Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

one of my best friends told my absolute best friend about a rumor that was being spread about me, instead of coming to me and seeing if it was even true. I think i've lost my trust for her, but i don't know if i should or if i'm over reacting. if she's as close to me as she says she is, she shouldn't be telling other people rumors about me without coming to me about them right?? what should i do?

2006-12-21 10:18:04 · 11 answers · asked by Blaire 3 in Friends

sadies is coming up and i havent asked anyone yet. all my guy friends are taked and the one guy i was planning to ask....i dont know if he likes me. all of his friends have told me he does like me since last june but i dont know if theyre being serious. i dont want to ask him if he doesnt like me or doesnt want me to. what should i do???

2006-12-21 10:17:50 · 4 answers · asked by R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 10:16:47 · 6 answers · asked by val 2 in Singles & Dating

one of my friend (35 m, single) from India, is in love with a woman (US 75, widow, has two sons) over internet since last 4 years. he's almost mad for her and they speak on net over 2-3 hours daily. he wants to have a real life relationship with her but none of them has sufficient means to go abroad to live with. but he is trying. it's too difficult for them. i tried to make him to think practically but no way. he says he had lost his love one time before it due to his mistake (that he was too late to know how much he loved his ex f) now he can't go anymore with another mistake.

now i know how much love they do or feel for each other but i m helpless to do anything.

what do you think about him (and her, their future relationship)?
is he normal or there's some psycho problem with him??
how i can help him? (i don't want to interfere but i want happiness for my friends)

lookin forward to u 4 ans
if u can't answer then pls at least pray for them...

thnx 2 u in advance

2006-12-21 10:16:36 · 15 answers · asked by Freude Feuer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help me with these!!1?
ok if your SURE what any of these are please describe how yyou do it to me .
the one with best details get best answer!!!
lol and thanx
1-bench press
2-triceps extension
bicep extention
lat pull down
shoulder press
leg extension
hamstring curl
calf raise
and thaks again
... and i know this is not dating or wahtever but they didn answer my q when i put it on health category

2006-12-21 10:16:35 · 1 answers · asked by Italyfan 4 in Singles & Dating

i need help. i dont know how to break up with my boyfriend because hes going to be hurt. if we became friends, would it become tainted? it seems like no matter what i do, its the wrong choice. i just dont feel the same anymore. how do i go about doing this?

2006-12-21 10:16:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k i am at a moral dilema. im a senior in high school and im 17 and a half. there is a freshman i know who is 15 almost 16. would it be wrong to do stuff with her? im not talking about dating, im talking about hooking up.cuz 17 and 15 doesnt seem too bad, but freshman and senior just seems gross, as some freshman girls arent even fully matured. what does neone else think?

2006-12-21 10:15:52 · 27 answers · asked by tjthemac84 1 in Singles & Dating

The typical guy likes big-chested blonds. Why blonds? I don't get it.

2006-12-21 10:15:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok when she gets mad or ebrassed she takes a pair of shap sissors and cuttes he wrist on day at school she was getting embressed at lunch because she thought this boys name was ninko but it phabbon and when she went bake to her seet she took out a pair of sissiors and cut her wrist the next day she came to school with a bunch of cuts on her legs and wrist and know weres long sleeves what should i do help please .

2006-12-21 10:15:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 10:15:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay, for Christmas I got my boyfriend a bear, cologne, and I made him a necklace. Should I give him all three? I don't want to seem like I just buy him things to make him happy. So should I just give him 2 of the things or all three?PLEASE HELP!

2006-12-21 10:13:30 · 11 answers · asked by tadpole 2 in Singles & Dating

This summer i'm supposed to meet a guy from Tenino,Washington and I dont know if a want to meet him.He
is gonna stay at a hotel but he says he will come and see me late during the night while my parents are asleep.A day after he gets in the state we are going to meet at the mall with my friends.My parents dont know but i'm not planning on telling them.I'm also afraid that he might tell them about me and him.He is in high school and i'm not.When he arrives in my state he wants to meet me and date me.i dont know if i should meet him but i think i might try it.most of my friends will be there when i meet him


please give me reasonable answers

2006-12-21 10:13:22 · 15 answers · asked by ·.·•ς๏ς๏•·.· 1 in Singles & Dating

one of my friend (35 m, single) from India, is in love with a woman (US 75, widow, has two sons) over internet since last 4 years. he's almost mad for her and they speak on net over 2-3 hours daily. he wants to have a real life relationship with her but none of them has sufficient means to go abroad to live with. but he is trying. it's too difficult for them. i tried to make him to think practically but no way. he says he had lost his love one time before it due to his mistake (that he was too late to know how much he loved his ex f) now he can't go anymore with another mistake.

now i know how much love they do or feel for each other but i m helpless to do anything.

what do you think about him (and her, their future relationship)?
is he normal or there's some psycho problem with him??
how i can help him? (i don't want to interfere but i want happiness for my friends)

lookin forward to u 4 ans
if u can't answer then pls at least pray for them...

thnx 2 u in advance

2006-12-21 10:13:07 · 7 answers · asked by Freude Feuer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well it all started yesterday.

i was at basktball practice at an outdoor court and its like also a park. so there were some skater boys around and i said something and my coach made me run outside of the entire park. while i was running the boys were running behind me and saying things like "hey come back sexii" and im kinda used to having guys watch me when i run. well one of the girls on the team told my BF and hes mad at me. i think im going to break up with him, its not my fault.
tell me what you think i should do

2006-12-21 10:12:57 · 6 answers · asked by DanceForJoy 3 in Singles & Dating

Last time she sad that, she cheated on me...... should I trust her again?

2006-12-21 10:11:57 · 8 answers · asked by Apollo 4 in Singles & Dating

just a little overweight, braces, blond hair w/blue eyes and a big chest. and funny

2006-12-21 10:11:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been living with my boyfriend for a year, and he's allergic to grass and some plants, so no plants can be touched at any time.
Since September, his OCD has become extremely severe. I was at school this semester, and he wouldn't let me touch my schoolbooks or notebooks. He'll ask the same question hundreds of times in a row (Usually, "Am I clean?"). There's a gigantic pile of laundry in my bedroom, because he'll throw clean clothes back in when they've just been washed. I can't bring food inside or use my own toilet. He makes me take 32 showers in a row, and he won't let me use my phone because it's "dirty." He keeps promising to "clean" it, but doesn't, then says it's my fault for asking about it (makes him nervous). The dishes haven't been washed in 4 months. I told him 2 months ago that we would need to go to couples therapy or our relationship would fall apart. We haven't. He is not currently in therapy or on medication. He does not pay rent.

2006-12-21 10:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by Melissa J 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean?

2006-12-21 10:11:16 · 4 answers · asked by laney_ivin 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend very much but I felt I was making a lot of the effort in the relationship. He is my soulmate. I upset both of us the other night in a tantrum of tears. It was just a build up of niggling things. I ring him more often than he rings me, and I make a lot of effort with organising things for both of us. Also he hasn't introduced me to his family yet, I am with him over a year. He is a very genuine guy and a bit quiet and deep. So I don't get to hear his plans, also he is laid back in some ways. However I think we are getting on v.well but I had an outburst the other night, I must have been frustrated etc. I have apologised and he said not to worry about it. How can I make him understand that I trust him with all my heart and love him so much. I'm worried that he now thinks I am a out of order. It was out of character for me, I have upset us both for no reason and now I am worried that I ahve rocked the boat between us. Any advice? Thks.

2006-12-21 10:10:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 18 and a freshman in college at Ohio State and I was a virgin until two weeks ago. I was at a house party and I was drinking (I know I know I shouldn't have been.) Anyhow this guy started making out with me and one thing led to another and before I knew it we were in a dark bedroom in the back of the house and he was on top of me. I tried to get away and struggled for a bit but he was bigger than me so I couldn't. I wanted to scream out for him to stop but I didn't. When he was inside me it hurt so much I can't even describe. When it was over I was crying and he just left the room. I feel like this scrumbag ruined my life. I was saving myself for marriage. Now all I think about is that I want to die.

I found out who he was. He's a star player on our football team. If I report this it will make the news. Maybe even national news becuase I've been told he's really, really good and a lot of people across the country know who he his.

I just don't know what to do.

2006-12-21 10:10:37 · 20 answers · asked by boob girl 1 in Singles & Dating

A smile is just a smile nothing more! Im having a problem with my girl because i smiled at another women but it wasnt that serious! Now she's having another one of her mood swings! You women are krazy!

2006-12-21 10:10:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 10:09:27 · 17 answers · asked by starone 3 in Singles & Dating

OK I know how this sounds and I do love....but he excites me in a way she never could....I just want to be happy only now she is suicidal and I'm a little worried.......she said she'll overdose if I don't come back and she has my 2 year old boy with her......my new boyfriend is really supportive and has told me I should really think about it for a while so I went on holiday to clear my head and see who I missed more....I met a waitress and I think I want to marry her now.....now my boyfriend has made death threats to kill me....so it's either I be killed and my wife dies...or I stay with my boyfriend my wife dies and my girlfriend gives away my new baby daughter we just had...or I go back to my wife and have my baby given away and I am killed along with my wife and son....so tough choice huh?

2006-12-21 10:09:22 · 26 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

You are there

I see you when i close my eyes tight,
And even in the morning light.
When there is a smile on my face,
I am never far from your warm imbrace.
And when i kneel down at night for prayer,
You are almost always there.
So today I wanted you to see,
Just how much of a blessing you are to me.

*************************************************************

Is it good? What would you change about it?

2006-12-21 10:08:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, I am a woman who has been with my man for 11 years, NO BREAKS...eveything is great and we never fight! It's amazing! I know we will be together till the day we die... But I am not the type of woman that cares about getting married and having this ceremony and spending all this money for one day. I figure, "if it isn't broke, why fix it!" I am not a religious person, so i thought that may have a big part in it. But i just don't think a peice of paper is such a big deal! Am I weird? Why do women care so much about doing this? is it to be center of attention?

2006-12-21 10:07:35 · 17 answers · asked by S.F 2 in Weddings

My bf, who just last week said we were MADE 4 each other, called me and broke up w/me ovr vmail. I called him to ask y, he said I wasn't his type. It'd peed me off sooo bad!

2006-12-21 10:07:17 · 30 answers · asked by love_me_lots1624 1 in Singles & Dating

Just today I seen on my boyfriend of 5 years' HotorNot website that he had messaged a girl (total stranger) in the Meet Me section saying she was a hottie/cutie/sexy and that she sould msg him back cause he lived close to her. Is that cheating without phyical contact? Cause I am super pissed and sick about it. Am I overreacting?

2006-12-21 10:06:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok...i like one of my best guy friends. his girlfriend is 1 of my best friends...wat should i do?

2006-12-21 10:06:14 · 16 answers · asked by preppy ana cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

ok ive known this guy for 15 years since i was born and ive liked him for almost three years i mean we kissed flirted and prstically made out. I want to ask him out but now we go to different schools and i think that my friends would tease me if i went out with a firnd i think that he likes me to but im not sure, also i think he answered a prevoius question i asked on yahoo about him what should i do

2006-12-21 10:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by shortysherry46 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 10:04:29 · 19 answers · asked by ade s 1 in Marriage & Divorce