I really think my gf has mental issues. Seriously. Stemming from some sort of childhood trauma (unfortunately, which is why I have been so patient so far) but she has me at wits end now. She holds me at arms length, won't let me go but won't let me near, either. Enter my conundrum. If I am right, this woman is a serious threat to herself if I do tell her I am leaving for good (based on what I have been reading and the assumptions I have been making, which have had to be made b/c I can't get her to tell me anything!) So, I am contemplating calling her best friend and asking her simply if she knows if my gf knows what is going on w/ her, and if not telling her about what I am thinking and also telling her to keep an eye on her for me b/c I can't do it anymore. Is there really any other option?
2006-12-22 11:15:44 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you aren't happy with her I don't think you should be wasting your time being in a relationship with her. Talk to her about what's going on, and tell her that if she can't chill out that you can't be in the relationship. Maybe something is going on with her. Good luck!
-J
2006-12-22 11:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on and let her move on also ...you need someone you don't have to worry about constantly...and always asking her friends about her mental state....its not you its her...make yourself happy...life is too short not to be happy..do you really want to walk around on eggshells the rest of your life wondering what her state of mind is... I say NO
2006-12-22 19:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant help someone who doesnt want to help themselves. working together for the good of all is a wonderful thing.
2006-12-22 19:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋