10 months ago I ran into this guy,we hit it off.We were like magnets that night.I was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they r mutual freinds)he listend and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay so he did not have to drive so far home that night,he did.I asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,i was vulnerable at that point in my life,he was a complete gentlman.Thnigs were awkward when we woke up and when he had left that morning,a mutual freind told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who was trying to get me back)I ran into this guy again2 months after that night and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex wasalso there and was freaking out that we likedeachother.I sent thisguy a text a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him again 6 months later at a party,he walked in with another girl(although it did not appear that they were together)he saw me and
2006-12-21 04:02:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looked away quick.
2006-12-21 04:03:46 · update #1
+ The only way for you to find out for sure is to pursue the issue. If you are not willing to do it then move on. If it were either the carpenter or the plumber from Carver you would know immediately
2006-12-21 04:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by buddiessister 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It can be two things: he may be such a gentleman that he is putting honor of a friend (your ex) before his own wishes, or he may just not be into you enough to want to risk the mess of it by ticking off your ex or getting involved with you and finding out you may want to go back to your ex.
I agree with Evil Spoon that the only way you'll ever really know is to get him to speak directly with you about it.
2006-12-21 12:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No No too much going on in this story already! my advice, move on leave it alone find a brand new man. Good news is there are plenty fish in the sea! i am sure you will be able to find someone that has no ties to your past, trust me you will save yourself a lot of heart ache & drama!
Good Luck Girl & enjoy your memory of that night sounds very special, don't ruin it by trying to make it more then wha it was!
2006-12-21 12:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was probably cheating! If you think he's a gentemen on the outside, he's maybe a complete freak inside. lf you find out or see if anyone is cheating, never, ever, forgive them! Because, they'll do it again! Just leave him. Trust me. l've been there. But
there are millions of other guys to check out. Good Luck!
Saskue: You're a complete SL*T!!!!
Sakruda:Shut the hell up Saskue!!!
2006-12-21 12:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he occasionally remembers that night. Though a gentleman he was, it's probably a memory of frustration. Next time he's not in a relationship, you should reward him with a one night stand to say thanks for being there and for being a gentleman.
Of course you don't owe him sex for that, but sex is something enjoyable to share between two people, so why not!
2006-12-21 12:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he still thinks about that night. You guys shared something special/intimate. Could be that you are gay and so is he but you are mor eopen to it. If he continues to ignore you though, cut your losses. Do not keep giving him opportunities to reject you.
Good luck. I am sure it will work out fo ryou!
2006-12-21 12:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's one of those wanna be players dont let it get to you.. to be honest he probably doesnt remember like you do... Guys will say anything they think a girl wants to hear..Sorry about your hard loss..Better things will come a long i'm sure you know that
2006-12-21 12:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by greeneyedgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he remembers. He probaly is just freaked out about that night. He really is trying hard to ignore you. He probaly really loves you but he is trying to stay away from love. I bet he still rememebers..I think it is faith that you guys are meeting places.
2006-12-21 12:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes u .. but in some way or the other is frightened by ur ex...
try to talk to him once.. and you will get an idea whats going on ..
dont do begging
2006-12-21 12:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him how you feel. If you want this guy instead of your ex let him know asap.
2006-12-21 12:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋