Please help...I met a guy from the USA,I am from London.We have been messg/web cam/phoning each other but have not had the best timing to MEET.We have spent hrs and hrs talking..But due to the distance,we seem to not be communicating well lately.What should I do ?? I really do care for him and vice-versa xx
2006-12-21 04:07:17 · 18 answers · asked by XchanelleX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
None can say anything about him, unless some one really know the one.
He may be a cheat or right man.
Chance is 50-50.
If you believe in Gambling, try your chance.
If you believe in Luck, go ahead.
And if you believe in God, leave this thing on to God. The person shall come to UK to propose you and take you along to USA.
If he comes, You must go.
2006-12-21 04:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Atif Mirza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a fantasy you've created, not "love". Love isn't about typing words into a computer for months, it's about 2 human beings in the same place, building an emotional, physical and mental bond. The problem is this: human beings have a biological need for human contact. A hard machine with words running across it gets old and cold. People realize they want to hold hands with a human. People realize they need to laugh and see someone's eyes and smell their hair. Usually what happens is these internet affairs start, the person feels a rush of feelings, and after realizing 1-they'll never meet the other person and 2-those loving feelings feel good, they go out and meet someone- a human they can hold and touch- to share their life and loving feelings with.
2006-12-21 12:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe unless either u or him decide to move out of country for each other then that is how you willl find out what it really is. I mean u must see this guy is so nice so everything to u and if u seen him on the webcam u must like his looks also and i mean if u been talking to him n chatting with him ur really getting to know him and u never know it might b true love. Why? Well because thats a good way to know a lot about a person! and the good thing is that ur going to like him for him.
2006-12-21 12:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by psycho_latin_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have chatted and cammed with ladies from London as well. Enjoyed it very much. But the problem is the time difference. Here on the west coast were 8 hours behind you. Just do your best to stay in touch, if he backs further away, then move on.
2006-12-21 12:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister, who lives in US, maintained an online friendship with a man from Scotland for two years. They proceeded to visit each other for the next year. A year after that, they got married, both in Scotland and in the US. He chose to relocate and they recently celebrated their first wedding anniversary.
My answer: Make some time to spend with each other. He could be the one!
2006-12-21 12:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships don't work for long term...
me and my girlfriend live 5000 miles from each other. I know the hardships involved...
unless there's already plans in place (or your working on them) to be able to move closer to each other (doesn't have to be together, but you need to be near each other), then i would say to be careful, because it's not going to last...
My girlfriend and i plan on moving in together (i'll be moving to her) in either a couple of months to maybe 6 months...
we'll have to see how things go, but i don't see it being longer then 6 months...
hope things work out for you...
2006-12-21 12:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a web cam
2006-12-21 12:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jnsp52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew. I've had one too many internet love-dovey things. Trust me, it's not gonna work out.
But hey, it may be different for you. Make time to be with him. Better yet, tell him to get his a*s over to your place. =)
2006-12-21 12:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make time in both your lives and meet, if you are really serious about each other
2006-12-21 12:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make time to meet him. You never know, he could be the love of your life!
2006-12-21 12:08:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋