Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

would it matter to you if your partner had a child prior to your relationship together? please explain.

2006-12-22 11:02:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I both have children and we are very rarely able to spend time together alone. I was wanting to do something very romantic this evening with him since we will not have the kids. I don't have much money at all and was wondering if there was anyone out there that could give me some ideas of things that I could do here at home for the two of us.

2006-12-22 11:02:28 · 5 answers · asked by redscarlet_witch 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 11:02:08 · 24 answers · asked by Andrea A 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to know why guys cheat and when they do why dont they break up w/ the person they are cheating on

2006-12-22 11:02:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 11:01:24 · 5 answers · asked by Mont d'or 5 in Friends

2006-12-22 11:01:15 · 6 answers · asked by Totito 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When we started to date a year ago, he and his wife were separated and about to divorce. But they did not get it done dueo to the distance, finance, and the two kids.

Recently he was recalled by army and will be deployed to Iraq for 1+ year. So the divorce was put on hold again. But he begged me not to give up on him, as I will be the only hope to keep him motivated there. Yet he could not promise me anything after one year, as he may want to stay in the army for better career, better pay, and better sense of achievement.

He really loves me but he just has too many things (career, kids) more important than me. So I will never make to the top priority.

I'm willing to do anything to keep him safe and positive. I don't want to leave him when he needs me the most. But I'm also scared. What if after I suffer a year of anxiety and agony just to find out there's really no hope? Should I call it quit now or not?

2006-12-22 11:00:16 · 5 answers · asked by Questions 2 in Singles & Dating

chocolate or sex for 6 months,what would you choose? me? mmmm sex.after all I been married for 24 years.

2006-12-22 10:59:36 · 10 answers · asked by daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my baby father has been going through drama for a year now( that's how long we been apart), and he wants our daughter to go over his house sunday(christmas eve) , but anyway I don't want her to go because he told my ma that when our baby cried over his house he just put her in the play pen and let her cry her self to sleep, so am i wrong for thinking about saying no? , he can come over here to see her though. Help!

2006-12-22 10:59:24 · 3 answers · asked by twiggy_vienna_love 5 in Family

why do i like girls in thongs?????????????

2006-12-22 10:59:17 · 10 answers · asked by rpoker 6 in Singles & Dating

Like she uses a weak deodorant or somethin. I put too much of my cologne on so I don't have smell her. Should I just tell her, but I don't want her to be mad.

2006-12-22 10:57:48 · 44 answers · asked by Nicolas M 1 in Singles & Dating

ok theres this girl i like she likes me back...i wanna get her sumthin for christmas but everytime i ask her what she wants she says nuthin...now i kno that whole "respect her wishes" idea...but i kno she's gotta want sumthin so i guess im just wonderin if ne1 has ne good gift ideas

2006-12-22 10:57:44 · 4 answers · asked by RJ 4 in Singles & Dating

I really think my gf has mental issues. Seriously. Stemming from some sort of childhood trauma (unfortunately, which is why I have been so patient so far) but she has me at wits end now. She holds me at arms length, won't let me go but won't let me near, either. Enter my conundrum. If I am right, this woman is a serious threat to herself if I do tell her I am leaving for good (based on what I have been reading and the assumptions I have been making, which have had to be made b/c I can't get her to tell me anything!) So, I am contemplating calling her best friend and asking her simply if she knows if my gf knows what is going on w/ her, and if not telling her about what I am thinking and also telling her to keep an eye on her for me b/c I can't do it anymore. Is there really any other option?

2006-12-22 10:57:33 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

On February 14th 2007 I will have been married 2 long painful (yet often sometimes good) years. My husband has a hard time dealing with my sons dad. This is because he is not my sons real dad. My sons real dad has not wanted anything to do with my son. When my son was 6 months I started dating my brothers best friend and although it didn't work out he asked me to please never take my son out of his life. He had grown very close to my son in that year. My son knows about his bio father. My son is 9 now and he is very smart. My husband believes my so is so smart that he concocks schemes to get us to fight. He says my son has evil and malicious intents. He says I always says I am sticking up for my son. This coming from a man who obeys his mothers every wish including the most recent of kicking me out of our home. I have a 1 year old with my husband too. What should I do. He has kept me from school and he sold my car a year ago. I have nothing. He has all the money. Help!

2006-12-22 10:57:19 · 14 answers · asked by { Me } 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hes also like my best guy friend and i dont know what i should get him for christmas i need help please

2006-12-22 10:56:56 · 4 answers · asked by Meredith 1 in Friends

If you were offered a large, life-changing sum of money in exchange for one night with someone who is not your partner would you do it?

2006-12-22 10:56:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would prefer it if more girls answer.

2006-12-22 10:55:04 · 11 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 10:54:46 · 7 answers · asked by Totito 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A while ago my husband was looking through his pictures and showing me the new ones he took of our babies i grabbed the phone started going through all of them and saw some he had in a different folder and they were all of his erect penis , i thought that was weird since he yanked the phone away and said he was planning on erasing them and that it had been something dumb he did . I didn't pay much attention to this but several weeks later when he came back from work he was untiying his shoes and as he bent i cought a glance at his underwear and recognized a pink bikini i have , i got very nervous 'cause the first thing that came to my mind was; that he's gay . He said that women's underwear is more comfortable and that was the reason why he had worn mine but i am still unsure . Although he hasn't done it again , i think, I always have that question in the back of my mind. Guys, has this ever gone through you mind? Is it normal?

2006-12-22 10:54:33 · 11 answers · asked by Sabionda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need t know.

2006-12-22 10:54:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In fact, I like her a lot.
Her boyfriend, on the other hand, is perfect for me, and we constantly lock eyes and just... we have a thing. (Obviously I would never do more than look at him.)
When I was with my (now ex) boyfriend, he told my boyfriend he was lucky to have me. It was so cute. He is bored with his relationship with this girl, but I think she's great and I want her to be happy.

Still... that doesn't keep me from wanting to run off and marry this guy, if the situation were different. :(

Is this normal?? How do I get over it?

2006-12-22 10:54:16 · 5 answers · asked by well... 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 10:54:06 · 3 answers · asked by Bored Enough To Be Here 6 in Friends

2006-12-22 10:52:14 · 1 answers · asked by robert l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i am 15 and my dad and i are always fighting over stupid stuff. but it wouldnt be bothering me as much if it wasnt EVERY NIGHT!!!!!! and i try to please him by doing everything he wants me to do but he still finds sumthin to gripe about. like when i became a cheerleader he didnt say congradulations or anything but he did find sumtin else to gripe about. to make matters worse my mom takes his side and so i get screamed at double. so i am really really mad cuz i am always in trouble for NOTHING!!!! so give me some advise on what to do about this.

2006-12-22 10:51:58 · 19 answers · asked by STiLL<3HiM 2 in Family

Can I get in trouble if I have my ex put to sleep ? They charge by the pound but hey ......IT'S worth it !

2006-12-22 10:51:42 · 14 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to this guy for over 2 months now. How can I keep myself from being too clingy and moving too fast?

2006-12-22 10:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by Amy Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

those who have read my past questions will understand this a lil more so...I broke up with my boyfriend (glenn) about a week ago...
i just wanted to be friends becuase things weren't exactly going well...he said he was fine with it then afterwards he suddenly stoped talking to me..he even refused to look at me...
i felt so bad that i broke up with him and i couldn't help trying to get him to meet eyes with me and letting him know i was sorry
resently i emailed him and asked if he was mad at me..
he said that he wasn't mad at me it was just he was trying to let me go and forget but in his heart he couldn't...he siad he still really loves me... and he apologized for being the way he was for the last week.we have been emailing back and forth for a couple hours now and he keeps apologizing for nnot talking to me and not looking at me and stuff... now that i have actually talked to him everything feels so much diffrent and i can't figure out why..do you think im still in love with him??

2006-12-22 10:50:30 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Mystery 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I really want to get this gift, but it is too late to order it before christmas. Does anyone know a store I could go to that would carry it?

http://www.gifts.com/search/product?ideaID=5707&prodID=51551&sid=vsm:%22complimentary+cereal+bowl%22:P&rid=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.shopzilla.com%2F8N--Complimentary_Bowl_and_Pen_DIY__-_cat_id--20000001__nwylf--__oid--527728443

2006-12-22 10:50:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-22 10:49:42 · 17 answers · asked by Chquarh J 1 in Friends

I dont know how to even start explaining my situation.my mind is all over the place. I have been depressed over this break up i had like 2 months ago. i have a friend who just told me she has aids and is going die in a few months! she and other friends helped me get over him. I recently saw my ex again and all those feeling came back. I know this isn't major but i lived with him and i loved him very much. He told me he missed me. we had sex again, as soon as we finished it all went to hell he said it wasnt a good idea to keep "talking". This semester in school was a disaster I failed like 2 classes! I'm not gonna cry because i dont think I'll stop! I hate this year! it has had alot of ups and downs. It is not fair. I cant imagine being in her shoes! Last night i just did not know what to tell her.all I could say is that God couldnt do this. I am speechless when it comes to her! we usually hang out now she doesnt wanna go out! I have no control over them. I don't know how to help her!

2006-12-22 10:47:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends