I went on a first date last night with a guy and we really had fun. He took me for sushi and we talked until the place closed and then he took me shopping to help him pick a gift for his mom. We were saying goodbye and he asked me back to his place and to make long story short... He was was awesome. We both divorced a few months ago and were eachothers first since our ex's. He's going to visit his mom for a week for the holidays and assured me there would be more dates to follow. I have the morning after guilty feeling and am afraid he may not call me again. It was the best sex ever, we didn't stop till 6 am. Should I call him and thank him for everything or just wait?
2006-12-22 11:08:42 · 16 answers · asked by jamie kat 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
marry him
2006-12-22 11:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him to thank him---he could get the impression that that is all you wanted. However, I'd call him on Xmas to wish him a happy holiday, and on a side note mention that you had a great time, and look forward to his return. That should get the point across without it coming on too strong. BTW, it may be hard not to, especially when you have such a great time, but sleeping with the dude the first night doesn't give the best impression---not criticizing, just speak from my and others' personal experiences.
2006-12-22 11:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by cna_77381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. I think it's the man's job to be the one to make that phone call and it'll be more exciting for you when you do receive that call. Also, I think it's a good idea that a girl doesn't make herself appear too clingy or possesive right at the start of a relationship, some guys get freaked out by that.
2006-12-22 11:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. Don't look pushy or needy or he'll never call you again. As much as we try to achieve equality in our relationships...it's still up to the man to make the next move.
2006-12-22 11:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait until he calls..if it was that good then he'll call and then tell him you would have called him but with the holidays you've been real busy..the last thing you want is to seem "clingy" and good luck
2006-12-22 11:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by bgbadwolf27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him a few days after so you do not seem very desperate, tell him how you really feel do not hold anything back, good luck.
2006-12-22 11:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him, keep it short. Say, "I can't stop thinking about last night and just had to call and say thank you."
2006-12-22 11:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are hunters by nature... so sit back and wait and he will msg you ... but make sure when he calls that you tell him .. you care and he makes a difference to your life.. the trick is to let him know you are interested without telling him that you have fallen for him
2006-12-22 11:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Here2Share 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You blew it..... he got the milk why buy the cow.
First date , sex?
Dont call him, you already blew it anyway. That just shocks me that women do that. Men dont marry women who do that.
2006-12-22 11:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by SunValleyLife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats long sex and yea call him but just say hi dont go on and on
2006-12-22 11:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by j-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are feeling guilty because you did it on the first date and you knew you shouldn't. i agree men like a challenge.
take the walk of shame ....let him call you...and he will... for a booty call... sorry ...but don't do it again... please
2006-12-22 11:19:40 · answer #11 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋