Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

2006-12-21 04:17:09 · 24 answers · asked by tina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister is having an affair with a married man. She wants him to leave his wife and get married to her. He claims that he feels the same way. However, he wants his son to finish college first. His son is only two years old. She wants to know if she should wait. this guy says he is highly mis understood by his wife......any help please as i can't get her to listen to my point of view.....maybe you guys can help.

2006-12-21 04:16:41 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone out there think that some women prey on men that ar married? Such as men working out of town away from their families or soeone they see out that is obvioulsy having difficult times with their spouse. Do you think they manipulate them into believing that they deserve better than their wife, by building up their ego and making them think that thier wife does not love or respect them the way that they should, and of course she will be everything that he will ever need from that point on? What makes women do this? Do they really think that there is commitment i their future. Don't get me wrong, I KNOW THE MAN IS ALSO AT FAULT!!!!! Just want to know why someone would choose to sleep with a married man. Is there no respect for fellow women. Do they not stop to think how they would feel? Just crious if anyone else knows women like this.

2006-12-21 04:16:20 · 37 answers · asked by hurtand still in love 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just hooked with my bf and we had oral intercourse the next day at school he told his friends my private part smelled like old milk and fish and it got around the school I am really embarrsed and haven't talk to him in days What should I do should I transferr schools????

2006-12-21 04:16:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so what do you do about it. And please don't say go out and get laid I am not like that I am waiting to loose my virginity to my soul mate.

2006-12-21 04:15:55 · 20 answers · asked by Hades 1 in Singles & Dating

starts crying then i get in trouble for starting something. What should i do>?

2006-12-21 04:15:52 · 13 answers · asked by tracer-racer 1 in Family

Are there ways or techniques or reducing your expectations of the people around you?

2006-12-21 04:15:27 · 13 answers · asked by laydeeheartless 5 in Friends

2006-12-21 04:15:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy and we talk every once in a while, sometimes i see him look at me. one time people told me he checked out my a$$. but lately he hasn't talked to me at all or waved or said hi. i went to a winter ball and i had tried to ask him to it the week before but he never gets online and i was to shy to ask him in person. then at the winter ball i didn't think that he had a date because it was already 45 minutes after the dance had started but then this girl comes in and he goes over to her, and its his date. at the dance he looked at me a few times and we made eye contact but he never came over or said hi. i am confused and crushed

2006-12-21 04:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by sweet_pea 1 in Singles & Dating

I do not think you are ever going to stop teens from having sex. It is part of being human. Sex is the strongest urge we have. Half the grown men and woman in the 30s and 40s can not even control it. I also do no think that drug ads do any good. Parents can have great impact on whether a kid will or will not use drugs but ads on TV and radio do nothing. What do you think?

2006-12-21 04:13:16 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Family

Ok, so I just got word like two days ago that I was out of a job by January. I really can't afford to spend any money on my boyfriend. See the thing is that I'm trying to save up for school and well I also have to help my family.
Now my boyfriend is very much into cars, building model airplanes, and producing music. Hey is also very eccentric. He very much into me wearing very high heel... short skirts, or shorts, tiny tops... basically he likes to dress me like a slut. lol
Another thing is that I've very shy and insecure about my body so, any ideas?

2006-12-21 04:11:45 · 11 answers · asked by Jackie C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I met this kid about a week ago, he is 18, one year older than me. I thought he was really nice and he is so sweet but well lets just say I got to know him a little better. He gets really mad when I mention other guys, he says he knows they are just friends but he just dosen't want to hear about them, He gets frustrated really easily, and he is well lets just say really experienced.
Despite all that I can't help myself from likeing him. He is so sweet and says he really likes me and travels like 45 min every day just to see me. He always compliments me and keeps saying he wants to be with me but it is quite evident he has alot of issues. He has talked to my mom and told her he wants to sit down and talk to her about "our relationship" and his intentions What do you think I should do and what do you think his true intentions are?

2006-12-21 04:11:10 · 10 answers · asked by xxblissfulxsinxx 1 in Singles & Dating

My phone and my cell phone is disconnected and I have no way of getting in touch with this person immediately except by email but this person never checks her email. What should I do?

2006-12-21 04:10:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The child grew up right and was adopted but searched and found my daughter, who is a seller of drugs. The young woman now is selling drugs and using and living with characters she pays and upkeeps. My daughter wants her to stop. I suggested my daughter has to stop in order to set this right. My young granddaughter I haven't met but she is angry at her mom and her mom does not need to sell. She is living well without selling. Any advice on how to stop this. My words haven't had effect. No other child of mine has done this.

2006-12-21 04:10:39 · 9 answers · asked by nanbeloved 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband gets home at around 3:30pm and as soon as he gets home he gets on the computer and starts to play this game called guild wars and he stays on it till we go to bed at 10:00pm. Even when we watch a show together he will sneak back to the computer to check on things, Im fed up and want him to spend some time with me and his 2 kids what can i do? ive tried to reason sayin that if he plays this night i get this night or he can only play for an hour each night but he never listens to me and i need someone to spend time with me please help?

2006-12-21 04:09:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My aunt is accuseing me of having sex....Mind you I'm a virgin....so she started telling people i was pregnate.....No Way.....should i take a test just to prove to her or should i just let her run her mouth

2006-12-21 04:09:00 · 14 answers · asked by Mrs. Pryor 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and i have been dating him for almost a year but one night my ex invited me to a party and he got my real drunk and we did stuff and he knew that i had a boyfriend and so i ended my relationship with that guy because i was to afraid to tell him that i cheated on him.but once i told him we worked things and were still friends and i want him back do you think me and him should get back together?

2006-12-21 04:08:36 · 10 answers · asked by Shadow 2 in Friends

My mother is dating and living with a man named, let's say Dave. Well, Dave has told me on numerous occations that he is not a one woman man, though he has yet to cheat on my mother, and last week he admitted to me that he's attracted to me and would like to have sex with me. I am married, which he knows, but that did not stop him from coming on to me. Well two days ago he asked me for my underwear so he can "get just one taste". I am appalled and discusted. I told my husband and we can not decide what to do about this. They both are supposed to come over for Christmas in three days. I don't really want him in our home and neither does my husband but he would let him if that's what I wanted. Should I tell my mother? Or should we just tell Dave that after Christmas he is never to come by or speak to me again? I need help.
My mom has been divorced twice, is very dependant on men, is about to quit her job because Dave makes enough money to pay rent. She probably will not be abl

2006-12-21 04:08:31 · 48 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Family

decided to hang around through Christmas - is this ok?

2006-12-21 04:08:17 · 13 answers · asked by JustMe 5 in Singles & Dating

Please help...I met a guy from the USA,I am from London.We have been messg/web cam/phoning each other but have not had the best timing to MEET.We have spent hrs and hrs talking..But due to the distance,we seem to not be communicating well lately.What should I do ?? I really do care for him and vice-versa xx

2006-12-21 04:07:17 · 18 answers · asked by XchanelleX 2 in Singles & Dating

And he asks YOU for money?
Why or why not?

2006-12-21 04:07:02 · 26 answers · asked by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

we cant think of anything to do
first off
it is a school night, so we cant be up tooooo late, and we gotta walk to school the next day =[
and she doesnt have a puter, so we cant do that. so does anyone have any fun ideas of things we can do

2006-12-21 04:05:35 · 11 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Friends

My friends name is Sam she is staying at my house tonight. She is my best freind. What should we do?

2006-12-21 04:05:22 · 5 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Friends

It started out me and a friend of mine (not a very close friend just sumone from work) both liked the same guy but she is really ugly and the guy said he would never go out with her. But shes full of herself and she thinks/thought she actually had a chance. But me and him ended up going out and she was really mad/sad and upset. This was over the summer. She calls him and text him all the time he usally doesnt answer though, so one time i decided to answer and i was talking to her cuz she said we were cool and that we wernt gonna fight any more and then she said "you stole my man from me" and i was like "what?" and then she said "u don t have any thing to say to that" and i said "HE WAS NEVER GONNA GO OUT WITH U NE WAYS!" and then i hung up. She just wont leave him alone and i dont know why but he doesnt want to defend me or be mean to her. Hes always nice to her and i get jelous really easily. Im so scared. She just wont leave us alone. Shes freakin crazy!

2006-12-21 04:04:47 · 17 answers · asked by clueless_cat14 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my fiance and i haven't had the best of luck together. nothing ever seems to go right for us, and sometimes we argue and fight about things that shouldn't even matter. i'm 19 and he's 25 and he moved from his home in Florida to be with me in Virginia so i could finish school, leaving his whole life behind and his family. we haven't had the best of luck like I've mentioned before, and we aren't in the best financial state. i don't want this holiday to be miserable for him. we're about to have a baby and I want him to have a christmas like he's used to having. I want him to feel at home. how can i make this holiday special for him?

2006-12-21 04:03:18 · 21 answers · asked by kaiyas_mom07 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-21 04:03:11 · 4 answers · asked by Keith 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife freaks out when it comes to numbers and that transfers over to anything that has to do with money other than is there enough in the account at this moment to pay for this thing.
I have been trying to talk to her about planning and how much money we waste every day, but she just doesn't get it. If I put her on a super strict budget she gets all defensive (as does her friends) about how she is a "kept woman". I tell her she is more "kept" by her creditors than I will ever keep her, but she just doesn't get it.

2006-12-21 04:02:43 · 11 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

10 months ago I ran into this guy,we hit it off.We were like magnets that night.I was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they r mutual freinds)he listend and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay so he did not have to drive so far home that night,he did.I asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,i was vulnerable at that point in my life,he was a complete gentlman.Thnigs were awkward when we woke up and when he had left that morning,a mutual freind told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who was trying to get me back)I ran into this guy again2 months after that night and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex wasalso there and was freaking out that we likedeachother.I sent thisguy a text a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him again 6 months later at a party,he walked in with another girl(although it did not appear that they were together)he saw me and

2006-12-21 04:02:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and i broke up 2 years ago (he was cheating on me, and yes, he is still with her). We have dealt with each other off and on for about a year now. He says he wants to be "cordial", but everytime i call him, he has some excuse for not wanting to talk to me (he's busy at work, he has company, he's driving, his cell battery is dying, he has no minutes left on his phone, etc). So, i gradually stopped calling him,since it seemed he didn't want to be bothered anyway. But then he turns around and calls me at 1:00am to tell me "good night"--WTF?? Yesterday he called me to "say hi and see how i was doing". He only calls about once a week, but i don't see why he calls me at all. Obviously he doesn't want to talk when i call him, and he has a girlfriend anyway. He also tells me to "leave him alone" whenever we get into an arguement about something. OK i leave him alone, but he ALWAYS starts calling me again EVENTUALLY. What the f!@# is wrong with him? What should i do when he calls?

2006-12-21 04:01:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday my boyfirend invited his best friend and his best friend's girlfriend over. He knows I dislike her so he didn't bother to tell me she was there until I walked in my house. He had the day off and I worked a 10 hour day at a very busy law firm. When he called me at 6 I asked him if the kids had dinner yet and he said he was waiting on me. I said, "Well then don't I have to cook for everyone? He's like, "Yea." So I rush to the store, get home cook a big dinner while everyone sits around playing Deal or No Deal, put the kids to bed, serve coffee and dessert. He had no idea why I was annoyed. When I told him I was tired and needed to go to bed because I had to be at work early he told me I needed to explain that to everyone so I didn't seem rude. Am I making too much out of this?

2006-12-21 04:01:31 · 11 answers · asked by Tink 2 in Friends