My husband gets home at around 3:30pm and as soon as he gets home he gets on the computer and starts to play this game called guild wars and he stays on it till we go to bed at 10:00pm. Even when we watch a show together he will sneak back to the computer to check on things, Im fed up and want him to spend some time with me and his 2 kids what can i do? ive tried to reason sayin that if he plays this night i get this night or he can only play for an hour each night but he never listens to me and i need someone to spend time with me please help?
2006-12-21 04:09:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he knows how i feel I have talked about it many many times but he just rolls his eyes and acts like a big bay saying fine i wont play on it ever again blah blah blah
oh and i will pick a best answer for the ten points
2006-12-21 04:19:43 · update #1
and the computer breaking wont work we have two of them and he biult boths so he could fix them :(
2006-12-21 04:21:09 · update #2
Try wearing some SEXY LINGERIE to bed, walk around it.. while he is on the computer... tease him,get his attention. AND THEN DO NOT GIVE HIM ANY! Tell him until he puts you first and put that stupid game last, that this would be the closest he WILL get to the CANDY DISH EVER AGAIN!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-21 04:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am hearing all the time how computers are addicting and how some people are getting professional help for it. One of my family members divorced over the same thing.
My advise would be to first try and tape him for a week so that he may see for his own eyes what your talking about.
(When you try and talk to him make sure that you are not coming at him with an attitude.)
If all else fails try and ask some one (that you are close with) to come over to your house to help with the kids. Then when he gets home put some food on the table and kiss him and tell him you have some thing to do. Then get on the computer. Stay on as long as he does. Do this for about a week and see if he then thinks that what he does is OK. If you do not like the idea of the kids not having you with them. Then have them with you. Have fun play games. Then try and talk to him. Point out that you are feeling alone and feeling left out of his life.
I do have to say I don't have this problem and not to sure if any of these tactics will work.
I hope you can get through to him.
2006-12-21 05:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has an addiction. You may need to consider marriage counseling. My friends just went through this only it was the wife that was addicted to the computer games. She gets up in the middle of the night to play. They are now divorced because of it.
2006-12-21 05:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically relax, tell your boss which you made a mistake, which you have been making some communication with the bagger yet no longer something which you thought may be frightening to the customer. You say sorry, (and actually say your sorry) I hate whilst people say I say sorry then in no way do. and then tell her it won't take place back. And next time do no longer communicate to the bagger till the customer is long gone. except it quite is paintings appropriate. you ought to make chit chat with the customer somewhat.
2016-10-15 09:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the computer for a while. Take it to the "Shop" to get it fixed, ,lol. The maybe he will get back to some sweet lovin, lol.
Good luck
2006-12-21 04:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the computer up and "pull out" his processor..that will do it..
Or you could get on there yourself just as he is coming in the door..And hog the computer.Men can be such "little Boys".
2006-12-21 04:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be mean, but if your husband would rather play guild wars then spend time with you, maybe that's something you have to do with it. go see a marriage councilor
2006-12-21 04:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he want get any.....anymore, unless he starts to give you some time....or stop doing what you do for him, stop cooking, or cleaning, until he meets you at least half way......Hold your own girl, don't let him ignore you, Tell him it's you or that stupid computer..........
2006-12-21 04:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by shoppingdiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get stern. Let him know you have needs just like he does. Let him know . if you do, love him, and if he loves you, you ned to communicate and change times around. Let him know if your needs, just like his aren't met couples usually stray off to get their needs met. Let him know you don't want that at all, but if he loves you he will spend time with you.
2006-12-21 04:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have three kids, and need a husband.
2006-12-21 04:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋