For the last couple of days, I have looked over and through these Q&A's in order to put to rest some fears of my own, but they've only raised another question.
The basics: 19, male, nothing outrageous to remark on, EXCEPT:
The problem: I have a certain attraction to women's feet, but not to the degree that one could label it a "fetish". More like...a minor sexual interest.
Another problem: After looking, I found that some women are into the foot thing, while others are not.
My question: If one was to just meet a woman, and had to use any clue given to their disposal, would there be certain signs or suggestions that could be interpreted to determine how open minded a woman would be towards my situation, in the event that I reveal my flirtatious interest in women's feet?
To elaborate: I know that there are definate personality types that would be open to such things, but this is instead in regard to those who are more ambiguous...who are harder to read. What do I do then?
2006-12-19 17:31:23 · 6 answers · asked by Josh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all sexual interests take time to be revealed in a typical relationship. if everything was spelled out for you, then it wouldn't be any fun. after a few dates you can ask her if she wants a foot rub. that is a good way to find out without being too kinky.
hey, everyone has their own turn-ons.... you will find that special woman who suits you eventually... in the mean time, have fun with all the wrong ones... why not?
personally, i think feet are gross... but then again... mine are like sand paper... ewwww....
2006-12-19 17:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Josh, tough question because "open minded" may or may not include some specifics. Whatever your preferences might be, your partner might not enjoy the same interests. How do you find someone with similar interests? Ask. I have met women who liked many different things but I had to ask to find out about them.We all have preferences and prejudices. I don't like some brands of beer. some things I simply refuse to do. So, choose you own brand of poison and good luck to you.
2006-12-19 17:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a huge foot fan...granted I am a swimmer and see ugly feet all the time. But, I can tell you from experience...if a woman takes good care of her feet/pedicures/painting/lotion/buff...they prolly would progress into your massages...and go from there. Don't be scary, though. Not everyone is comfortable with it and it is a ticklish spot for others. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-19 17:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by klg4653 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a foot fetish, sounds like mine is more severe than urs, but the main thing is to get to know any girl first b4 u tell her any attractions or sexual interests u have. most girls if they get to know u first and if they like u and ur personality wont care about any interests/fetishes u have because they care about u not wht u like. so hold off on tellin any girls about ur liking for feet, if they ask u to massage their feet however, that might b the best time to bring it up.
2006-12-19 23:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by Matt P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate. There's no underhanded way to find out things about that. You can either bring it up, or you can listen to her talk.
A good way to let her take the reins of conversation is, when you begin to talk about sex and sexual interests, see where she goes with it. Listen intently. Pick up clues. Then you can form your own hypothesis.
Buena suerte!
2006-12-19 17:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by rayediance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... you cant tell right away. try giving her a foot massage and if shes really into it then proceed.
2006-12-19 17:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by JoHanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋