Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

2006-12-19 17:50:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a girl that I love imensley (J), and in fact I was in a long distance reltionship for 2 years, and were technically engaged for a bit, but as I said, it was very long dist. and thus why we're not officially dating anymore. Though, there;s no official title, to me at least, b/c I can't deal with it unless could be actually together, it's essetialy the same as before, in terms of the emothional aspect, and been thinkin more about moving tranfering to be with her, even asked managers/personel at my job about what would need to do. Until recently, there been nothing other than personal insecutrities that seem to be in the way of my feelin for here and going, but there's recently become an affection I feel toward a girl I work with (A), not saying i'd ever have a chance with her; but my question is this Is it right/inconsiderate to think about tryin to start someth with (A), when (J) is such a huge part of my life, when I may not be able to give all myself to them (A)?

2006-12-19 17:49:44 · 2 answers · asked by RCj 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 17:49:34 · 15 answers · asked by sudhakar s 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that i really like and i feel like we could wind up together for a pretty significant amount of time we share alot of the same intrests and understand each other like nobody else can.........but we are only 15 and16 so do you think that our love could last through high school and college to continue on as adults?

2006-12-19 17:48:01 · 18 answers · asked by jamie_lynn_1109 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this really cute guy at my school but here's the problem, he is one of the most popular guys in school and I am average at popularity. I see him three times a week at swim team but he hardly ever talks with me. Almost all the girls in school like him but for some reason he dosen't have a girlfriend. I am one of the people that likes him for who he is and not for his looks or popularity. Please help me, I don't know what to do.

2006-12-19 17:47:11 · 23 answers · asked by Pop 1 in Singles & Dating

I know there are pros and conts about this issues, that's why I want to anayze these rationally.

Anybody's here daring enough to defend its argument here?

PS: Please be rational and respect the other's answers! I don't want to start emotional insults or offensive comments or any "religious" POV here. Just logical and rational opinion as your answer. Thank you all!

2006-12-19 17:44:06 · 6 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you believe in platonic friendship?

2006-12-19 17:43:07 · 17 answers · asked by deeper28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just started talking to him like an hour ago.. and i'm nervouse
what should we talk about??

2006-12-19 17:43:05 · 5 answers · asked by vintagecrayon21 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married three months. Already know we're getting a divorce, I know it's ridiculous but that's just how it is. I was just wondering what the process is like, and if maybe it'll be a little easier or cheaper legally because we share nothing together, no mortage, cars, possessions, bank account, nothing. The only thing we have is a title. We live in michigan if that makes any bit of difference.

2006-12-19 17:40:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

People say I have a face that only a mother could love. But I'm smarter than all of them, so does it really matter?

2006-12-19 17:39:59 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

does it really matter if ur boyfriends like a year and a half yunger.
but like he act mor mature the u.
is it wrong

2006-12-19 17:38:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i get a man to see me exclusively?:

2006-12-19 17:35:42 · 17 answers · asked by bookdivatink 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it as dreadful as they all say it is?

2006-12-19 17:35:33 · 28 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is he Flirting?
Well.I went to sign up with a gym, and the trainer was kinda cute, I mean he was decent, and we talked for along time about health, and he made an appointment, and at the end of the conversation, he gave me his cell phone number in case I wanted to reschedule and told me that if I needed help with anything let him know....okay as an update, he called me liek a few days later, to remind me to come in, So I showed up, and we went through some exercises,and I told him that I couldn't really afford a trainer, and he's says he's going to give me sessions until I can, so then he asks me when can I come in and see him again, I said sometime the beggining of January, and he's like well, I'll give you free sessions, can you come in next week, and I was like okay, if it's free, and then he was like well you have me cell phone number..just in case..so do you think he was flirting or doing his job?Honestly? And is it against the law .

2006-12-19 17:33:35 · 20 answers · asked by Jenn B 1 in Singles & Dating

He's 24 (I'm 19), but he acts and thinks like a 50 yr old. We don't yet live together. Cheap things do not amuse him, nor due cute things (like a photo album of us). He's not into any sports, and not very good w/ technology. He loves history (anything that makes Italians look good), and mofia related things. I already got him the Godfather DVD collection, but I want to get him something else too, any ideas? Oh yea, I only have $50 left.

2006-12-19 17:33:31 · 14 answers · asked by March Mommie 07 3 in Singles & Dating

For the last couple of days, I have looked over and through these Q&A's in order to put to rest some fears of my own, but they've only raised another question.
The basics: 19, male, nothing outrageous to remark on, EXCEPT:
The problem: I have a certain attraction to women's feet, but not to the degree that one could label it a "fetish". More like...a minor sexual interest.
Another problem: After looking, I found that some women are into the foot thing, while others are not.
My question: If one was to just meet a woman, and had to use any clue given to their disposal, would there be certain signs or suggestions that could be interpreted to determine how open minded a woman would be towards my situation, in the event that I reveal my flirtatious interest in women's feet?
To elaborate: I know that there are definate personality types that would be open to such things, but this is instead in regard to those who are more ambiguous...who are harder to read. What do I do then?

2006-12-19 17:31:23 · 6 answers · asked by Josh 2 in Singles & Dating

i love agurl.i know she has a lot of fellings for me..but she never express her feelings coz sum of her frnds have motivated her in such a way that she doesnt realise the wat is ryt nd wat is wrong..those frnds of her are really so .......bttr not to say....playboy kind of gurls.....plz temme how can i realise my gf that i m ryt...my frnds are sayin me...leve everythin upon god...but i cant ...thre has been a lot of gap between us.....plz teme how to handle the situation...in a good way..plz in a GOOD WAY!

2006-12-19 17:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by u_make_my_life_better 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 17:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by matrimony x 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.

2006-12-19 17:27:55 · 11 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Friends

i never had a girlfriend i'm 27. Anyways, i never ever see any women where i go. I go to the library all i see is homeless people in the grass. old people and a few elder women. But women my age are no where to be seen. Do most women use Cars or do they not frequent any of the places i frequent.

This is what i frequent and rarely do i see any women my age:
-Supermarket
-Employment agency
-Library
-gardening job
-convenience store
-walking in the streets( not downtown so it's not populated)

2006-12-19 17:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lol...I'll be the first to admit it. Have not life at the moment!! Might as well help others, right? ;)

Plus, reading all the "omg I'm single oh no" dilemma's is quite funny :)

Being single isn't THAT bad, haha

2006-12-19 17:26:33 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help me out here. I am in a relationship with a guy who has been ok with me but I think that our relationship isnt really going anywhere. I have problems in the sex department with my guy being a little too under endowed to really satisfy me. Now I have had a fling with this guy who is not doing too well inlife but is amazing in the sack. I am obsessed with every inch of him and we really gel well in bed. What to do? Should I try and work out my relationship with my little guy or do I just call it quits and stick with King kong?

2006-12-19 17:25:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my b/f is the best thing thats happend to me ever!!. and his mom recently got transfered to switzerland. hes ther now and its been 3 long days w/ out him. at school when ever some one talks about someting i alwasy think of him and wen ever im huged i keep thinking its him [but its not cos hes in another country]



we are still dateing and we promised each other we would visit and we still tlak alot. but how can i cope with him being so far and me just wanting to throw my arms around him and hold him every secound.?!?


god help!

2006-12-19 17:25:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 17:23:34 · 13 answers · asked by Indian 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 17:23:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I go on loveing someone when I know that I love them with my heart and soul but he is with another women. He has been w/ her 4 2 months now. He was here for visitation with my son and **** just happened, he was flirting with me and then kissed me, then he told me I love you and all this stuff about missing me and wanting me back for me not my son, well after that we made love and ****. My menstration was just ending we had sex unprotected like usual and is it possible that I could be pregnant? The next day he was supposed to break up with her but they talked and he knows how she feels now supposedly, I feel like I was used. Do you think it is time for me to move on? Do you think that he still loves me? The girl he is with was his first love they were on and off for like 2 months here and there 5 years ago. Me n him were 2gether for 3 years we have a kid together in a way. What should I do? Should I tell him he needs to figure out who he loves and who he is in love wit?

2006-12-19 17:21:48 · 10 answers · asked by livinlife06 1 in Singles & Dating

I like her but bit nervous to tell though we r good friends still a fear in me.

2006-12-19 17:21:04 · 19 answers · asked by HEMANT K 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 17:18:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what's the best thing that happened to you this year, and what are you hoping for in 2007?

2006-12-19 17:18:31 · 20 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just don't know. We have been mariied for a year and together for many more. This year has been crap and we haven't got along at all. I do love him and always will, but I don't think this is enough. He will never listen to me when I want to speak. He never makes me feel special or important to him. He'd rather do other things and spend his money on his hobby than try to work things out with me. I tell him how I feel and he just gets shitty and doesn't respond to me, I don't know what to do. I'm only 23 and don't want to waste years in a marriage that doesn't feel worth it. I wish he would show me that it is worth it and show me that it's worth being in but at the moment I feel it is useless being in this marriage especially when he won't listen to me and try to work things out with me. There has to be something I can do but I just don't know what. I want to grow old with him but not when the relationship is like this, I think we would both be happier living seperately.

2006-12-19 17:18:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce