so i have this guy friend that i sit next 2 in a bunch of classes, and he and i r really good friends. i mean we laugh all the time, and even get detentions together. i dated him last year, and it didnt work out. but now people ask if were dating, and r makin up rumors bout us. i dont like him like that, hes only my friend. i tell them that but they just give me a funny look and are coy about it... ugh is soo annoying!
2006-12-22 06:24:49 · 12 answers · asked by sydd vicious. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They won't...Unfortunately, our society doesn't accept the idea of men and women being friends. If you were fat and/or ugly, they probably wouldn't say anything at all.
Do they think you're a whore? Are they saying nasty things about you because you hang out with this guy?
Ever see them hanging out with any guys? If so, do they not understand that standards apply to them as well? In other words, if you're a whore for having male friends - they're obviously whores too if they hang out with guys. I can almost promise you that if you were to put this into perspective for them, they'd shut their damn mouthes.
Most of the time, people that gossip have too much time on their hands. They think their **** doesn't stink and are always looking for something to pin on someone else. Blow it off.
2006-12-22 06:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Grace777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing is happening to my son and a "girl" friend of his. They are not dating, they sit next to eachother in almost every class. There is nothing wrong with that at all! They are best friends and it is great! I told him when I was in high school my best friend was a guy and to this day we are best friends and we have been out of school for 20 years. His wife and I are friends also. Dont let stupid *** punks ruin a great friendship, dont listen to what they have to say. Let them think what they will. Happy Holidays
2006-12-22 14:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by mare122870 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you let it get to u there going to notice and they are just keep spredding the rumors but if u just ingnor them then they will realies that that rumor is getting old and stop and go spred rumors bout some body else b/c i had the same thing happen to me and i just ignor them then they just stopped saying that bout me and started wit some one else
2006-12-22 14:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "friends" that are dissing you are not your friends. Please try to think of them as immature. As soon as something else comes along, they will pick on someone else.
The best way to handle it is to ignore it. You can give them the "look" and say, "whatever". Don't feed into it by trying to explain. They are not interested in hearing reasons. It is very difficult to let it go, I know, but please try. Good Luck.
2006-12-22 14:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by intrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them don;t listen have you ever heard the saying a hit dog will holla? don't give them what they want and what they want to do is annoy you and make you mad.
2006-12-22 14:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by kenyetta59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sarcastic and make them shut up ;)
"Yes I'm deeply in love with him, but your boyfriend asked me out... so I'll probably go out with him. . . he's kind of hot." and then wink and walk away ;)
2006-12-22 14:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by lolipop4sell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares, let them talk, at least they care enough about your life to notice. Look at it that way, it should make you feel important
2006-12-22 14:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Idk. I say you both dont hang around together or get over the rumors and ignore them, they're just mad because you have a good friend probly......idk.
2006-12-22 14:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by goalie2qwk4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like your going otu and it will get old quick it worked for me
2006-12-22 14:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by kayia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them you dont
2006-12-22 14:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋