i love agurl.i know she has a lot of fellings for me..but she never express her feelings coz sum of her frnds have motivated her in such a way that she doesnt realise the wat is ryt nd wat is wrong..those frnds of her are really so .......bttr not to say....playboy kind of gurls.....plz temme how can i realise my gf that i m ryt...my frnds are sayin me...leve everythin upon god...but i cant ...thre has been a lot of gap between us.....plz teme how to handle the situation...in a good way..plz in a GOOD WAY!
2006-12-19 17:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by u_make_my_life_better 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have no idea what you are talking about. is english a second language??
2006-12-19 17:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it sounds like she is being easily persuaded by her friends about u and thats not good. Imagine if your friends were to say that she was not good for u and maybe their not right but what you feel should ultimately decide the best course of action. Same goes for her. You have to be able to show how confident you are about yourself and tell her you want a relationship with her. Take her out to dinner would be a nice place to start.
2006-12-19 17:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by J Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything that you said to her doesn't reach her ears then show how much you care and what you said was true by your action. If she really loves you,she should know that what you are trying to do is for her own good. At the same time,don't upset her by telling her that her friends are bad. She has the right to be whoever she wants to friend with.
2006-12-19 17:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by FloralLover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl is not right for you. if she is being influenced by other girls what to do, and she follows concerning her feelings for you, they're not true feelings.
if she did love you, she wouldnt let anyone tell her how to feel/act towards you.
in due time, if she matures a bit, maybe she'll see be better in the relationship.
but get out of a relationship in which others are in. let her grow up
2006-12-19 17:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) use check spelling before send your Q or answer , ITS FREE.
2) an advice you should pay me for , leave her , dont ever make any strong relation with anybody controlled by others , if gods helped you now and u started a good hot relation, later u will face more and more problems , because of others opinion , i have been there .ALOT
2006-12-19 17:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by mild9779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kay, so i like aguy and am in he same situation. if she has feelings for you and doesn't express them, then she's shy. well about the sitch, if u want ur gf to realise that u r the ryt 1, treat her well. if this is not what your talking about then i don't know what you're talking about. sorry : (
2006-12-19 17:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥kina♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her away from her friends.
Not forever but for at least a month.
Go up to her when shes with her friends and take her to a place where you and her are together and can get to know each other better on a more intamate level
2006-12-19 17:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay,
1) no offense, but REALLY put in more effort in spelling things correctly... you spell the word "right" r-i-g-h-t and "girl" g-i-r-l
not to mention "friends" f-r-i-e-n-d-s and "leave" l-e-a-v-e
if you think you're being cool by typing things that way, trust me, it's lame.
2) does she know you love her?
3) spend more time with her
4) persuade her to not listen to her friends.
hope it helps!
2006-12-19 17:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that she is a women who has a mind of her own , you need to respect that and give her time and space ~if it was meant to be it was meant to be ..best of luck !
2006-12-19 17:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by silvertouch2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her everything that you feel...be open and honest.
2006-12-19 17:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by curtf1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋