ok...i like one of my best guy friends. his girlfriend is 1 of my best friends...wat should i do?
2006-12-21 10:06:14 · 16 answers · asked by preppy ana cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do nothing. Just because an urge or feeling strikes you doesn't mean you're obligated or even entitled to act on it.
2006-12-21 10:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what you should do, girl. I know you understand Karma and I know that you know how it feels. It hurts like hell. Every seed you plant you get back MORE so take a deep breathe think about "staying right" because you really don't want all that %^$& coming back atcha. I know how flattering and turned on you may be due to this guys attention, looks or even his personality but sweetie, let that go until at least you and that girl haven't spoke in about four or five months and you know you won't have to see her much anymore, cause if she catches y'all at the club..."it's going DOWN!!" If he's worth all that then by all means...enjoy.
2006-12-21 10:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, Preppy Ana, I would enjoy my friendship with this friend and, if and when his relationship with your girlfriend ends, step in and take over. Don't ruin your friendship with the girl by trying to step in now as he may not feel the same. Be the best friend you can be to both.
2006-12-21 10:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by lenypenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...take a spelling class. Then learn something about friendship. NEVER, NEVER, NEVER choose a guy over your best friend. There are a million guys to choose from and best friends only come along maybe once or twice in your life.
2006-12-21 10:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything. You could ruin your friendship with that guy if you tell him, because he might see you as decietful. Being he is dating your friend. Just stand back and see how it works out for them. Don't cause yourself any heartache
2006-12-21 10:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by mozartbuffy69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say don't do anything. if he feels the same way about you he'll probably break up with her, but if he doesn't you don't wanna break up the relationship for your best friend. who knows? it may be just a fleeting crush and you'll move on really soon!
2006-12-21 10:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by meaganrox24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, its better that you stay being friend, rather than ruining your friendship, which is more painful at the end, there are a lot of guys there, which is available
2006-12-21 10:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by the Magician's Assistant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, it all depends.....does he like you as a gf? If so then go for it but make sure that he and his girlfriend are not together before trying.
2006-12-21 10:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by me_myself 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just try and ignore it
my best friend did that to me and my Xbf slept with her and i wont even spit in either of their directions now. and its a shame cuz he was a good bf and she was my best friend and she was going to be my maid of honor.
2006-12-21 10:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by JOrdan M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait until she breaks up with him if she is really a good friend, because if u don't she will never forgive u. so who is more important him or her.
2006-12-21 10:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by Nora G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋