Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

my husband came back from iraq in january and told me he was going to the NASCAR races with all his friends 10 guys....ladies and wives not allowed...when he came home after 6 days i was looking at his camera from some pics i took myself only to notice in the digital memeory that there were girls at a cook-out with their shirts lifted up bearing breasts....several different girls and places..since he has been home he has never taken me anywhere special for his birthday i took him out for a romantic dinner got him a elec razor, cologne, clothes, etc and then for my b-day a month later he got me a lousy nail kit for about 10.00. he spends all his time with his kids from his prior marriage at sports,sports and sports, we have little time together and when i mention to him what about our time...alone or going away he tells me that he doesn't have the money...which is false...i pay all the bills and he makes ok money and gives me about 800 a month to help...i feel he is selfish and cheap

2006-12-22 11:20:52 · 17 answers · asked by suzanne m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when you like someone you shouldnt be liking? (for example, a teacher, your best friend's boyfriend, a married person, etc.)

Thanks =D

2006-12-22 11:20:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother is about 45 and has been home maker since my father started his own business and it was doing well. The business is going through tough times, so my mom had to start working everyday again after about 13 years of just being a house wife. Obviously, this puts a lot of extra stress on her that she wasn't used to having to deal with. On top of that, my little sister is 14 and is going through that "im better than everyone" phase which isn't helping mom's stress level. I could really use some help on this one.

2006-12-22 11:20:26 · 6 answers · asked by Michael N 2 in Family

I am going through a divorce and we have 50-50 custody with our 2 kids. Lately, my ex hasnt been seeing them on his weekends and weekdays. I asked him if he relized that new years weekend is his turn for the kids, and asked why he has been blowing off his time with the kids lately. He says he cant have them new years weekend because he is leaving for L.A. to pursue an acting career. Then says "I think you need to just have 100% custody, because I cant juggle trying to become an actor and take care of the kids. But when I make it big, then I should have 100% custody, because I think if they go to school in Beverly Hills that would be a better lifestyle for them, and I will have my mom come move there too, to be their nanny."
We have only been separated almost 2 months, and all the sudden he is "going to hollywood". We live in Arizona, used to live in San Diego, CA. He also then started asking me "what would you do if I started driving Vipers, and Humvees". Any comments on this?

2006-12-22 11:20:21 · 8 answers · asked by dianek 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-22 11:19:26 · 25 answers · asked by mauiniki 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up w/ my bf 3 mos. ago because we had a miscommunication. I just found out 2 wks ago he and his ex-gf patched things up.They had more than 5 yrs relationship compare to us. The only thing that I'm holding on to is the fact that we were childhood sweethearts. Since teenagers we have this deep feelings for each other it just didn't went through that time because we were young and we have different friends, schools and connections.I was very hurt when I found out about their reconciliation. I thought he just used me to cover up his failed affair w/ his ex.but eversince we broke up he never failed to keep in touch with me from time to time.He said that he & his gf just fixed things up between their indifferences but decided to separate ways.Now he's asking for another chance.Should I give him or us another chance??

I really love him...
and I also feel he loves me...

I need some advice.pls...

2006-12-22 11:19:11 · 7 answers · asked by deepthinker 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, so there is this guy I like. He lives over in England and I was wondering should I tell him I like him through email? Or not! I lived over there for a while and now I am back here. I met him whilst I was over there. He wanted to date when I was there, but at the time I couldn't. I was struggling with an eating disorder and i didn't feel like it was a good time to date anyone. I didnt tell him about the eating disorder but Well im back here in the states now and I still have feelings for him. But im not sure if he likes me anymore. We email eachother and I dont know how to tell. Any advice?

2006-12-22 11:18:07 · 18 answers · asked by Fi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 11:16:24 · 21 answers · asked by crystal h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 11:16:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Certain things about them make you believe they don't have much money. They are buying Christmas gifts for kids (you assume they are for thier own kids). When the woman goes to pay you notice several small things in her purse that they are not paying for and a new toy sticking out of the mans back pocket (still in the package). Do you:

1. Call security
2. Ask to see a recipt for the items in the purse and the man's pocket.
3. Let them go.

2006-12-22 11:16:05 · 8 answers · asked by Jack H 1 in Family

I really think my gf has mental issues. Seriously. Stemming from some sort of childhood trauma (unfortunately, which is why I have been so patient so far) but she has me at wits end now. She holds me at arms length, won't let me go but won't let me near, either. Enter my conundrum. If I am right, this woman is a serious threat to herself if I do tell her I am leaving for good (based on what I have been reading and the assumptions I have been making, which have had to be made b/c I can't get her to tell me anything!) So, I am contemplating calling her best friend and asking her simply if she knows if my gf knows what is going on w/ her, and if not telling her about what I am thinking and also telling her to keep an eye on her for me b/c I can't do it anymore. Is there really any other option?

2006-12-22 11:15:44 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

my bf is moving WAY to fast for me. hes trying to stick his hands down my pants non the second day.
HELP!

2006-12-22 11:15:36 · 19 answers · asked by April 2 in Singles & Dating

on my leg? in my boots? a hat on the corner? give me some ideas

2006-12-22 11:14:28 · 11 answers · asked by LaFawnduh 1 in Weddings

I have been dating this boy for 2 months and we have nothing to talk about. I ask him questions and he always come up short .. hes kind of quiet So I was just wondering how do I start a conversation to get him talking about things that matter

2006-12-22 11:13:31 · 20 answers · asked by Only Me 1 in Singles & Dating

She only showers once a week! Her breath smells so bad and she never does laundry. She wears her friends clothes when all her clothes are dirty and the bad part is she leaves bloody underwear underneath her bed! Ive talked to her about this and she continues to do the same thing! What else can i do?????

2006-12-22 11:12:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband told me he was going to visit his parents, dropped my daughter off at home and left the home i was supicious so i left and drove around the area a few hours later only to find out that he didn't go to his parents he went to a cook-out with his ex-wife and two sons...there was only one other couple there at the cook-out....she had her husband arrested two nights before this incident and my husband was changing the locks and when he came home that nigth she called to ask him to be there at 5am to dress the boys...??? they are 10 and 7??? there is a 14 year old in the house that could of helped them...but he went anyways to help her where she had to go to court....for the arrested husband for hitting her.....finally after a week she took her husband back and then my husband started to kiss the ground i walk on, but she continues to call all the time when we have the kids to say ''good night or ask them where we are at or what we are doing...she does not allow them with me alone

2006-12-22 11:12:53 · 10 answers · asked by suzanne m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been trying to truly get over my ex for so long now. I've been so upset about it lately. My friends haven't been helping at all. I'm so sad but I know it must be over. I wanted to call my friend because I need to get my mind off of it. I end up dialing his number and not even thinking about it. I was shocked that I did it. I let it ring once and realized and hung up. I just naturally dialed the number. This is horrible. How do you get over someone when you are so alone in the world?

2006-12-22 11:11:24 · 15 answers · asked by confused soul 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so im pretty good at flirting. but anyone have any tips on how to make me even better? thanks a bunch!

2006-12-22 11:11:05 · 13 answers · asked by Cheerleader657 2 in Singles & Dating

i think this guy likes me but how can you be sure?

2006-12-22 11:10:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 11:09:37 · 16 answers · asked by wisdom tooth 3 in Singles & Dating

I talked to him about the issue with him, I always hate how he always rejects me when I want sex from him...but he will start it when he wants it..and I will always say yes bc if it were up to me, we would have sex everyday---anyways---he says he is just not comfortable with other people inictiating it--and it really bothers me that I cant feel comfortable after a year and half of being with him to be able to jump ontop of him and feel confident and awesome around him....but I love him...so please dont suggest we break up---I want to fix this...not break up

2006-12-22 11:09:27 · 22 answers · asked by LadyAlysse 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime i hug my boyfriend or sit on his lap i start hearing his heart beat faster why is that please help

2006-12-22 11:08:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went on a first date last night with a guy and we really had fun. He took me for sushi and we talked until the place closed and then he took me shopping to help him pick a gift for his mom. We were saying goodbye and he asked me back to his place and to make long story short... He was was awesome. We both divorced a few months ago and were eachothers first since our ex's. He's going to visit his mom for a week for the holidays and assured me there would be more dates to follow. I have the morning after guilty feeling and am afraid he may not call me again. It was the best sex ever, we didn't stop till 6 am. Should I call him and thank him for everything or just wait?

2006-12-22 11:08:42 · 16 answers · asked by jamie kat 6 in Singles & Dating

All my life I've never found someone as wonderful as you.
I like your pretty smile, and the things you do.
I'm lost in a miracle, 'cause my miracle is you.
Distance might bring us apart,
But the joy of having someone so wonderful remains in my heart.
Your voice soothes my mind, your laughter eases my pain.
Your eyes send a vibe so shocking through my veins.
I've never felt such a feeling from such a person like you.
I know and always will know,
The one for me is you.

2006-12-22 11:08:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few minutes ago out of excitement, i guesse; she decides to tell a guy friend that she luvs him and she really meant it ...but she has a boy friend my best friend who she just got back together with.she wants me to to tell her if she should leave him and go out with the other guy or stay with her old boyfriend that she has gone on and off out with.What the hell shold i do

2006-12-22 11:07:38 · 9 answers · asked by bobobobobobo 1 in Friends

My husband keeps checking on me, Even if I have not done nothing wrong. I have never cheated on him an are not think of it but he does these things and makes me feel like i have done wrong.I had a sexuality guestion last time ( how do u no if your a lesbian) and he asked me about it last night.made me feel wrong.I was never guestioning my relationship, But he made feel that way.I was wondering if looking too long was lesbian. Plus my big sis said she is gay and has a husband and child. I dont no. I feel i should defend myself from wrong doing. is it wrong doing?. and yes he has been cheated on previous relationship, but not here

2006-12-22 11:06:40 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im not looking for a soulmate yet or even a life partner, i havent been in a relationships for a while and want an exciting, lovely guy to come into my life and stop myself from feeling so rubish, any ideas? know anyone? best place to find guys?

2006-12-22 11:05:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anna B 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend won't accept that a guy likes her, but i know for a fact that he does. he tries to show it, but she still doesn't agree! help me please?

2006-12-22 11:05:14 · 3 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

The people here are really snotty and I have to deal with it for at least a year!

2006-12-22 11:05:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-22 11:04:28 · 12 answers · asked by wickjeff06 2 in Singles & Dating