How d I start a conversation with my boyfriend?

Question

I have been dating this boy for 2 months and we have nothing to talk about. I ask him questions and he always come up short .. hes kind of quiet So I was just wondering how do I start a conversation to get him talking about things that matter

Answer 1

If you have been together 2 mos and have nothing to talk about, there is something worng with your relationship. That is way too early to run out of stuff to chat about. If shyness is the issue, I guess I'd try talking about something that he is interested in--if he still doesn't respond, break it off, it's not going anywhere. You know you are in a good relationship when you never run out of things to talk or laugh about, but are also perfectly fine with silence.

Answer 2

If you are already asking him a lot of questions, then maybe that's the best you can do. If the two of you don't have anything to ever say, maybe it's time for a new boyfriend. One of the best things about being in a relationship is having someone to talk to.

Answer 3

hey girl whats good with you? nah my ex was like that but nah after work or school or somthing call and and be like hey babe how was ur day today? ask him general questions lol always remind him that u love him every time when u hang u the phone always say i love u and when u start a conversation say somthing sexy and say hey babe or baby and u have to always constantly ask him stuff cuz u want him to open up to u and u want him to u tell u whats on his mind lol

Answer 4

U can start a conversation by naming the things yall have in common.

Answer 5

Now you know what your parents feel like when they ask you questions.

"How was school?" "Fine."
"Did you learn anything interesting?" "No."

Ask open-ended questions that he can't answer with a single word. "What do you think of ______?"

That said, he may just not have much in common with you besides a mutual attraction. This happens a lot. I like that you see this as a problem now; it says that you want depth in your relationships.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Bear in mind that guys talk about one third the amount that girls do. He might just be a deep thinker. Give hime some space and let him be himself.

Answer 7

Pues mira....la neta te voy a presentar a Trapato....él tiene simepre algún tema de conversación.....así que ya manda a freir espárragos a este "guey".....

Answer 8

here is a new concept for you, you say things that matter, right? ok, try talking about thing that matter to him and not you. stop being selfish, maybe you are the problem.

Answer 9

I personally avoid dating quiet guys... I easily get bored!

If you have to ask that question... then yo probably shouldnt be dating him.

Answer 10

why dont you start conversation based on something hes interested in like cars or whatever hes into... it'll get going from there.... good luck