my bf is moving WAY to fast for me. hes trying to stick his hands down my pants non the second day.
HELP!
2006-12-22 11:15:36 · 19 answers · asked by April 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you'd like to take it slow. You want to make sure that he likes you for you and not for what's in your pants, if you know what I mean? He might just be after sex... and if that's the case you definitely don't want to have anything to do with him. You want someone who is willing to wait until you have been together for a while (ideally until you are married... because, trust me on this, it saves you a lot of problems in your relationship). If he acts like your wanting to slow down upsets him... dump him... you deserve better and he never really liked you.
Best wishes. Be strong.
2006-12-22 11:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need help. If you know that its going to fast (like I'm typing) tell. whoo.I know how you feel. I think my relationship is going to fast also. so just think about it. if you now that just tell him that if he cant except my decision on how your not ready dump him. you don't want to be pregnant on the second day. so just find time to talk to him. trust me it would work. If it doesn't email me at windowjgfun@yahoo.com
2006-12-22 19:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by jamie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you 12?
2006-12-22 19:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't take a polite no...dump him. He may have dated a sluuyish girl before and thinks that's the way to act.
2006-12-22 19:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that your uncomfortable and that he's going too fast. If you don't communicate this to him he'll just keep trying until you give in.
2006-12-22 19:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No means no. If he keeps going, tell him it's rape. Make sure you have a friend or parent or other adults nearby. Because if you let him get away with it, he won't stop...
2006-12-22 19:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geezzzzzzzzz hes your bf,only after 2 days,get real girl dump hiss ***
2006-12-22 19:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not ready to go there yet and to back off. Then tell him NO and mean it. Then drop him if her insists.
2006-12-22 19:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by spitfin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get the hell off of you and if he doesn't, buy some mace. Don't let him do anything you don't want him to. It's called sexual assault.
2006-12-22 19:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by cna_77381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too fast? tell him to slow down. he won't? dump him.
it's that simple. what's the problem? what do you need help for?
grow up...
2006-12-22 19:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋