A few minutes ago out of excitement, i guesse; she decides to tell a guy friend that she luvs him and she really meant it ...but she has a boy friend my best friend who she just got back together with.she wants me to to tell her if she should leave him and go out with the other guy or stay with her old boyfriend that she has gone on and off out with.What the hell shold i do
2006-12-22 11:07:38 · 9 answers · asked by bobobobobobo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her what you think is right. at the end of the day, it's up to her to decide what she wants to do. it is her life, after all. if you wanna help her by answering to her in the situation, you can tell her to choose the guy that she likes the most. she cant exactly love the guy friend. she's probably just more so infatuated with him. at the same time, the feeling may not be reciprocated. what would happen if she broke up with her boyfriend only to find that the guy she supposedly "loves" doesnt even like her? then she'll probably be coming back to you for advise, and that's something you would probably not like. the best thing to do is to tell her that it's really up to her to decide what she wants to do, and that you will take no part in her love life because it's her life, not yours. i think hearing you say that would make her realise that you're not the person to ask for this and therefore wouldnt ask you. sure, she may turn to someone else, but if she wants to be like that, and decides to cut you off along the way, then you hav to ask yourself if she's really your friend.
2006-12-22 11:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she has too look first before she jump in that this boy Friend see what she likes about him the most then the worst thing
2006-12-22 19:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by fatbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to stop being bad girl choose the the right man she really loves
2006-12-22 19:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by mariefel q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she needs to take control of her own life. she made a big mistake, and no one but herself can fix it.
2006-12-22 19:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by In Need of Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down, and type without so many mistakes?
2006-12-22 19:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by martino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and her should both seduce the new guy at the same time, and keep it a secret
2006-12-22 19:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to run her own life.
2006-12-22 19:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by a heart so big 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO GET OF IT
2006-12-22 19:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by temari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you think is right!
2006-12-22 19:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋