i need help. i dont know how to break up with my boyfriend because hes going to be hurt. if we became friends, would it become tainted? it seems like no matter what i do, its the wrong choice. i just dont feel the same anymore. how do i go about doing this?
2006-12-21 10:16:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest, and move on. Being old enough to have a boyfriend means you have to be old enough to be honest.
2006-12-21 10:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with breaking up with someone; you should not feel guilty unless you have knowingly and purposefully deceived a person. In relationships, it is important to be honest - even if it means telling the other person that you are no longer interested in maintaining a relationship. Honesty and openness is the right choice. Yes, he might feel hurt; but if one is afraid to get hurt, one should never even think of being involved in a relationship or a friendship. You cannot be responsible for the choices other people make - only for your own choices. Just be honest with him, be respectful, tell him the truth; it will not be pleasant for either of you, but not everything in life is peaches and cream. Good luck.
2006-12-21 10:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to someplace quiet and peaceful or on a long walk on the beach or in the woods. You begin by telling him something good you like about him (remember how you felt in the begining of the relationship?) Then tell him carefully and clearly that you are no longer interested in him as a boyfriend. You tell him your feelings - ask how he is feeling. Then end the conversation saying something nice about him again. This is called a couching coversation - we use it when we have to deliver bad news.
Good luck sweety
2006-12-21 10:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he would take your feelings into consideration. You would be doing him a favor by allowing him to be with someone who can love him back just as much as he does. If you allow it to carry on it's just gonna get worse and harder. You don't want to stay with each other and end up resenting each other
good luck
2006-12-21 10:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up...if you dont love him, dump him and find someone you do love and let him find someone who loves him....life is filled with pain and disappointments ....u just need to grow up and learn to make adult decisions on how to best remedy them....if you two break up, in 10 years you wont even think of one another because you will both be with someone who makes you happy...
2006-12-21 10:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by j c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. It hurts more for you to continue the lie than to just tell him.
2006-12-21 10:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you make up a fight, like be very picky, find something that will apset you, then you can brake up with him...
2006-12-21 10:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by inna2507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you just don't really like him like that anymore but you enjoy being his friend
2006-12-21 10:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by Sexii_Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's his number? ill tell him to read this
2006-12-21 10:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just end it, you will find love one day
2006-12-21 10:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋