This summer i'm supposed to meet a guy from Tenino,Washington and I dont know if a want to meet him.He
is gonna stay at a hotel but he says he will come and see me late during the night while my parents are asleep.A day after he gets in the state we are going to meet at the mall with my friends.My parents dont know but i'm not planning on telling them.I'm also afraid that he might tell them about me and him.He is in high school and i'm not.When he arrives in my state he wants to meet me and date me.i dont know if i should meet him but i think i might try it.most of my friends will be there when i meet him
please give me reasonable answers
2006-12-21 10:13:22 · 15 answers · asked by ·.·•ς๏ς๏•·.· 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you do this, you'll be sorry and you could be putting your entire family at risk, including your parents. Are you sure he's in high school and isn't a 48 year old pervert? No.
2006-12-21 10:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO! Okay, just because he says he's in high school, doesn't mean he really is. He could be a 42 year old man. You should never meet someone you met off the internet--and don't give him your home address, for god's sake! If you absolutely feel the need to meet him, tell your parents.
It was smart of you to make a friend come--because you should not trust this person. If he is trustworthy, and he is who you think he is, then there is no harm done by telling your parents--yes, they will be mad, but rightfully so. It is likely he is a creep who wants to hurt you.
2006-12-21 10:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Briar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want a reasonable and honest answer,well here it goes...........
YOU ARE CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!
You shouldnt go.Even if you are with your friends,it doesnt matter.He might not be in high school he could be 35 for all you know!Alls i'm telling you is you could get killed!!!!!Do you realy want that?Theres a thing called lying.Yes th mall might be crowded,and yes theres your friends,but that doesnt mean anything.He could meet you in a dark alley.Or kidnapp you before you get a chance to scream.Please dont go what ever you do.If you go,that could be your last trip to the mall,AND your last trip.And you might NOT come home!Dont go.If you go,you are putting yourself in too much danger and your friends!You dont want your friends gone just because of the this guy do you??I mean,if you knew him,and talked,and met him in person before,and have known him a while,that would be different.But this guy you have never met,and lives in another part of the world,that doesnt seem right.Alls i'm saying,is if you want to take the chance of getting you and your friends killed,or injured or something like that,then go.If you dont,dotn go.Say you got grounded for a while.And simply dont talk to him anymore.If he knows where you live,PLEASE TELL YOUR PARENTS IF HE DOES!!!!!HE COULD PULL SOMETHING AT NIGHT!!!Thats all i'm telling you.I'm just worning you.
2006-12-21 10:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not in high school. He's talking about hotels already--he's a fully grown man, and probably ugly as all sin.
Guaranteed. You want a sure-fire way of finding out for sure?
Next time you are chatting online tell him to give you his phone number and you need to call him NOW. Not later, now.
Get his phone number, call him, collect. Insist on it. Tell him you need to know he's not a weirdo. If he doesn't give you his number, you busted him--he's a creepy pedo, a MAN.
Better yet, go register to talk in the forums with the group called perverted-justice.com. They'll take care of him for you and find out who he really is.
Sneak into your room while your parents are asleep? How about he comes over to MEET your parents? Tell him that's your new personal rule, tell him your friend just ran into a pedo on the net so you are putting new rules in place. He'll understand, yah right.
He's already talking of dating but do you have his picture and KNOW it's really him? Have you spoken on the phone--do you have his real phone number and name? You get that from caller ID, and don't trust him if it's blocked. You learn what his address is because you're going to send him a little present, a key chain or something simple. You get all the info and don't trust ANYONE who is on the internet until you make them jump through hoops to earn your trust. Your life literally depends upon it.
These guys are experts in making girls (and boys) all whoozy and in love--it's called "grooming." They find any weakness you have, they've got some kind of sick sense to detect these things. They're predators.
If you want my email address I'll find a way to get it to you to discuss this further. But you really should just to to www.perverted-justice.com and post about this in their forums.
2006-12-21 10:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Vik 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of a rough subject. Most of the people on here are going to tell you that he's a predator and all this stuff. I met a guy online who lived in California. I dated him long distance for about 4 months, and then he finally (with the permission of my parents) came out to visit me for a week. And believe me, my parents are some of the most strict people in the world.
In your case, its a difficult subject because I don't know how long you guys have been talking online. If its only been a couple weeks or so, and he's pushing to meet you, then I would be careful. If you've been dating him online for a long time, and you decided mutually to meet, then it may be okay.
When it comes to telling your parents, I think you probably should for your own safety. But having your friends with you and being in a public place is very smart of you.
2006-12-21 10:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Abby C 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's in high school, but you aren't? You didn't say how old you were. I would not meet anyone without a group of friends with me at all times. I would not meet him alone. It's not safe. You see the stories on the news about girls being abducted and raped, etc. Don't put yourself at risk. You are worth more than that!
2006-12-21 10:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello?! Have you seen "To catch a predator"??? Are you fricking CRAZY? It is soooooooo unsafe to meet ANYONE from an
"e-lationship"! Horrible idea. For all you know, he is some 40 year old child molester who just wants to meet you just to rape you! I would NOT do this. You could really get hurt! And even if your friends ARE there, what could they do to protect you? It isn't safe at ALL. For your own safety don't do it! (I would tell your parents about it too. If this guy knows where you live, you could be in danger. They really ought to know about this.)
2006-12-21 10:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by panic_l0ve 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This has disaster written all over it. Girls meeting guys over the internet wind up on the back of milk cartons. In other words: ABDUCTED!!! The only smart thing I read in your entry was that you are meeting in a very public place and you are bringing friends.
2006-12-21 10:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to come and meet you late at night when your parents are asleep then you should not meet him. Stay away from him. It sounds dangerous
2006-12-21 10:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 13:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋