why do guys cheat?

Question

i want to know why guys cheat and when they do why dont they break up w/ the person they are cheating on

i have noticed most of u have said "the same reason women cheat" fyi i have never cheated on a guy

Answer 1

because they are jerks

Answer 2

Men, in my opinion, have an insatiable curiosity of the opposite sex. Also, often it's a need to feel wanted or "good" in bed. A man is nomadic and animalistic in nature. They are also more than not, afraid of the responsibility that comes along with commitment. This way (with cheating) they feel uncommitted and also intelligent should they not be caught. Where as women are capable of thinking with logic and emotion at once, men can only access one or the other at a time. Therefor, more than likely, when being illogical or logical, emotion plays no part and vice versa. Unfortunately, another reason may be sheer unhappiness in the existing relationship. If this is the case....it is not truly meant to be. A plan is in place for you. Men are also cheating do to being victims of flattery, conquest and challenge. Do not take a cheater back. They are non reformable.

Answer 3

The reason is simple. The reasons guys cheat are the same for why girls cheat. 90% of girls cheat. 90% of guys cheat. But why?

Guys are willing to do "anything" including paying a lot of money to get a girl drunk and into bed. Girls are willing to do "anything" including getting into bed to ged payed that money. It's society's hidden and unspoken mode of prostitution. Usually this type of prostitution happens during those get-aways and beach resort "holidays" in Cuba where they know they wont get caught. In their home town it happens usually when they are desparate. Make-up, plastic surgery, expensive cloths, perfumes, alcohol are all enhancers.

So why is it more acceptable if a man is caught cheating, and far less acceptable if a woman is caught?

Its basically the laws of supply and demand (economics). If a woman loses her job and gets bank-rupt, she gets free money by going to bed with a ritch guy. She has no "worries" within the economy. Why is that? Because in our economy, men have so far overpowered women in finance. Meanwhile, if a man loses his job he's "dead".

This causes men to "hate" women who do prostitution. The reason is purely economical. Obviously, many ritch women in fact hate men. These ritch women also do this hidden form of "male prostitution". And in the future, with higher women salaries, anything is possible!

The truth now is, do men who do not cheat, and women who do not cheat exist? Yes they do and they are everywhere to be found. But they are scarce, harder to find, and usually not easily stirred by money or power. But they do exist! It all takes patience and time to sort through all the losers out there, and there are plenty of them!

Luke

Answer 4

I cant tell you why guys cheat, but I can tell you that they feel bad about it cuz they almost always get caught. When cheat and dont get caught cuz they have no heart and dont think they are doing anything wrong. Its the guys fault that they are cheating. Well thats how it has been with all the woman that I know.

Answer 5

What a sexist question. Guys cheat for the same reasons women cheat.

Answer 6

Not all guys are like that. They just don't want the girls to attack them if they do cheat on them and tell them. They get attracted to a girl before they have a chance to break up with their past girlfriend. I think girls have something to do with their own sorrow for they make the wrong choice of guy. You should get a christian/catholic boyfriend who loves you and will be able to get a good enough job to provide for the family.

-Azooga-

Answer 7

Guys view things a different way women do, some think that they can have as many girlfriends as the like because no one is stopping them. Some men cheat because they thank it will make them popular,but most of the time it will come back to hunt them.

Answer 8

Because they want there cake and eat it to. I have been cheated on more then I can count. There *** holes. What can I say.They think that they can have a good girl at home who will be there waiting for them and then treats us like ****. They want a good girl to wait for them and have a girl on the side for sex. That's what one of my ex's said to me one time. They want us to be there slaves and take care of them while there out horeing around. Well I got news for them this girl is not and will not bow down to another guy again. I have taken to many chances. And I have had my heart broke to many times. If they want my trust they have to earn it. Two thumbs up to girls who are not going to take the cheating **** any more.

Answer 9

You got me, well because they don't respect you and don't love you as much as they say they do. I had this thing, where I would go out and date guys that would always cheat on me, I said tell me, don't let me find out from someone else. Well, they never did, so that ended up them having me kick their a**. But, I still have the hope that they don't, so I'm still dating.

Answer 10

It matter what kind of guy your talking about. Some guys are true to their word and some guys are total losers, who don't care who there hurting. Guys are guys and If your guy is cheating dump him girl. Guys might not want to dump a girl because he might really like her but also like the other girl. So they don't want to have to choose between the girls or they don't have the brains to do it

Answer 11

it is not just a "guy" thing. Women cheat also. I guess it is thinking something or someone better will come along, but don't want to give up what they have, until they know they have something better. Or, they just like to experiment sexually, the more the merrier (std's included).