comments they make and the tone they use. and some of them have even come right out and said that they wanted to have sex....but the thing that really gets me is that they want sex and thats it. they dont want to hang out when i ask or anything the only time they come around is when its convient for them and they think there gonna get some and when i turn the down they get mean towards me...it happnes all the time...and im not sure y or what to do or say.....??

2006-12-22 06:28:37 · 17 answers · asked by xxsyn69xx 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been having this ongoing fantasy about my wife being with another man. Sometimes I feel that I can't satisfy her completely because of my "size", if you know what I mean. I am not very well endowed is a better way to put it. Should I tell her about this fantasy, and is there anything wrong with me wanting her to be pleasured by a stud?

2006-12-22 06:27:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

are there any signs when a guys got a girlfriend? see he likes me but is a bit stand offish

2006-12-22 06:27:03 · 4 answers · asked by jo 1 in Singles & Dating

i am little bit musclar and i am fifteen years old and i i go to the mall, if a girl passes by me what should i say: hi gorgewous or hi beatiful

2006-12-22 06:26:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw an unknown number on her phone and she told me it was her friend, but I know she's lying. All women lie!!! Well I unwrapped her X-Mas presents she gave me and trashed em. How do I tell her to leave?

2006-12-22 06:26:57 · 21 answers · asked by mister roy jones 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are both religious (Christian) and we won't have sex before marriage and when we first started dating we committed to not breaking our "boundaries" (what is too far for us), but a year and three months later, we've gone quite a bit further (no sex). What is wrong and right?

2006-12-22 06:26:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love her and want to rekindle our sex life. She used to be so beautiful. We just had a baby so I know it is hard for her but I am very sexually active and need action. There's a girl at work who is giving me signs but I really don't want to go that route. We've only been married for 3 years... I can't imagine 30 more like this. We only have sex like once every three months. She doesn't turn me on at all anymore. I got us a membership at Gold's. I gained 20 pounds of pure muscle and look very good now. She went for about 2 months and then stopped going. Please help.

2006-12-22 06:26:17 · 54 answers · asked by Kevin B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-22 06:25:54 · 12 answers · asked by ricky s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 06:25:24 · 3 answers · asked by DaNi 2 in Singles & Dating

so i have this guy friend that i sit next 2 in a bunch of classes, and he and i r really good friends. i mean we laugh all the time, and even get detentions together. i dated him last year, and it didnt work out. but now people ask if were dating, and r makin up rumors bout us. i dont like him like that, hes only my friend. i tell them that but they just give me a funny look and are coy about it... ugh is soo annoying!

2006-12-22 06:24:49 · 12 answers · asked by sydd vicious. 2 in Singles & Dating

They seem to be the first to want to get married and also the first to want divorce.
Are they now being capricious again, when so many are rethinking their decision to pursue a carere?
Could this be the kind of flaw that does serious harm to society ( i.e. Fatherless homes, juvenile delinquency,infidelity, etc.)?

2006-12-22 06:24:31 · 11 answers · asked by big j 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married next year with my delighful boyfriend and he proposed me with a beautiful letter. plus, hes crazy about getting married, he mentions it everyday!!! LOL!

2006-12-22 06:24:15 · 11 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Weddings

Ok. The guy is obviously the world’s biggest loser for messing up the best thing that ever happened to his sorry self. But then when he finally comes to the realization that he majorly screwed up, why do some girls feel the need to “be there for him” through his self pitty “I think I’m going to die, if you don’t come back” party. Why do women tolerate this BS? When the guy doesn’t even deserve the sympathy of his own mother?

2006-12-22 06:22:39 · 11 answers · asked by Sean 4 in Singles & Dating

I feel cheated by my close friend. Recently I had given him a few of photos for printing purpose - but he hasn't returned back two of them and claim to have lost them which I don't believe -they are those of my wife taken when she undressed for me, for my personal viewing.i suspect he is having them. when i told my wife she says that it could be forgotten as she believe that he will never return it. isn't it an act of cheat and against true friendship to hold back my undressed wife's pics?

2006-12-22 06:22:22 · 7 answers · asked by orangeman 2 in Friends

The 20 y.o. that I'm flirting with makes me feel worthy.And it's gone a little bit further than the long conversations.I kissed him and he didn't resist or pull me away to stop.And we've been touchy-feely with one another.

2006-12-22 06:22:19 · 55 answers · asked by pink6022000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My father and brother both had enough 'macho' for any male alive -- the difference between them and the ever-so-common breed is that they had no interest in causing females any kind of humiliation or pain....but the others have bred more!!!! WHERE are the real men ?!

2006-12-22 06:21:19 · 6 answers · asked by Albatross 1 in Singles & Dating

So. I'm getting married in January of 2008. My finace's parents are Jehovah's Witnesses and my parents are Methodist. His dad won't go near another church so we can't get married in a church. Does anyone has some suggestions as to where we could get married (remember, it's in January) or how we could work the ceremony so that his dad will attend? Also, we live in the Twin Cities area in Minnesota.

2006-12-22 06:21:02 · 15 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Weddings

I have a secret/forbidden crush on my doctor and when I went in the other day with my mother, he kept on calling me cute and rubbing my shoulder. What could that mean? Cute as in looking at a child, puppy, or kitten? Or cute as in attraction?

2006-12-22 06:20:59 · 22 answers · asked by dlightful2u 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 06:20:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

................there are some woman who have never climaxed??? If so, is it due to a medical condition, or have they just had really bad lovers???

Mr Happy
:o)

2006-12-22 06:20:51 · 11 answers · asked by hagtagg 5 in Singles & Dating

how long can woman go without sex?if i was female i would have it every day and as many times as possible

2006-12-22 06:20:32 · 7 answers · asked by DAVID C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it good or bad?

2006-12-22 06:20:04 · 5 answers · asked by Rafael 1 in Singles & Dating

Just because she is made of metal and is concreted into my back garden doesnt excuse rudeness

Should I dump her?

2006-12-22 06:19:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-22 06:19:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy that I was casually seeing for over year, just moved away (sept) back to his hometown, for a job. He said he still wanted to keep in touch. So..about a month after he moved, I wrote him an email explaining some of my feelings, & questions he had asked me before he left, also invited him on vacation w/my parents. He emailed me back & asked to let him know when I go to CO. Then after that I called/emailed him a few times, didn't call back. So I didn't contact him for a month. Sometimes he gets suspicious if I don't keep in contact, so he called me lastnight. He asked me how I was, & then he told me about this girl he met, hooked up with. He knows I have feelings for him, so where was he going w/that? Anyway, I'm thinking he still wants me as a backup, is this sounding true? If she's not doin' him right, he wants to come back to me? He also asked about Colorado again, that he wants to go w/me still, what's the deal?!

2006-12-22 06:19:43 · 6 answers · asked by f a s h i o n i s t a 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a total A S S man, but for some reason i always end up with women with small waists and large breasts, not much A S S...not complaining, but if I'm an A S S man why do i always end up girls with none?
What do u guys like?

2006-12-22 06:18:24 · 13 answers · asked by sublimeguy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-22 06:17:53 · 28 answers · asked by baby 2 in Singles & Dating