OK I know how this sounds and I do love....but he excites me in a way she never could....I just want to be happy only now she is suicidal and I'm a little worried.......she said she'll overdose if I don't come back and she has my 2 year old boy with her......my new boyfriend is really supportive and has told me I should really think about it for a while so I went on holiday to clear my head and see who I missed more....I met a waitress and I think I want to marry her now.....now my boyfriend has made death threats to kill me....so it's either I be killed and my wife dies...or I stay with my boyfriend my wife dies and my girlfriend gives away my new baby daughter we just had...or I go back to my wife and have my baby given away and I am killed along with my wife and son....so tough choice huh?
2006-12-21 10:09:22 · 26 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-12-21 10:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Because I Said So 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nice question!
You're either going to be judged by one group, or told that being gay is okay no matter what by another group.
So, change the question: Is it okay to leave the woman I committed to for life to be with someone who excites me (and changing the life of my child). What is the question you're asking really when you say "...the RIGHT thing..."
I don't believe it was the right thing. It wasn't the right thing when I left my wife. I have a daughter and I know statistically (and by dropping her off with my ex-wife each week), that I've likely messed her up in some ways.
There really aren't any words anyone can say that I can use to convince myself that it was an "okay thing to do". I have done it though. I'm going to forgive myself and do my best to give my daughter a loving home and undo the damage I've done.
2006-12-21 10:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Portence Blitherschnork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you got mental issues. This sound like a Springer episode.
2006-12-21 11:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by naya w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say! 1st u leave your wife go gay then take a break then meet a woman you like and get her pregnant. man you must be nuts to be dealin with that good luck!!! wow u are very crazy!!!!
2006-12-21 10:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by dauschaundlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first - cut your thing off - its the thing causing you all the problems.
then set up an arrangement wherby you spend a third of your week with each of these people who so desperately want you in their lives.
its the only solution
2006-12-21 10:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he continues to be contacting you because it replaced into not really person-friendly to go away yet when he does not love you want you should be loved then he might want to go away. would you extremely he basically fake it because he made a promise? maximum relationships initiate with an infatuation. circumstances tells if it ought to mature into love.
2016-12-01 01:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er yes, very tough indeed. Good luck making sense of the tangled web you have weaved!!
2006-12-21 10:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by katieplatie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man how can people like you have kids. I hope you know your kids are going to be all addicted to drugs or mentally screwed up because their parents can't get a handle on life.
2006-12-21 10:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jack J 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd recommend seeing a counsellor on this one. Everyone else will just offer you silly answers
2006-12-21 10:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by Natalie B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEITHER ONE OF THOSE THINGS IS GONNA HAPPEN IF YOU PLAY IT RIGHT THE ONLY PROBLEM YOU PUT YOUR SELF IN A PICKLE MEANING YOU LIKE THREE PEOPLE BREAK IT OFF WITH THE ONE THAT MOST ANNOYS AND IRRITATES YOU
2006-12-21 10:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
man you are in a tough jam!
what did you do that made all this sh*t happen
ummmm
tell everyone that you cant handle it and leave the country
2006-12-21 10:14:50 · answer #11 · answered by penman11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋