ok so i like this guy and we talk every once in a while, sometimes i see him look at me. one time people told me he checked out my a$$. but lately he hasn't talked to me at all or waved or said hi. i went to a winter ball and i had tried to ask him to it the week before but he never gets online and i was to shy to ask him in person. then at the winter ball i didn't think that he had a date because it was already 45 minutes after the dance had started but then this girl comes in and he goes over to her, and its his date. at the dance he looked at me a few times and we made eye contact but he never came over or said hi. i am confused and crushed
2006-12-21 04:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by sweet_pea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
about the whole girl at the dance thing. he is single and he told people they were just "friends"
2006-12-21 04:20:10 · update #1
stand up and ask him out. the worse thing that can happen is he'll say no, i know it's heartbreaking. if he does say no, he is either making the biggest mistake of his life, or he just isn't the right one. Good Luck.
2006-12-21 04:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to start some conversation with this guy. You have nothing to lose.
He's obviously too shy to approach you. He probably took that other girl to the ball because he knows her and feels comfortable asking her to go.
If he wasn't interested in you he probably wouldn't be checking you out the way that you said he does.
2006-12-21 12:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys normally check out girls no matter who it is... so don't get too caught up on that.
Also, if you guys look at each other for more than a few seconds, then maybe you should just go up to him and say hi. He might be wondering the same thing about why you keep looking at him... if you're worrying about why he keeps looking at you.
2006-12-21 12:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Nina Abb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not interested. I would just move on to someone who appreciates you. Just because he checked outyour *** doesn't mean he likes you. Guys do that all the time and have no feelings at all for the girls they check out. If a guy is interested he will check you out and look at you in your eyes and face and stare at you, not just your butt.
2006-12-21 12:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well hunny what you need to do is to take some initiative and ask him your self. whats the worse that can happen him want to b your friend comeon now it can't be that bad! but if you really care about him that bad ten take a chance and have fun while you are at it!
good luck
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2006-12-21 12:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by lizzie_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have/is interested but was too shy to ask. The new girls may have been more forward and he proceeded. They may not be an item so push your luck.
2006-12-21 12:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Keith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that he's either really shy or that this is maybe a hint that he's not into you.. you should just go and talk to him and see maybe if he wants to hang out sometime.. maybe he wants you to be direct :) :) :)
2006-12-21 12:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by sexton 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be crushed because it may have been his girl or maybe he jsut looked at you and never said anything because he's in a relationship and dont wanna lead your feelings to an empty heart
2006-12-21 12:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by diedra06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what are you waiting for? Hurry up and ask him out on a date for this weekend! He probably doesn't think you're interested...so, let him know!!
2006-12-21 12:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else he sounds like he's to much trouble.
2006-12-21 12:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋