A while ago my husband was looking through his pictures and showing me the new ones he took of our babies i grabbed the phone started going through all of them and saw some he had in a different folder and they were all of his erect penis , i thought that was weird since he yanked the phone away and said he was planning on erasing them and that it had been something dumb he did . I didn't pay much attention to this but several weeks later when he came back from work he was untiying his shoes and as he bent i cought a glance at his underwear and recognized a pink bikini i have , i got very nervous 'cause the first thing that came to my mind was; that he's gay . He said that women's underwear is more comfortable and that was the reason why he had worn mine but i am still unsure . Although he hasn't done it again , i think, I always have that question in the back of my mind. Guys, has this ever gone through you mind? Is it normal?
2006-12-22 10:54:33 · 11 answers · asked by Sabionda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
normal!!!???? yeah... for a PERV!!!
2006-12-22 10:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course it is not normal for a man to wear your underwear . My husband will hardly touch mine when we do laundry. The pictures of his private parts on the cell phone are not normal either . What on earth is he thinking . You have to ask him so you know where this is headed . Only you yourself can decide what you should do . With babies in a family , drastic measures are hardly an option. Maybe he should have some kind of counseling .
Good Luck .
2006-12-22 19:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ladies underwear is a fetish. It does not mean he is gay. Some men are into that sort of thing. Ask him not to wear yours anymore and to buy his own.
Pictures of his erect penis. He is sending them to people. Strangers probably, not a GF. I was on Y! messenger and get random IM's from men who want to talk (non sexual) and then send me a pic of their privates. I didn't send them a pic of me (of any kind), but apparently this is standard behavior for men. (I say that only because this has happened many times.) My husband thinks it's funny. (haha, I'm laughing all the way to the trash bin folder)
2006-12-22 20:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend had taken pictures of his penis erect before and the only reason he did it was because he was sending those pictures to other ppl. as far as your underwear that could just be a fetish, that doesnt mean hes gay....it certainly isnt a thing most guys do though.
2006-12-22 19:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the underwear, could be comfort, crossdressing but that's not too weird to me. But having pictures of "himself" on the cell phone is twisted. Why would he have these? Why would he keep them?
2006-12-22 19:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok... most guys take pics of their penis. And most gay guys wear guys undies (not women's). Gay guys like guys and therefore like things about guys (like guy's underwear).
2006-12-25 16:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by someone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im laughing my head off. Yikes. I think he likes to crossdress. Not sure if he's gay. Ask him.
2006-12-22 18:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds very interesting! he should just tell you that he is wearing them as its no big deal!
2006-12-22 20:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not normal something is wrong with this one honey get out as fast as you can!
2006-12-22 21:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by Scooter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not a guy, but this is not normal behavior.
2006-12-22 18:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by NAN G 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋