Ok. The guy is obviously the world’s biggest loser for messing up the best thing that ever happened to his sorry self. But then when he finally comes to the realization that he majorly screwed up, why do some girls feel the need to “be there for him” through his self pitty “I think I’m going to die, if you don’t come back” party. Why do women tolerate this BS? When the guy doesn’t even deserve the sympathy of his own mother?
2006-12-22 06:22:39 · 11 answers · asked by Sean 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a very interesting question.
Girls automatically have this pity thing in them. We seem to want to feel sorry for the lowest of low people. Its just something a woman has to do. I know this isn't answering your question because its so complicated. Its just the way it is. Women always feel sorry. lol
2006-12-22 06:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by baby_blue_trouble10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont. When he comes graveling back all I say is "You should have thought about that before". I will never give them a shoulder to cry on or sit there listening to anything they have to say. If they wanted it to work they shouldn't have done the stupid things they did in the first place. Maybe women are nice to them because it makes them feel good in some way. I dont know.
2006-12-22 06:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because we are nurtures.We love to take care of the weak.But not me I won't tolerate my ex's sh*t and I have no sympathy for his sorry jobless loser as*.But then again I left him cause he treated me like sh*t the entire time we were together so Why would I want to hold his hand and tell him everything is gonna be alright.
2006-12-22 06:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 06:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by woolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer? Because it strokes the girls ego and makes her feel good to see that guy who maybe hurt her wanting her back.
2006-12-22 06:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's because women are compassionate and have a heart unlike some men. Sometimes it's because they loved him and it's hard to get over things like that. No matter how big of a loser he is, if you love him, you help him. that's usually the way it works for women. but idk.
2006-12-22 06:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you totally!!!
I think that these women need to justify something to themselves of why they dated such a loser.
2006-12-22 06:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because thats how us women are and because we know that people make mistakes so we have to be there for them or we feel guilt and crud.
2006-12-22 06:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Destiny R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be nice to him but no way would I go back to him. I'm worth having and you get one chance so don't blow it! lol.
2006-12-22 06:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confusion dude!
2006-12-22 06:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by The Isht! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋